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WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:51 PM Feb 2020

"My daughter is tall and busty and blond."

https://www.wired.com/1999/02/bloomberg/

"My daughter is tall and busty and blonde," Michael Bloomberg is telling a table of Boston College graduates. "We went to China together. And what's a 16-year-old going to do on a business trip?" He pops another carefully buttered piece of bread in his mouth. "So I got her dates in every city in China." Remembering that I'm also at the table, he glares in my direction. "That's off the record!" he barks. It's typical Mike Bloomberg, wanting to have it both ways: imperious man of the people, coarse billionaire, earthy business leader, accessible control freak.


This is the opening paragraph about Bloomberg and his business. The 90s were something, y'all!
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"My daughter is tall and busty and blond." (Original Post) WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2020 OP
When she was 12 did he have her pose like this? lapfog_1 Feb 2020 #1
America needs the opposite of Trump not just better, better than Trump is still failing. uponit7771 Feb 2020 #5
no... we need to beat Trump... no matter what. lapfog_1 Feb 2020 #8
Amy is 100% opposite of Trump in every category, I disagree we don't have anyone on policy and uponit7771 Feb 2020 #10
Uh, pretty sure Warren is his opposite. blm Feb 2020 #28
Bravo. emmaverybo Feb 2020 #30
That pic ALWAYS creeps me OUT !!! alittlelark Feb 2020 #18
the parrots fucking add a nice touch to the mise en scene, pure class!!! Celerity Feb 2020 #24
Sounds kinda Trumpy. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2020 #2
Thanks for expressing what I was hesitant to type... bullwinkle428 Feb 2020 #17
Yep, "better" than Trump when America needs the total opposite of Trump ... jus damn uponit7771 Feb 2020 #3
+1000 ancianita Feb 2020 #9
It is just a steay stream of cringe-worthy things. applegrove Feb 2020 #4
"Something", yes. guillaumeb Feb 2020 #6
The 90s were another era, with different norms. Blue_true Feb 2020 #7
Nah, pretty sure that talking about your daughter sexually was shitty then, too. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2020 #11
That daughter today is a healthy 40 year old woman who heads her Blue_true Feb 2020 #13
I didn't claim it was unusual. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2020 #14
Yes you did. It is pretty common. Blue_true Feb 2020 #16
I don't know about that-- dawg day Feb 2020 #26
It was not about incest. At least the men that I heard was not into that it seemed. Blue_true Feb 2020 #29
They're probably lamenting the paucity of chastity belts these days! :) dawg day Feb 2020 #33
Pretty much all of them were controlling toward women, so I guess they did Blue_true Feb 2020 #35
Oh, come on. kcr Feb 2020 #19
Are you a man? Blue_true Feb 2020 #20
Where did you hear them talk about it? Yes, it's true that some men have always been pigs kcr Feb 2020 #21
As a graduate engineer in the 80s, much of the 90s. Blue_true Feb 2020 #22
Don't think anyone said it was unusual. kcr Feb 2020 #23
Bloomberg was speaking to a small group. Blue_true Feb 2020 #25
It's patterns of behavior that suggest character and attitudes. Talking is a behavior. So how does emmaverybo Feb 2020 #32
Better the father set her up with chaperones than running wild on her own aeromanKC Feb 2020 #12
I agree. Blue_true Feb 2020 #15
I wonder why a smart young woman wouldn't be enjoying being on a foreign trip-- dawg day Feb 2020 #27
Disgusting. nt ecstatic Feb 2020 #31
Some of you folks are making it sound like he said 'yeah I got her laid all over the country' mr_lebowski Feb 2020 #34
 

lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
1. When she was 12 did he have her pose like this?
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:54 PM
Feb 2020


if no... then Mike is demonstrably better than Trump.
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uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
5. America needs the opposite of Trump not just better, better than Trump is still failing.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:55 PM
Feb 2020
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lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
8. no... we need to beat Trump... no matter what.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:57 PM
Feb 2020

besides we have NO ONE left who is the opposite...

That would be a woman of color who is on the left end of the democratic spectrum.

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uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
10. Amy is 100% opposite of Trump in every category, I disagree we don't have anyone on policy and
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:00 PM
Feb 2020

... socially 100% opposite of Trump.

We can't beat Trump with Bloomberg who has no swing state appeal (national polls mean nothing, that's M$M horse race crap) and who has said and done recently some overtly racist shit.

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blm

(113,043 posts)
28. Uh, pretty sure Warren is his opposite.
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:31 AM
Feb 2020

She’s anticorruption and he’s corrupt.

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alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
18. That pic ALWAYS creeps me OUT !!!
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:41 PM
Feb 2020
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Celerity

(43,317 posts)
24. the parrots fucking add a nice touch to the mise en scene, pure class!!!
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:07 AM
Feb 2020

the rubes love it

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bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
17. Thanks for expressing what I was hesitant to type...
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:18 PM
Feb 2020
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uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
3. Yep, "better" than Trump when America needs the total opposite of Trump ... jus damn
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:54 PM
Feb 2020
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applegrove

(118,622 posts)
4. It is just a steay stream of cringe-worthy things.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:55 PM
Feb 2020
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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
6. "Something", yes.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:56 PM
Feb 2020

Trump still talks the same way. In 2020.

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Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
7. The 90s were another era, with different norms.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 09:56 PM
Feb 2020

To pass judgement in today on the ethos of two plus decades ago is the zenith of insanity, IMO.

Today? I may be wrong, but I believe that the most high profile person in Bloomberg news is a woman. Times change and people change with them.

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WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
11. Nah, pretty sure that talking about your daughter sexually was shitty then, too.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:04 PM
Feb 2020

How exactly does a person grow out of that?

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Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
13. That daughter today is a healthy 40 year old woman who heads her
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:09 PM
Feb 2020

a family foundation and has a child of her own.

I have heard guys describe their teen daughters urges before. Yes, it is cringeworthy, but not as unusual as you claim. Typically, they were looking at their own teen years and projecting that their daughters were not different and had different urges.

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WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
14. I didn't claim it was unusual.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:12 PM
Feb 2020

I said it was shitty.

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Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
16. Yes you did. It is pretty common.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:15 PM
Feb 2020

Men especially project their sexual drives at that age on their daughters. Somehow, their sons escape the same treatment.

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dawg day

(7,947 posts)
26. I don't know about that--
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:27 AM
Feb 2020

But even if it's true, that there's no incest taboo, I think we can still expect grown men to keep these quite damaging (at least if spoken) sentiments to themselves. Men like Trump and Bloomberg who brag about it are beneath contempt.

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Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
29. It was not about incest. At least the men that I heard was not into that it seemed.
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:35 AM
Feb 2020

They just viewed their daughters as overly sexual creatures that would give in to the first sweet talker. I just think they were projecting how they acted at that age onto their daughters (wanting to have sex with any opposite sex person that interested them) - they couldn't imagine that maybe their daughters were gay, and frankly at that time neither could I (people grow and see more of the real world, at least I did).

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dawg day

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33. They're probably lamenting the paucity of chastity belts these days! :)
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 02:38 AM
Feb 2020
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Blue_true

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35. Pretty much all of them were controlling toward women, so I guess they did
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 07:16 PM
Feb 2020

long for the days of chastity belts (not that chastity belts stopped the determined).

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kcr

(15,315 posts)
19. Oh, come on.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 11:24 PM
Feb 2020

This was not a social norm, nor acceptable in the 90s. People would be just as creeped out back then as now.

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Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
20. Are you a man?
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 11:39 PM
Feb 2020

I am one and I heard guys talk about their teen daughters urges. I believe now that they were projecting their own urges at that age, but no one said "hey, that is wrong".

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kcr

(15,315 posts)
21. Where did you hear them talk about it? Yes, it's true that some men have always been pigs
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 12:51 AM
Feb 2020

And always will be. But, even back in the 90s most people would be creeped out, regardless of what some men talk about in private groups. What you heard amongst your friends doesn't project to everyone else. And, Bloomie has been exposed and isn't looking too good anymore. Looks like you've been proved wrong.

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Blue_true

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22. As a graduate engineer in the 80s, much of the 90s.
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 12:58 AM
Feb 2020

Things began to change with Hillary in the White House as First Lady. I think that then men heard the first real opinion from a female on how women felt about being sexualized. Laura Bush, to her credit, followed up some on what Hillary had trail-blazed.

I am not saying that what I heard was right (although I said nothing in protest), I am just saying that Bloomberg's conduct in that area was not as unusual as some here want to make it.

You didn't answer my first question. Are you a man? I am a man who recounted stuff that I was witness to.

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kcr

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23. Don't think anyone said it was unusual.
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:05 AM
Feb 2020

Just refuting the claim it was ever openly accepted as the norm. And I didn't answer your question because it's irrelevant. Your anecdotal personal encounters, whatever your gender, don't change the fact that it wasn't a broad and openly accepted norm in the 90s for fathers to blatantly and openly sexualize their daughters in the manner that Trump and Bloomberg did and do.

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Blue_true

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25. Bloomberg was speaking to a small group.
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:22 AM
Feb 2020

I heard the stuff that I heard among small groups of men, some who had daughters and talked about that type of stuff. Maybe they were trying to shock me, I don't know.

Your gender does matter because if you are a woman, you likely didn't hear such things.

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emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
32. It's patterns of behavior that suggest character and attitudes. Talking is a behavior. So how does
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 02:05 AM
Feb 2020

Bloomberg over the years talk about women? Not on one occasion. On several. And what has been his conduct towards them? These are just a few of the questions people will be asking about our candidate now that he’s really joined the race.

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aeromanKC

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12. Better the father set her up with chaperones than running wild on her own
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:09 PM
Feb 2020
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Blue_true

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15. I agree.
Wed Feb 19, 2020, 10:12 PM
Feb 2020

But he projected what he would have done at that age onto her. I have seen lots of men do that, so him doing it isn't earth shattering, IMO. But yeah, if you are a business person traveling with a teenager, you better have a plan for keeping them busy doing the right things.

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dawg day

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27. I wonder why a smart young woman wouldn't be enjoying being on a foreign trip--
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 01:30 AM
Feb 2020

so much to see and do.

I remember going to Europe on a church trip and all the other teens wanted to party and make out (you know, like at home), and I was always trying to get up a fun group to go to the museum. I fear that perhaps I wasn't the life of the party.

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mr_lebowski

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34. Some of you folks are making it sound like he said 'yeah I got her laid all over the country'
Fri Feb 21, 2020, 04:12 AM
Feb 2020

or something.

What he said is not really all that bad, IMHO.

In a small, private setting, when she's not there, I mean.

Unlike orange shitstain who said right in front of Ivanka that if she wasn't his daughter maybe he'd be dating her ... on THE FREAKING VIEW

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