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merrily

(45,251 posts)
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:35 PM Mar 2016

NOT limited to DU: On ANY message board, why would you put someone on ignore?

I have gone from priding myself on not putting anyone on ignore, to putting one incredibly annoying and persistent poster on ignore, to, most recently enjoying just the simplyu act of hitting the ignore button. So, I got curious. On any message board, what prompts you (no pun intended) to use ignore as to a poster?

Sample answers

Often inaccurate, intentionally or not
Posts tediously predictably
Trolls almost every thread with some one line, dumb ass post, often an ad hom
Rarely posts anything useful.



Post serious replies and/or just have fun with it--your choice.

This is not a poll because I want the responses to be anything you feel, believe, want to fabricate, want to laugh at, etc.

Besides, internet polls don't count. http://www.democraticunderground.com/128083341


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NOT limited to DU: On ANY message board, why would you put someone on ignore? (Original Post) merrily Mar 2016 OP
I've never, in my recollection, put anyone on ignore or hidden a post. ladjf Mar 2016 #1
I used to be able to say that. Ah, but I was so much older then. merrily Mar 2016 #6
Music to my eyes and ears! Thanks, Merrily!!!!! nt Land of Enchantment Mar 2016 #24
You're very welcome! merrily Mar 2016 #76
Same here! dorkzilla Mar 2016 #57
I can understand that. merrily Mar 2016 #82
Yes, I briefly put somone on ignore once. potone Mar 2016 #91
Good faith political debate has been in short supply here since at least 2014, but I managed merrily Mar 2016 #100
Thanks, a $1B in talent and lifetime of memories on that stage bigbrother05 Mar 2016 #177
Cool. You're welcome. merrily Mar 2016 #185
If you really believed in an open door policy Trajan Mar 2016 #15
I don't intend to admonish the DU owner about anything. If the owner make too many mistakes, ladjf Mar 2016 #27
Well ... It is called Democratic Underground for a reason ... Trajan Mar 2016 #32
It's a healthy choice. nt thereismore Mar 2016 #2
I have seen comments about improved blood pressure. merrily Mar 2016 #133
i have a few on ignore because i can not handle that much hate questionseverything Mar 2016 #3
LOL! Well done. merrily Mar 2016 #8
I must admit that witnessing the level of hatred is very depressing. ladjf Mar 2016 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author Stardust Mar 2016 #54
Yeah, but lots of us are assholes. Stardust Mar 2016 #56
Each to their own. nt ladjf Mar 2016 #123
Sorry, I was trying to be funny. Fail. nt Stardust Mar 2016 #124
So was I. ladjf Mar 2016 #136
I laughed at your post and also at ladf's. merrily Mar 2016 #138
Finally put my first person on ignore few days ago. Snide and hateful. U can probably guess who :) JudyM Mar 2016 #143
i am a terrible guesser...lol questionseverything Mar 2016 #147
Ha. G'morning, questionseverything! JudyM Mar 2016 #158
Yeah, that person is about to be my very first "ignore." I've had enough. nt Nay Mar 2016 #166
Bat $&it crazy... peace13 Mar 2016 #4
Good reasons. merrily Mar 2016 #120
I have put no one on ignore angstlessk Mar 2016 #5
Please see Reply 6 above. (Also, it's a pretty good performance) merrily Mar 2016 #11
Yes, a great performanse, but Bob Dylan was so much better! angstlessk Mar 2016 #19
? Bob Dylan was one of the performers on that video. merrily Mar 2016 #26
I did not see that...my apologies..like I said it was a great performance! angstlessk Mar 2016 #30
Maybe you did not recognize him. He doesn't look in that video the way he did in 1964. merrily Mar 2016 #35
I sse him now..the 'old' guy on the guitar still with his big hair! angstlessk Mar 2016 #40
30 years takes a toll! merrily Mar 2016 #103
But he still has 'it' angstlessk Mar 2016 #109
I can read 'em on one of my other browsers. When I intend to post, I want nothing to do with em VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #187
To be honest astrophuss42 Mar 2016 #7
Gotcha threads, pledge threads, "honest question for Bernie's supporters" threads, etc. merrily Mar 2016 #134
I have one member on ignore right now. CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2016 #9
Aw, Ms. Peggy! That had to have been one sick troll to want to hurt you. merrily Mar 2016 #12
Thank you, my dear merrily.... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2016 #28
Whoever he or she is, he or she is a troll to me! merrily Mar 2016 #34
You are too kind! CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2016 #44
Only because you are so very kind to everyone, CP. merrily Mar 2016 #45
Oh yeah? dorkzilla Mar 2016 #59
In your lavender-scented dreams, dorzilla. In your lavender-scented dreams! merrily Mar 2016 #66
Yes! dorkzilla Mar 2016 #70
That's a raspberry! merrily Mar 2016 #86
Suuuuuure it is merrily, suuuuuuuuuuure it is. dorkzilla Mar 2016 #87
. merrily Mar 2016 #89
I cleaned out my ignore list a while ago when I was having my crisis of faith. VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #188
There are those lost souls who are itching for a fight and I refuse to Land of Enchantment Mar 2016 #13
IIRC, one poster has about 300 on ignore. I very recently went from about 15 to over 50-- merrily Mar 2016 #16
I am now up to 350! NRaleighLiberal Mar 2016 #20
I wasn't going to name names, but it went up from 200 PDQ! LOL! merrily Mar 2016 #36
the trigger was when the first "other site" formed NRaleighLiberal Mar 2016 #77
I feel your your disdain. merrily Mar 2016 #88
You mean there's more than one insulting other site? VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #189
OMG, I LOVE the bird. I am so in love for anything with the bird. merrily Mar 2016 #29
Hola Merrily! I think it was a golden finch but I found an image of the lovely meadowlark Land of Enchantment Mar 2016 #101
Oh, my goodness. That may be one of the best compliments I've ever received. merrily Mar 2016 #113
75! You cleaned house! Can only imagine what a peaceful place DU must be for you now. JudyM Mar 2016 #161
some people are ugly, I did it when they accused me of being a troll repeatedly. hollysmom Mar 2016 #14
On some Dem boards, and not only DU, "troll" and "Republican troll" both mean merrily Mar 2016 #22
I put one person on ignore because of a hideous animated sig. Otherwise, I'm interested in Donkees Mar 2016 #17
Ooooo. I like that one. merrily Mar 2016 #23
I have hundreds on ignore Trajan Mar 2016 #18
My sister once said (not of her or me), adultery is like murder: merrily Mar 2016 #38
You just reminded me of a song... dorkzilla Mar 2016 #64
I wonder where my sister and Sting get their information? merrily Mar 2016 #72
Hahahaha dorkzilla Mar 2016 #79
Of course you can! merrily Mar 2016 #81
Ahhhh that would be what my hubby calls the murder channel unapatriciated Mar 2016 #176
LOL! Love it. merrily Mar 2016 #180
I never used ignore until the past couple of weeks. Blue_In_AK Mar 2016 #21
Disingenuous asshats and baiters abound on my newly-expanded list of "ignoreds." merrily Mar 2016 #25
What a coincidence! Blue_In_AK Mar 2016 #31
Most likely! merrily Mar 2016 #39
I am in the exact same situation. alittlelark Mar 2016 #98
Here's What I Do noretreatnosurrender Mar 2016 #33
Please see Reply 6 above. (Also, it's a pretty good performance) merrily Mar 2016 #41
Fabulous Video noretreatnosurrender Mar 2016 #60
You're welcome. I just love that line. It covers so many situtations. merrily Mar 2016 #61
Big Fan of Dylan noretreatnosurrender Mar 2016 #75
Ah, but he was so much older then. merrily Mar 2016 #80
So Many Good Songs noretreatnosurrender Mar 2016 #84
No, it was positively Postively Fourth Street. I erred. merrily Mar 2016 #85
It Happens noretreatnosurrender Mar 2016 #90
I'm sure I will. His lyrics are brilliant. merrily Mar 2016 #92
Because life is short. roody Mar 2016 #37
GREAT reason. Thank you. merrily Mar 2016 #42
And there it is. arcane1 Mar 2016 #53
The same reason I like going to places that check IDs at the door :) arcane1 Mar 2016 #43
Got it! merrily Mar 2016 #50
I treat people online as I would in real life retrowire Mar 2016 #46
Reasonable, as always, retrowire! merrily Mar 2016 #51
It's the most strenuous orientation I've ever endured! retrowire Mar 2016 #58
It's all good. A lot of jobs won't train anymore. You'll be dynamite! merrily Mar 2016 #63
d'aww thanks. retrowire Mar 2016 #65
I only ignore my ex wife ghostsinthemachine Mar 2016 #47
o.0 damn nt retrowire Mar 2016 #48
I'm so sorry. merrily Mar 2016 #52
Yes artislife Mar 2016 #49
I can think of at least one poster who fits all 3 descriptions in your post. merrily Mar 2016 #55
I have about 50 on ignore to keep my blood pressure down. HubertHeaver Mar 2016 #62
That was no jailbreak. That was an invitational! merrily Mar 2016 #67
It felt more like a jailbreak. HubertHeaver Mar 2016 #69
By invitation of the warden. merrily Mar 2016 #74
Yes, he did open the doors. HubertHeaver Mar 2016 #118
And give recidivists a free pass for the future as well. Those who support Hillary, anyway. merrily Mar 2016 #139
First of all I don't want to have to look at that ugly ass logo ever again tularetom Mar 2016 #68
Avatar aversion. I totally get it. And you may beat the guy ignoring 350. merrily Mar 2016 #83
That's what ad block is for. You can also add filters to make logos and stuff go away. Kalidurga Mar 2016 #110
The firefox add on, or are you referring to a different one? merrily Mar 2016 #140
I use google chrome Kalidurga Mar 2016 #167
Yes, Firefox does, but I don't think it blocks avatars. merrily Mar 2016 #168
Good bloody luck VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #190
I have probably 400-500 on ignore BernieforPres2016 Mar 2016 #71
Very observant. On the numbers, you can shake hands with these posters merrily Mar 2016 #99
I have a few reasons for putting people on Ignore. Maedhros Mar 2016 #73
Excellent post, as always, Maedhros. merrily Mar 2016 #141
I had only had one person on ignore - a really, IMO, obnoxious and prolific person who djean111 Mar 2016 #78
Obnoxious, prolific and nasty, both on the board and in pms. Hmmm. merrily Mar 2016 #142
Over 90 replies and only 8 recs. Tough room! merrily Mar 2016 #93
Have a rec BernieforPres2016 Mar 2016 #95
Thanks. The convenience store nearest my home gives me $.02 off for each rec I bring in. merrily Mar 2016 #102
I have ignored only 4 people. DemocracyDirect Mar 2016 #94
Yes. Those must be zapped! merrily Mar 2016 #114
I had an ignore file but it expanded, and I cheated. delrem Mar 2016 #96
See? This thread contains two mentions of Bernie allegedly mistreating his wife and it's the first merrily Mar 2016 #115
Well, the meme was sent out by David Brock. And Brock coordinates with Clinton. delrem Mar 2016 #116
Unless David Brock posts at DU, the accusation of abusing Jane Sanders merrily Mar 2016 #144
People are known to link to his sites. ... jeez. delrem Mar 2016 #171
All I'm saying is that I am happier using ignore than I was not using it. merrily Mar 2016 #173
I understand, totally. delrem Apr 2016 #194
I do admire the intelligence of one DU troll, but he or she seems to prefer merrily Apr 2016 #195
I just put my first person on ignore. I have a stalker. jillan Mar 2016 #97
That should be enough to get that person banned from DU BernieforPres2016 Mar 2016 #106
2 posts in Ask the Admins & one email. No response. jillan Mar 2016 #117
I assume and hope this charmer is on your Jury Blacklist? merrily Mar 2016 #145
Yes!! Hell yes!! jillan Mar 2016 #164
I have 10 people on ignore davidpdx Mar 2016 #104
Ah, yes, the "fsck it" rationale works well. merrily Mar 2016 #119
I'm trying to break the DU habit... when ignore list gets large it seriously interferes HereSince1628 Mar 2016 #105
If you don't ignore kpete--don't know why anyone would--or trash LBN, merrily Mar 2016 #146
Historically, news on DU has been a good function...especially when Kephra was around HereSince1628 Mar 2016 #169
Generally speaking, either a poster is really annoying. .. Algernon Moncrieff Mar 2016 #107
I went fourteen years here without putting anyone on ignore. SheilaT Mar 2016 #108
I fully support your making your time here more pleasant. It's a hobby. merrily Mar 2016 #148
The only posters I put on ignore NV Whino Mar 2016 #111
In my experience, some members of both crews are capable of posting infinitely merrily Mar 2016 #149
You must have most if not all of Hillary supporters on ignore... Kalidurga Mar 2016 #112
Judging by other posters on this thread having literally hundreds of people on ignore, I probably merrily Mar 2016 #150
My Ignore List is full of the purposefully obtuse, willfully ignorant, and emotionally disturbed. Fronkonsteen Mar 2016 #121
The more obviously emotionally disturbed are, well, disturbing. merrily Mar 2016 #151
I asked someone to put me on their ignore. They were livid over my POV. Festivito Mar 2016 #122
"Newbies might see a post go unanswered if we have too many ignoring posts." So? merrily Mar 2016 #152
For me, it's simple Rebkeh Mar 2016 #125
125 replies and I see 0. I don't see the OP either. What is this about? Where am I? JonLeibowitz Mar 2016 #126
I don't have anyone on ignore, BUT CoffeeCat Mar 2016 #127
Well, for what it's worth . . . Major Hogwash Mar 2016 #128
Great analysis. Thanks! merrily Mar 2016 #154
Anyone who posts a rolling smiley in response to a legitimate question, Contrary1 Mar 2016 #129
Odds are you are not missing anything you would value, so go for it! merrily Mar 2016 #155
I have about 20 FreedomRain Mar 2016 #130
Gravedancers, with or without a flyswatter avatar, merrily Mar 2016 #156
some people are just more noise than signal AgerolanAmerican Mar 2016 #131
Great metaphor. Thank you. merrily Mar 2016 #157
Here is the truth for the truth to be known. I've been on this board as a poster and thread starter mrdmk Mar 2016 #132
Great post! Thank you. I never heard of the email before. Just one teensy suggestion, a merrily Mar 2016 #137
Thank you for the link and hanging in there mrdmk Mar 2016 #165
I don't have anyone on ignore... mak3cats Mar 2016 #135
You do ignore them, but you are disciplined enough not to need a mechanical ignore function. merrily Mar 2016 #159
I need to start putting people on ignore. noamnety Mar 2016 #153
Thanks. I do recommend it, even though I am semi new to the en masse version. merrily Mar 2016 #160
wow good for you redruddyred Apr 2016 #196
Merrily, sad to say, the video below illustrates exactly what we're dealing with: Zorra Mar 2016 #162
Thanks, Zorra. Brilliant, as always. Electrolytes! merrily Mar 2016 #163
My anxiety doesn't include messages from strangers, so I don't use the ignore function. nt ZombieHorde Mar 2016 #170
trolls who instigate or hopemountain Mar 2016 #172
Good reasons! merrily Mar 2016 #174
I have 4 or 5 people on ignore here. LWolf Mar 2016 #175
Thank you for your thoughtful reply. We have a lot in common. merrily Mar 2016 #179
I have only so much time to spend online mahina Mar 2016 #178
Thank you. I love your sig line. merrily Mar 2016 #181
<3. mahina Apr 2016 #193
For most of my time here... freebrew Mar 2016 #182
Thanks. I get that! merrily Mar 2016 #183
I almost reflexively ignore those who gaslight. Bubzer Mar 2016 #184
Gaslighters, trolls, snarkbaiters, tumblrinas, predictable posters, and ad hom posters. VulgarPoet Mar 2016 #186
Thanks. A few posters on this thread have ignored over 100 posters. Impressive! merrily Mar 2016 #191
I never put anybody on ignore until a few weeks ago. I think I'm up to 7 or 8 now. DemocraticWing Mar 2016 #192

ladjf

(17,320 posts)
1. I've never, in my recollection, put anyone on ignore or hidden a post.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:38 PM
Mar 2016

I believe in an open board policy.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
57. Same here!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:39 PM
Mar 2016

From none to modestly massive in weeks...in fact most of my ignore list is since Sunday morning.

potone

(1,701 posts)
91. Yes, I briefly put somone on ignore once.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:32 PM
Mar 2016

It was because she was spouting false accusations of racism against Bernie supporters. Then I decided that I didn't want to put anyone on ignore because I didn't want to only read the comments of people who agreed with me. That resolution went out the window after the last primaries. I now have a list of Hillary supporters whose comments have been so unjust and dishonest, or just plain hostile, that I see no point in reading what they have to say.

I still would like to debate the merits of the candidates with Hillary supporters, but they avoid discussing policy and only want to smear Bernie (witness the ridiculous thread about Bernie's supposed mistreatment of his wife), demoralize Bernie supporters and pressure us to give up. That is not something that I think should be the purpose of a political message board.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
100. Good faith political debate has been in short supply here since at least 2014, but I managed
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:43 PM
Mar 2016

without ignore for the most part.

It's gotten dead boring, though, especially since many of my most favorite posters have left in disgust and/or been banned.

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
15. If you really believed in an open door policy
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:50 PM
Mar 2016

You would admonish the administrators for ejecting conservatives ...

Because, you know you would never want to ignore a rating, raving lunatic tRump supporter ...

ladjf

(17,320 posts)
27. I don't intend to admonish the DU owner about anything. If the owner make too many mistakes,
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:00 PM
Mar 2016

the market place will deal with it. A "rigged" political discussion board cannot endure the negative
reactions of the posters, particularly the disaffection.

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
32. Well ... It is called Democratic Underground for a reason ...
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:07 PM
Mar 2016

Nuff said ... Enjoy your day ...

merrily

(45,251 posts)
133. I have seen comments about improved blood pressure.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 08:40 AM
Mar 2016

Mine tends to run low as it is, but I do like to avoid nausea or boredom.

questionseverything

(9,654 posts)
3. i have a few on ignore because i can not handle that much hate
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:39 PM
Mar 2016

i have also found trashing threads makes life better

what's the question about?

i probably missed it because the culprit is on ignore???

lol

ladjf

(17,320 posts)
10. I must admit that witnessing the level of hatred is very depressing.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:46 PM
Mar 2016

Aren't we all Americans? Aren't we all humans? Aren't we all in this Global mess together?

Response to ladjf (Reply #10)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
138. I laughed at your post and also at ladf's.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 09:46 AM
Mar 2016

Then again, I laugh as often as I can without getting myself arrested.

JudyM

(29,236 posts)
158. Ha. G'morning, questionseverything!
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 11:22 AM
Mar 2016

Reading threads feels better already. I might target another 2 or three before too long... anticipating a tougher fight between B&H will bring out more harsh attitudes. Hoping for that, actually, since it'll mean Bernie continues to score big wins!

 

peace13

(11,076 posts)
4. Bat $&it crazy...
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:41 PM
Mar 2016

...ignorant of the law, refuses to educate oneself as a post evolves. Oh, and supports a different Presidential candidate than I do with the gusto of a paid unthinking goof.

Edited to add that I used to be more elastic but this has gone on entirely too long.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
5. I have put no one on ignore
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:41 PM
Mar 2016

why should I?? Remember the adage...keep your friends close, but your enemies closer?

Though I don't see Hillary supporters as my enemy, just my opponent, but it holds true just the same.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
30. I did not see that...my apologies..like I said it was a great performance!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:03 PM
Mar 2016

And knowing Dylan was there makes it that much more greater (sic?)

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
40. I sse him now..the 'old' guy on the guitar still with his big hair!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:14 PM
Mar 2016

Thanks, nostalgia is what we old folks love!

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
187. I can read 'em on one of my other browsers. When I intend to post, I want nothing to do with em
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:47 AM
Mar 2016

Because fuck trying to slog through that crowd.

astrophuss42

(290 posts)
7. To be honest
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:45 PM
Mar 2016

I've never blocked anyone but I'm warming up to the idea. For me it's the incessant posting of gotcha threads. Luckily they are easily trashed. I also trashed the HRC group. Thanks for the tip whoever that was.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
134. Gotcha threads, pledge threads, "honest question for Bernie's supporters" threads, etc.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 08:47 AM
Mar 2016

Good times.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
9. I have one member on ignore right now.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:46 PM
Mar 2016

Why? Because this member said something truly ugly to me some time ago, and I don't want to see it if I should look at my thread again.

The post disturbed me so much that I resorted to this to keep from having so much pain at the post.

I should have alerted on the post but it was late and I was tired. So I locked the thread and got out of there.

Funny--that poster hasn't been back since s/he wrote the post that hurt me so much.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
28. Thank you, my dear merrily....
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:00 PM
Mar 2016

The person is not a troll, actually. X is a member in good standing and we used to be friendly.

Not any more.

Such is life...

Thank you for the hug.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
34. Whoever he or she is, he or she is a troll to me!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:10 PM
Mar 2016

Dead to me, too! And, you're very welcome for the hug. Here's a bigger, better one.



VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
188. I cleaned out my ignore list a while ago when I was having my crisis of faith.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:49 AM
Mar 2016

Even when I got my hold back of the plot, I didn't have my ignore list filling again... And then the anti-Semitic horseshit went around. First ignore in a week, and then after that, they all piled on. Dropped two group subscriptions, blocked people for trying to defend it, and took back up my habit of blocking people I consider not worth my time.

Land of Enchantment

(1,217 posts)
13. There are those lost souls who are itching for a fight and I refuse to
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:49 PM
Mar 2016

allow them to get under my skin. Maybe it's ignorance or an abysmal lack of information. Who knows their motivation but getting a valid point across is like trying to nail jello to the ceiling. I wish them well but will not engage them anymore. I have at least 75 on Ignore.


merrily

(45,251 posts)
16. IIRC, one poster has about 300 on ignore. I very recently went from about 15 to over 50--
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:51 PM
Mar 2016

and counting. Counting happily, I might add.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,014 posts)
77. the trigger was when the first "other site" formed
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:09 PM
Mar 2016

and it was essentially another version of the Cave. The clincher was when the second, insulting "other site" formed - that's when I realized I wanted nothing to do with them

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
189. You mean there's more than one insulting other site?
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:51 AM
Mar 2016

Ugh. Those kinds are just as reprehensible as their propaganda feeder, Brock.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
29. OMG, I LOVE the bird. I am so in love for anything with the bird.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:02 PM
Mar 2016

But... it was a green bird. A beautiful shade of green.

ETA: Just looked it up. The bird in the video I saw looked green, but other images do look like the bird in your post. Sorry!

Land of Enchantment

(1,217 posts)
101. Hola Merrily! I think it was a golden finch but I found an image of the lovely meadowlark
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:47 PM
Mar 2016

that we have out here--it has the most beautiful song and it reminds me of you!



and in case you have not seen this one..





merrily

(45,251 posts)
113. Oh, my goodness. That may be one of the best compliments I've ever received.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:04 PM
Mar 2016

I am so flustered; I require smelling salts.

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
14. some people are ugly, I did it when they accused me of being a troll repeatedly.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:50 PM
Mar 2016

Needless to say,I am not a troll. and I did not want to see their name again. My mental health is better than having toput up with shit.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
22. On some Dem boards, and not only DU, "troll" and "Republican troll" both mean
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:56 PM
Mar 2016

only any poster who criticizes Third Way Democrats from the left. It's not what "troll" means and it's certainly not what "Republican" means. Then again, why expect accuracy from such types?

Donkees

(31,392 posts)
17. I put one person on ignore because of a hideous animated sig. Otherwise, I'm interested in
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:53 PM
Mar 2016

observing crazy-making behavior

 

Trajan

(19,089 posts)
18. I have hundreds on ignore
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:53 PM
Mar 2016

My DU existence is pretty mellow, considering ...

I figure it this way - I have a fixed amount of time remaining in my life .. Why would I waste a single, solitary second on listening to another blowhard spew nonsense?

I simply don't have time for that kind of b.s. ...

merrily

(45,251 posts)
38. My sister once said (not of her or me), adultery is like murder:
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:14 PM
Mar 2016

the first time is the hardest. Something similar may be said of using the ignore feature for more than just one moran.

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
79. Hahahaha
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:12 PM
Mar 2016

I just went to check how many I had on ignore, so I absent-mindedly hit a button on my profile and I got a bright yellow banner that said "You can't ignore yourself."

Yes I bloody well can!!!

unapatriciated

(5,390 posts)
176. Ahhhh that would be what my hubby calls the murder channel
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 08:55 AM
Mar 2016

I watch a lot of the ID channel and he swears I'm taking notes.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
21. I never used ignore until the past couple of weeks.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 08:56 PM
Mar 2016

I now have over 50, and my life is much cheerier. It amuses me to see a post with allegedly 60 replies and I only have to see 20 of them. I don't hide Hillary supporters who are civil, who expound on why they like her, but if they start going after Bernie or his supporters for ridiculous reasons, they're outta here.

On Facebook, a few people have unfriended me, but generally my friends are Bernie supporters.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
31. What a coincidence!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:06 PM
Mar 2016

Those are the ones abounding on my list, too. I bet we have a lot of the same people on ignore.

noretreatnosurrender

(1,890 posts)
33. Here's What I Do
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:08 PM
Mar 2016

when people post:

Often inaccurate, intentionally or not
Posts tediously predictably
Trolls almost every thread with some one line, dumb ass post, often an ad hom
Rarely posts anything useful.

If I don't want to respond I skip over the comment and post somewhere else. In other words if I want to ignore someone I just ignore them. I've never used the ignore feature on any message board. I'm too much of an information junkie to ever use the ignore feature because I might miss something interesting.

There are some people who post here who I know will not have anything of value to offer so I usually just skip the entire thread and go on to a more interesting one. Life is too short to be drawn into discussing the same topic over and over and over with the same predicable result. Some threads whose only goal is to disrupt and divide just deserve to have people turn their back on them and let them whither from lack of interest.

noretreatnosurrender

(1,890 posts)
60. Fabulous Video
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:43 PM
Mar 2016

I wish I could have been there....Wow...Dylan, Petty, Clapton, McGuinn, Young & Harrison. Wow. Helluva show! I smiled through the whole video and listened to it twice. Thanks for posting it.

noretreatnosurrender

(1,890 posts)
75. Big Fan of Dylan
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:07 PM
Mar 2016

A lot of Dylan's lyrics are certainly just as on point during this election as they were when he wrote them (Masters of War, The Times They Are A-Changin, The Lonesome Death of Hattie Carol, etc.). Big fan of his. The sheer number of really meaningful songs that he wrote is just stunning.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
80. Ah, but he was so much older then.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:13 PM
Mar 2016

I love his lyrics, too. I know the Times They Are A Changing, but not the others you mentioned. I will look them up after I finish "parenting" this thread.

I got tolove Definitely Fourth Street because one of my most favorite restaurants when I lived in NYC was on Fourth.

Thanks.

noretreatnosurrender

(1,890 posts)
84. So Many Good Songs
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:21 PM
Mar 2016

to choose from. I think you meant to say Positively Fourth Street unless he wrote another song that I'm not aware of?

noretreatnosurrender

(1,890 posts)
90. It Happens
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:31 PM
Mar 2016

to all of us. I was posting in a thread about Dolores Huerta and spelled her name wrong. Some nice person corrected me and I fixed it. I've probably made all kinds of errors trying to multi-task while I'm on line. Thanks again for the video. I really enjoyed it and I hope you get a chance to listen to the songs I mentioned. I think you will like them.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
43. The same reason I like going to places that check IDs at the door :)
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:19 PM
Mar 2016

Though like you, Ignore is new to me. 14 years on DU and I used it for the first time last last year. Now, I have no hesitation to use it

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
46. I treat people online as I would in real life
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:22 PM
Mar 2016

If you approached me as if you were interested in having a serious conversation, but then quickly pivoted to twisting my words and accusing me of things then I would in all seriousness think that you're insane and I would turn around and walk out of the room.

Basically, the people on my ignore list are there because I'd ignore them in real life as well. There's no time to suffer fools. Not everyone online is who they say they are anyways!

That's my policy.

However, if we argue and get in shouting matches just because we disagree it's fine! That's passionate debate. But if it keeps happening and we can never seem to agree on a middle ground, that might get you on the ignore list as well.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
58. It's the most strenuous orientation I've ever endured!
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:42 PM
Mar 2016

It will last 7 weeks and it consists of lessons, classes with instructors and tests...

THEN I can get to repairing robotic machines. Until then, I have a sweet cubicle to cry inside of silently. lol

I'm just getting driven mad waiting to actually get my hands on stuff that's all! Thanks for asking. It's just good to be employed again.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
65. d'aww thanks.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:49 PM
Mar 2016

my coworkers are real laid back and easy going. My boss is as well and THAT is taking some getting used to.

My last boss openly mocked my vegan beliefs and butted heads with me on news events...

he also once said the infamous line, "Trump will never win, but he is yelling it like it is" to the ire of me and my fellow democratic coworkers.

ghostsinthemachine

(3,569 posts)
47. I only ignore my ex wife
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:22 PM
Mar 2016

on message boards. She STILL trolls me, after 12 years not being married. I've changed my names so many times and she always finds them out. (Not this one yet)..... All over the internet.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
49. Yes
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:27 PM
Mar 2016
Often inaccurate, intentionally or not
Posts tediously predictably
Trolls almost every thread with some one line, dumb ass post, often an ad hom
Rarely posts anything useful
.


Then are those who want to incite a flame war. Every effing time. And I believe a few do it just to incite a flame war and would be okay with doing it for the other candidate.

A lot I of my ignores came with the fly swatter. I just thought that was mean spirited. And not like a snicker in the back of the class but up front and confrontational.


Then there are the martyrs....

merrily

(45,251 posts)
55. I can think of at least one poster who fits all 3 descriptions in your post.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:38 PM
Mar 2016

And, yes, I now ignore him or her.

HubertHeaver

(2,522 posts)
62. I have about 50 on ignore to keep my blood pressure down.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:45 PM
Mar 2016

I don't need another myocardial infarction.

Most were added to the list after the "jailbreak".

merrily

(45,251 posts)
139. And give recidivists a free pass for the future as well. Those who support Hillary, anyway.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 09:54 AM
Mar 2016

Oh, well, it's his board.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
68. First of all I don't want to have to look at that ugly ass logo ever again
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 09:57 PM
Mar 2016

Secondly, I'd like to see if I can put more people on ignore than the HRC group has excommunicated.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
168. Yes, Firefox does, but I don't think it blocks avatars.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 04:06 PM
Mar 2016

I think DU's internal settings provide that option, though.

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
190. Good bloody luck
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:54 AM
Mar 2016

although I understand your aversion, I feel the same way about it. Cleared 225 or so yesterday, and honestly I have moments where I have to ask, "did you slip through a crack? is the ignore feature breaking?"

BernieforPres2016

(3,017 posts)
71. I have probably 400-500 on ignore
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:04 PM
Mar 2016

I spent my first several days here without seeing one substantive post on issues from a Hillary Clinton supporter. It was the latest poll, gloating, baiting, etc. Once I decided several hundred posts from dozens of Hillary supporters constituted a reasonable sample size, I started putting them on ignore the minute I see them and have continued that to now. I might be missing a few reasonable people, but I think the signal to noise ratio is much higher without them. Anybody who originates a loyalty oath thread (which are always tilted to Hillary) goes on ignore, along with a few others for individual reasons.

And I would guess that the vast majority of Hillary Clinton supporters have me on ignore. I have no problem with that at all. I am guessing there are basically 2 different conversations going on here on many different threads. One of the great features about ignore at DU is that not only do you not see a post from somebody you have on ignore, but you don't see responses to them.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
73. I have a few reasons for putting people on Ignore.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:06 PM
Mar 2016

1. Posters who only respond to other people with 2-3 lines of snark, followed by . These posters are useless - they add nothing to any conversation.

2. Posters who do not argue in good faith, who do not back up their assertions with links or evidence, yet continue to insist that they are "right."

3. Posters who use race to drive a wedge between Democrats.

4. Posters who repeat stale, tired arguments that I've debunked a thousand times.

5. Posters who blame the 2000 debacle on Nader. Because stupid.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
141. Excellent post, as always, Maedhros.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:05 AM
Mar 2016

A poster who fits your description #2 to a T is the only poster I've made an ignore "announcement" about.

The kind who stalls and stalls and, once you do blow him or her out of the water, changes the subject without skipping a beat--then accuses you of ducking the issue. As amusing as that may be the first few hundred times, it gets dead boring.

Misusing any issue in the category sex, sexual or gender orientation, skin color, religion for wedge politics is distasteful at best, whether Republicans do it or Democrats do it. And when a Democratic politician running for President or his or her campaign surrogates do it, ugh. I've seen only one two it--and in two Presidential primaries to boot. Then again, I wasn't around when Wilson ran.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
78. I had only had one person on ignore - a really, IMO, obnoxious and prolific person who
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:10 PM
Mar 2016

finally sent me an obnoxious private message. I saw no need to even recognize their existence after that. after all, the same disjointed list of polls and utterances, post after post, gets really old.

A couple of weeks ago, it seemed to me that a lot of posters were only posting crap designed to needle. I am sure the crap was meant to dishearten - but, dudes, this is an internet message board, the stuff meant to dishearten is so easily recognizable it is kind of funny, really. And then there was the sheer nasty stuff, which made me think oh, I hope I don't know any of these people in real life! ugh.

I used to feel like that stuff was amusing, but it got boring - the nasty stuff, the verbose and condescending stuff, the authoritarian stuff, the dollar-store psychoanalytic stuff, the dementedly repetitious stuff - and I just thought well, no matter how many times I read it, I will still think it is crap, so why keep reading it? And, really, Hillary is Hillary, records are records, deeds are deeds, issues are issues - and since I am never going to feel war and fracking are GOOD, and I will never support someone whose policies are distasteful to me, just because of their gender, I thought why even keep reading the bullshit?

So now, full ignore is wondrous, and I am absolutely certain I am not missing anything but pointless blather. I was astounded that they believed what they were spouting. Time to say see ya.

Adding something here - one thing I did get from the ugliness was the realization that just maybe the Democratic Party has morphed into something else. There seems to be a mean junior high mentality to it, and this is supposed to be something that helps people and makes their lives better, not threats and jeers and insults. So lots of thinking to do about that.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
142. Obnoxious, prolific and nasty, both on the board and in pms. Hmmm.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:10 AM
Mar 2016

I can't imagine who fits that description. However, that poster sure does sound as though he or she should be on the ignore list of every supporter of Sanders, even those who don't ignore any other poster. Actually, that sounds like a candidate for banning, but good luck with those dreams if the person also slams Bernie.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
102. Thanks. The convenience store nearest my home gives me $.02 off for each rec I bring in.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:49 PM
Mar 2016

It's the latest recycling program.

 

DemocracyDirect

(708 posts)
94. I have ignored only 4 people.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:39 PM
Mar 2016

They have earned an ignore by only publishing one line factless messages that only demean or dismiss.

If anyone posts a fact, even if it's incorrect or false, they do not deserve an ignore.

delrem

(9,688 posts)
96. I had an ignore file but it expanded, and I cheated.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:40 PM
Mar 2016

I mean jeez, I cheated on my own ignore file so I quit pretending.

I ended my ignore file and instead I try to use my head a little bit and recognize, for example, BrockPAC trolls for what they are, coordinated all the way up the chain to the top by professionals feeding them lines. BrockPAC trolls feed on racial division, they ratfuck "white progressives", and most recently they jumped right onto the "Bernie is a wife abuser" meme. They aren't necessarily "smart" as individuals, but they're following a professionally written program that has a purpose. Brock coordinates directly with Hillary Clinton's campaign.
I wouldn't call such people Dems in any case -- I don't accept the "evolutions" of people like David Brock and Robert Kagan and a whole slew of other weasels. That might bother some people, that I wouldn't call such people Dems, but I prefer not to tarnish the name. At least so long as Bernie Sanders is sweeping the remaining states.
Even Skinner pretended that he didn't understand what Jonathan Capehart was about, in Capehart's sick column denying that Sanders was Sanders in his youth, all of this immediately preceding the southern state primaries and after a campaign of racial division attacking "Bernie supporters" as being somehow "racist" and "misogynist" and "sexist" "BernieBros" everywhere on the internet, and all having connections with David Brock. So even BrockPAC trolling goes way deep. How can one participate on the forum and at the same time put THAT much on ignore.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
115. See? This thread contains two mentions of Bernie allegedly mistreating his wife and it's the first
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:08 PM
Mar 2016

I've heard of it. Ignorance may not be bliss, but ignoring ignorance comes close!

delrem

(9,688 posts)
116. Well, the meme was sent out by David Brock. And Brock coordinates with Clinton.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:11 PM
Mar 2016

So there's that: to know ones enemy.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
144. Unless David Brock posts at DU, the accusation of abusing Jane Sanders
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:14 AM
Mar 2016

did not get on this board via Brock. However, if Brock does post at DU, I am sure I either have already ignored him or will soon. So, ignore function wins, no matter what.

delrem

(9,688 posts)
194. I understand, totally.
Fri Apr 1, 2016, 11:05 PM
Apr 2016

I was replying to your OP! It was kind of an abstract question about a forum option.

I related my experiences with using the gadget and that after having used the 'ignore' gadget I stopped (tho' I have a handful of people on 'ignore PMs' - I have a zero tolerance policy there).
Read back to my first reply.

I know who the assholes are, on DU - the trolls.
The ones who couldn't talk policy, issues, for the life of them.

The ones who follow their leader in saying that a $12/hr minimum wage is more "realistic" and "pragmatic" than the $15/hr demanded by the recent employee uprisings, and who would roll back California and New York, apparently, for just now legislating $15/hr. That couldn't be "real", to them. The fuckers. They're so unthinking. So regressive that they can't even keep up with today.

But I've been reading and contributing to DU for a long time before these absurd primaries, with the absurd "inevitable establishment candidate" Hillary Clinton. I don't have to actually *read* a person's post, if they aren't on ignore, and I often don't, when at the same time I scroll down and look for responses from people who I admire somewhat. I know most of these posters' usernames from years of acquaintance. There are a few of them who post to promote Hillary Clinton who I still admire and enjoy reading, though they are few and far between. A problem with my discussing anything with them is the "Ostrich Syndrome", where I can't even mention that a million dead Arabs paid for war profits that kept the US war economy going, in large part through Hillary's doing. And on part of her friends. But I don't imagine that kind of conversation could ever happen on DU, anyway.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
195. I do admire the intelligence of one DU troll, but he or she seems to prefer
Sat Apr 2, 2016, 08:51 AM
Apr 2016

trolling one liners to discussion.

DU is the first board on which I used the ignore function, this board is my only personal experience with it. But, yes, my OP indeed inquired about ignore on all boards, not only DU. I think some of the answers were very good. I never know what might end up being a good thread.

jillan

(39,451 posts)
97. I just put my first person on ignore. I have a stalker.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:40 PM
Mar 2016

Someone that I never met but our paths have crossed in political forums.

Well he served on a jury, and you can imagine my surprise when I saw he posted a post that I had hidden by jury on facebook.
Above the post he boasted how he voted to hide my post.

Then he would make snarky comments on threads I started here, comments that added nothing to the conversation & were more of a dig at me.

A little too creepy for me.

As far as people who post here, I can ignore them without placing them on ignore.

BernieforPres2016

(3,017 posts)
106. That should be enough to get that person banned from DU
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:54 PM
Mar 2016

I would recommend sending the stalking posts on to whoever runs this place. That is beyond creepy.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
104. I have 10 people on ignore
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:53 PM
Mar 2016

My attitude is fuck it, if they are going to act like that I don't have to read their shit.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
105. I'm trying to break the DU habit... when ignore list gets large it seriously interferes
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:53 PM
Mar 2016

with the utility of DU as a news source.

I'm approaching steadily DU being too dysfunctional to provide service.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
146. If you don't ignore kpete--don't know why anyone would--or trash LBN,
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:24 AM
Mar 2016

DU is a pretty good news source. It used to also be a pretty good place for me to get insights into issues behind the headlines, but that morsel has all but vanished. Posters like you, The Kentuckian, Marr, Maedhros, Lasher, woo me with science,djean and so many others now post here rarely, if at all. I miss the wisdom, insights and knowledge.

One line ad homs about posters, fact free smears of politicians and bad faith "discussion" "strategies" just don't do it for me. However, I may be in the minority when it comes to political discussion boards because those things do seem to compromise the majority of replies. It's less discussion posting and more hit and run posting.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
169. Historically, news on DU has been a good function...especially when Kephra was around
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 06:09 PM
Mar 2016

I got in the habit of DU as news back when no one could post breaking political news before him

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
108. I went fourteen years here without putting anyone on ignore.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 10:56 PM
Mar 2016

Right now I have three people ignored, and I'm seriously considering two or three others.

It's my opinion that those specific posters are vile piles of excrement, and I don't understand why at least one of them hasn't been tombstoned. My time here is much more pleasant now that I never see their crap.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
148. I fully support your making your time here more pleasant. It's a hobby.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:30 AM
Mar 2016

Well, for those of us who are not being paid.

If it's not a pleasant way of using time, we should take up crocheting, perfecting the soufflé or building ships in bottles.

NV Whino

(20,886 posts)
111. The only posters I put on ignore
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:01 PM
Mar 2016

Are the ones who post pointless, silly posts and have nothing productive or informative to say. This excludes the Hillary crew, because on occasion they actually have something interesting to say.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
149. In my experience, some members of both crews are capable of posting infinitely
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:35 AM
Mar 2016

without posting a single interesting thing. Many simians at many keyboards have a better shot because they don't let bad intentions mess up the random odds.

OK, this post is now enough of an excuse, albeit a very slim one, to post one of my most favorite gifs

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
112. You must have most if not all of Hillary supporters on ignore...
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:03 PM
Mar 2016
Often inaccurate, intentionally or not
Posts tediously predictably
Trolls almost every thread with some one line, dumb ass post, often an ad hom
Rarely posts anything useful.


I took everyone off my ignore list and that is really how a lot of Hillary supporters look to me. Not all of them of course I can think of two I actually like.

There are those who post OPs that I just trash upon seeing their handle. And there are posters I see their avie and skip over their posts. But, I like to see what the daily outrage is. So, no one is on actual ignore.

Your list is the criteria I use on other message boards though the not political ones.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
150. Judging by other posters on this thread having literally hundreds of people on ignore, I probably
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:44 AM
Mar 2016

have been lax in even my stepped up use of ignore.

BTW, I haven't missed knowing the outrage du jour. It was only ever good mostly only for mockery and the eyeroll emote, anyway--occasionally followed by

 

Fronkonsteen

(75 posts)
121. My Ignore List is full of the purposefully obtuse, willfully ignorant, and emotionally disturbed.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:44 PM
Mar 2016

Mostly Bernie bashers, naturally.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
151. The more obviously emotionally disturbed are, well, disturbing.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:58 AM
Mar 2016

However, I know of no way to help them anyway.

I was once babysitting--for a psychiatrist, btw--whose mother in law was in the home with the kids. He told me she was not well, but he had given her enough medication for horse and she would be asleep soon. A saner, less gullible twenty year old would have left on the spot. Didn't even leave me an emergency number to call and I forgot to ask for one.

Yep, you guessed it. The mother in law never went to sleep. Acted out all night. The youngest of the three kids eventually fell asleep. The other two did not. I was too busy never taking my eyes off the mother in law and trying to make everything seem normal and under my control to get any of the kids bathed and in bed.

When he and his wife got home from their party at around 4:30 am, I was as exhausted and wrung out as any 20 year old can be. However, he took me to the ER with him and her to get her admitted, so I could describe the mother in law's behavior to the admitting doc. He told me that it was a miracle that I, too, was not in a psychotic break because that is what happens to people, even professionals, who spend many hours with someone who is in a psychotic break. That came as close to telling me that "crazy is contagious" as anyone has ever come--and he being the admitting doc for people in the midst psychotic breaks. And insulating oneself from potentially contagious craziness may be the best reason to use ignore.

Now that I look back on it, I don't think I even got paid for that night! Fsck that pyschiatrist and his wife twice. The mother in law (who never did try to hurt herself or any of us, just behaved bizarrely) was apparently the best adult in that family.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
122. I asked someone to put me on their ignore. They were livid over my POV.
Tue Mar 29, 2016, 11:45 PM
Mar 2016

Can't remember what point of view it was now.

I do not to use ignore. Newbies might see a post go unanswered if we have too many ignoring posts.

There are posters I want on my no jury list. One is now banned from DU.

But, it's true that I lack the time to read as much as I would like to read and using the ignore function would help keep me better informed.

I wish that some persons would use it more rather than complaining about what someone else said on DU.

Rebkeh

(2,450 posts)
125. For me, it's simple
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 01:55 AM
Mar 2016

Life is too short to deal with jerks.

I don't ignore people that I simply disagree with, I ignore people that are toxic about it. I mean people that are more interested in conflict for the sake of conflict itself. Confrontation can be constructive, which I'm fine with, but dealing with nastiness is a waste of my time. Especially if it's pretty obvious I won't change their mind, and they have nothing to offer for me to change mine. People that suck the air out of the room will be summarily dismissed, no negotiation. It's just a basic rule I have for myself, one more for self preservation than anything. It's not personal, I just have better things to spend my energy on. I don't have the space in my mind for toxicity, I'm not the droid they're looking for.

A lively debate is great, important even. But reality show type drama, high school crap... moving on. Life is too short. Ain't nobody got time for that.

Oh, and bigots, sexists, Islamaphobes, anti-theists, etc get ignored immediately. For obvious reasons.

JonLeibowitz

(6,282 posts)
126. 125 replies and I see 0. I don't see the OP either. What is this about? Where am I?
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 02:03 AM
Mar 2016




(I don't use ignore at all)

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
127. I don't have anyone on ignore, BUT
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 02:09 AM
Mar 2016

Last edited Wed Mar 30, 2016, 10:47 AM - Edit history (1)

I did trash the Hillary Clinton group. So I don't see any of that. I was kicked out of it, so I see no point in seeing posts from a group in which I can't respond.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
128. Well, for what it's worth . . .
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 02:28 AM
Mar 2016

Which was a great song.
I noticed quite a few people referring to it here at the DU lately.

To keep it short --
If those members who are being ignored on a forum really talked the way they do to people in the real world -- the same way that they post on a forum -- they wouldn't have a single friend.

There are 3 types of forum members who simply can't coexist on a forum with real people.

The 1st type is the troll, who breaks the rulez so often or is so obnoxious that they become pretty obvious to most of the other members of the forum rather quickly.

The 2nd type is the troll fan.
There is nothing worse than a member of a forum cheering on another member who is purposely lying on the forum.
The former is a troll fan, the latter is the troll.
By tag-teaming with each other they can disrupt any conversation on any topic.

At the same time, they both may be sock puppets, which is the 3rd type of forum member, one who is not being honest with the rest of the members of the forum, in that they don't even exist except in the mind of the creator.

So, in order to disengage, and totally ignore the game those 3 types of members are playing, using the ignore button to make them disappear is the only option one has at their disposal when the admins of the forum fail to act.

Honestly, at some point in time, everyone -- every single member of a forum -- is going to have to decide how much time and effort they will expend in to participating on a forum.
Some people have much more time to participate, while others don't have much time at all.
Since sock puppets are not real people, they come and go and reappear like magic after laying dormant for months, or even years.

Trying to hold discussions with those 3 types of members on a forum on the internet is fruitless.
Each member of a forum has to decide for themselves how to deal with those 3 types.

Some people take themselves too seriously on forums.
But, I don't want to waste a lot of my time talking to any of those 3 other types.
It became a fairly serious problem for me once I realized that I was spending 100s of hours each month discussing issues on the internet, yet I am not immortal.

Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
129. Anyone who posts a rolling smiley in response to a legitimate question,
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 03:58 AM
Mar 2016

Anyone who posts a negative reply in the subject line with no argument to back up their position.

Lots of trolls...easy to spot.

Those who are flat out rude.

Anyone who wants to bring up race issues in every single thread.

Posters of "Loyalty to the Democrats Oaths", no matter who they support.

If the above folks ever have anything worthwhile to say, looks like I won't be seeing it.

FreedomRain

(413 posts)
130. I have about 20
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 04:20 AM
Mar 2016

I felt the same for 9 years, wanted to hear all the viewpointts, know the arguments etc.

The first round was the grave dancers with the fly swatter thingie, that's about 10.

After that have slowly added 10 more, the people who are just rude. Now there are many rude persons who have something to say, or even just a clever way with words, posters I do not like, but I reserve ignore for the people that are just wasting my time.

On other boards and the like, I have never noticed there was such a feature! I did unfriend an actual dear friend on FB just because of the over the top foul language that I am fine with in RL but not on a public forum that I will be associated with. (He understands)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
156. Gravedancers, with or without a flyswatter avatar,
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 11:18 AM
Mar 2016

can put one in a dither. They are a lot like misquitoes---almost nothing to them, yet they annoyed those much bigger than they are. Man, they probably all should be zapped.



To me, whether in real life, or on a board, or whatever, few things are lower or more cowardly than attacking someone who cannot fight back in any way, even verbally.

mrdmk

(2,943 posts)
132. Here is the truth for the truth to be known. I've been on this board as a poster and thread starter
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 07:01 AM
Mar 2016

for twelve and a half years and have never used the ignore function. Always believed in hearing what anybody had to say. That was up to a few months ago.

Leading up to the 2008 election, the right-wing DLC, DINO's, and Third-way so-called Democrats moved in here and started having people who researchers and debaters PPR'd off of this board. The administrators knew about these actions and did nothing until the elections were over. It was ugly, hateful, thus sad to watch.

After the 2008 election, there was the great e-mail concerning this behavior from the administrators. You name it, the e-mail spelled it out, there was the goading by teams of wolf packs, sock-puppets at the end of their little sticky fingers, multiple login names by the scores all in the pursuit of, 'a death of a thousand cuts', directed at posters who deemed to be too far left. Not to mention some other shit going on aimed at the personal level. Long time posters knew of these antics back then, bitched about them and called out the trolls to their own demise. Yet, only after the 2008 election was anything done about the trolls.

Now here we are again, election season. Also here is Secretary Clinton and her ilk, back with the same stupid dog-eat-dog manipulation tactics and flying kitchen sinks. All I can say is WOW, and that is all I am going to say about her. She does not deserve anything else.

Now back to the ignore function. When you have people openly conspiring on another Website to work as a wolf pack, not wash their hands, and go all out Cybil on unsuspecting posters and keep their position of power on this board, not to mention, this group instructs the administrators of this board to forcefully get posters PPR'd or 'Flagged for Review', for not being enough of a democrat, I will use the ignore function very liberally, and I mean very liberally. Then to add insult to injury, these people bullies are given a, 'get out of jail free card.' Now, all these people can do now is look and sniff at my post. Fuck them and the horse they rode in on.

Rant over

merrily

(45,251 posts)
137. Great post! Thank you. I never heard of the email before. Just one teensy suggestion, a
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 09:33 AM
Mar 2016

prepositional substitution: And the horse they rode in in



It's very interesting that the posters were low count or not registered until 2008. Although I was not posting at DU then, I've since noticed that quite a few posters/screen names seem to come to "life" only during primary season(s)--and they are almost invariably DLC types. I once tried to warn in the Sanders Group not to be baited by people with that kind of profile and got attacked almost as much as I got agreed with.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/128034487

Now a thread saying something similar is pinned in the Bernie Group.

Sometimes, it's just so much easier not to notice things until after almost everyone else has noticed them and commented publicly. (Maybe that's why Hillary leads from behind?)




mrdmk

(2,943 posts)
165. Thank you for the link and hanging in there
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 01:22 PM
Mar 2016

The inmates are running the Asylum at this point. Gotta love them though



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mak3cats

(1,573 posts)
135. I don't have anyone on ignore...
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 09:09 AM
Mar 2016

...but there are at least 20 whose OPs I automatically trash, regardless of the titles. (And I ignore any of their posts within threads - they're not worth my time and/or effort trying to talk sense to them because they don't have any.)

merrily

(45,251 posts)
159. You do ignore them, but you are disciplined enough not to need a mechanical ignore function.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 11:24 AM
Mar 2016

I am not. Besides, as I said, I am starting to get happy just clicking on their names, knowing that my next click will be ignore.

And doing stuff that makes me happy, well, makes me happy.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
153. I need to start putting people on ignore.
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 11:11 AM
Mar 2016

If I wouldn't hang out with them in real life, why am I choosing to spend my free time with them here?

I go back and forth between just leaving DU because of certain people to avoid having that be part of my life, and staying so that I can help refute their drivel.

DU is the only part of my life where I deal with facebook style drama, infighting, toxic attitudes. I don't have it at home, don't have it with anyone in my family, don't have it at work, don't have it on other forums. I just have it with hillary supporters (not all of them).

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
162. Merrily, sad to say, the video below illustrates exactly what we're dealing with:
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 12:36 PM
Mar 2016


Ignore is our friend.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
163. Thanks, Zorra. Brilliant, as always. Electrolytes!
Wed Mar 30, 2016, 12:42 PM
Mar 2016

That just may be my one word response to some DU posts in the future.

hopemountain

(3,919 posts)
172. trolls who instigate or
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 03:51 AM
Mar 2016

post doublespeak. i don't know whether they are trolls for the gop, the corporations, or hillaryites. i don't care and i don't want to waste my precious time reading their shit.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
175. I have 4 or 5 people on ignore here.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 08:37 AM
Mar 2016

Since primary season began.

I generally don't use that function, simply ignoring people who don't add anything worthy to a conversation without clicking a button. When I do, it's because they pushed my buttons and I need a cooling off period. They'll come off the list after a couple of months.

I have used the "hide thread" feature every single day, multiple times, since this primary season began; not only does it clean off the front page, but it helps to deal with the temptation to kick a hateful thread by responding. I want those hateful threads to sink.

I'll be blunt. I found DU in 2002, read for awhile, joined in January of '03. DU has taught me a yuuuge, unintended lesson about Democrats and the Democratic Party.

Keeping in mind the TOS, I'll just say that I have lost most respect I ever had for the party, and for a large number of its members. I'm planning to change my registration this summer.

If Sanders wins the nomination, I'll rethink that plan. But, at this point, the only reason I see to be registered as a Democrat is to participate in primaries, and if I'm going to get fucking neo-liberals shoved down my throat, along with demands for loyalty, every primary season, there is no real point.

As far as putting people on ignore? DU is the only place I've ever done that, and it's in part due to the cooling off period, and in part due to the censorship issue. If I can't say what I really think because it violates partisan rules, I don't need to read or respond to partisan bullies.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
179. Thank you for your thoughtful reply. We have a lot in common.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 09:14 AM
Mar 2016

On the other hand, I used to learn a lot at DU about politics, the Party, history, etc. Unfortunately, one way or the other, many of the more thoughtful and insightful posters have left and those who remain do not seem to participate in the ways that they once did.

freebrew

(1,917 posts)
182. For most of my time here...
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 10:51 AM
Mar 2016

I never put anyone on ignore.

This year, I have. All Hillarians. All saying things I thought NO Democrat would ever say.

Sometimes it's just too much.

I'm getting old and I don't need their shit.

Bubzer

(4,211 posts)
184. I almost reflexively ignore those who gaslight.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:21 AM
Mar 2016

Beyond that, ad hominem, obvious trolling and/or baiting, those who're quite clearly looking to get into a fight... rather than a conversation. Those are a few big ones for me.

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
186. Gaslighters, trolls, snarkbaiters, tumblrinas, predictable posters, and ad hom posters.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 11:38 AM
Mar 2016

I'm somewhere above 200 right now. And I've seen some shit that if I wanted to hemorrhage the brain cells, I could copypasta to FSTDT and see its fundie rating skyrocket.

DemocraticWing

(1,290 posts)
192. I never put anybody on ignore until a few weeks ago. I think I'm up to 7 or 8 now.
Thu Mar 31, 2016, 01:00 PM
Mar 2016

I just had to put one person on ignore because they said something really awful, and then when I called them out for stirring things up my post was hidden. That was my first hide ever in 3 years of posting here, and I don't want anymore because somebody baited me into a response they could alert on.

There are a handful of posters on this board who are, almost explicitly, doing just that. Trying to stir things up to get Bernie posters mad so that we get kicked off DU.

If we don't put them on ignore they'll keep doing it. So goodbye until at least the end of the primary.

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