Democratic Primaries
Related: About this forumCatholics are Touchie-Feelie. Joe Biden is Catholic
If you have never been to a Catholic mass, you probably do not know that part of the proceedings involve blatant, deliberate bodily contact with strangers.
http://catholicphilly.com/2019/01/catholic-spirituality/beyond-a-handshake-the-profound-nature-of-the-sign-of-peace/
As Christian worship evolved, the gesture of a kiss of peace was a way to unite the community gathered in love and reconciliation. Without being at peace, the community and its members could not fully reflect or live the peace and love of Christ in Eucharist.
The kiss of peace took on various forms as liturgy developed. Sometimes it involved clergy and congregation, and sometimes only clergy. Today, we know this part of the Mass, placed just after the Lords Prayer and a brief invitation by the priest (Let us offer each other the sign of peace.), as the sign of peace.
https://www.ncronline.org/blogs/soul-seeing/hugs-are-outward-sign-inward-grace
Ok, go on and make the pedo jokes. But remember that cultural confusion is a very real thing. American Amanda Knox was thrown into Italian jail for murder because she did not weep hysterically in public when her roommate died. How many folks have had their feelings hurt because someone from a "We never touch!" culture refused an offered hug?
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
nycbos
(6,034 posts)Is the best defense give what we know about the church.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)I would agree.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Squinch
(50,949 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
dflprincess
(28,075 posts)The church Biden was was indoctrinated into as a child (me too) did not do "touchy feely" at Mass. I've met very few people my age who have ever really warmed to the "sign of peace" thing (which generally means a limp handshake and a spoken "Peace be with you" .
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Retrograde
(10,136 posts)I left the Church c. 1970, and it was not a practice then. I don't remember it at weddings I attended in the 70s. It was definitely around by 1990, though. I don't like it: it's too forced touchy-feely and non-spontaneous for me, an awkward moment in a highly orchestrated ritual.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Demit
(11,238 posts)Catholics vary in how they interact with people in their social lives just like everyone else. Kiss of Peace at Mass notwithstanding.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
JenniferJuniper
(4,512 posts)I can't even.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
monmouth4
(9,694 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)I find Catholics very uncomfortable giving the sign of peace. Its very awkward for them. There is no warmth at all during a mass. Its the opposite of touchie-feelie. Next!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
50 Shades Of Blue
(9,985 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Socal31
(2,484 posts)Can't believe what I've been reading
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Autumn
(45,066 posts)If I'm next to a family member a hug. But to another person, a stranger in the pew in front or back of my pew? No, never. And that was not done when we were young. Don't believe everything you read.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)the exception than the rule.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)I was raised in a very strict Catholic family and went to a Catholic seminary for 3 years. To say Catholics are "touchy-feely" is not as on-point as you would like to make it.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided