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ismnotwasm's JournalOf Course Women Are Getting Sexually Harassed by Drones
Classic derailment in the comment section. And also What the hell teaches their son this is ok?
Per the Daily Dot, a woman writing under the username Forthelulzaccount posted a story about being harassed on a "private, residential beach" in Virginia. She and her mother were sunbathing, she says, when she heard a strange sound overhead:
We heard this whirring noise above us and I looked up and saw a remote-controlled planeone of the square ones that can move really articulately in all directions. No big deal. I turned back down and napped more.
Then I noticed: a. It was getting really close to women. Like, straight up in their asses close, flying really low, staying there for probably three minutes at a time, and b. it had a camera on it.
In an email, she told the Daily Dot that the drone, which was two-foot-by-two-foot, was "clearly making other women at the beach uncomfortable," probably because it was hovering around their asses for three minutes at a time.
http://jezebel.com/of-course-women-are-getting-sexually-harassed-by-drones-1576526357
In MRA-land, women have never been oppressed, but men have been “disenfranchised”
Gee some of this sound familiar--just saying
One classic bad argument against feminism is the disingenuous claim that we dont need it any more. In the bad old days, proponents of this argument would concede, women may have faced some pesky little obstacles, but now that they can vote, and own property, and briefly work as the executive editor of The New York Times, theres just no need for feminism any more. Problem solved!
But these days the great minds of the Mens Rights movement have moved beyond this bad argument to a worse one: feminism was never really necessary in the first place, because women have never been oppressed.
The other day a Redditor by the name of cefarix earned himself a couple of dozen upvotes by posting a version of this argument to the Mens Rights Subreddit.
"I often see feminists make the claim that women have been oppressed for thousands of years. What evidence is there to back up this claim?
Personally, I dont think this could be the case. Men and women are both integral parts of human society, and the social bonds between close relatives of either gender are stronger than bonds with members of the same gender but unrelated. So it seems to me the idea that men would oppress their own close female relatives and women would just roll over and accept this oppression from their fathers, uncles, brothers, sons, etc, for thousands of years across all/most cultures across all of humanity and not have that society disintegrate over the course of a couple generations is ridiculous."
This is so packed with such sheer and obvious wrongness that its tempting to just point and laugh and move on. But Ive seen variations on this argument presented seriously by assorted MRAs again and again so I think its worth dealing with in some detail.
Before we even get to the facts of the case, lets deal with the form of his argument: Hes arguing that history cannot have happened the way feminists say it happened because he doesnt think that could be the case.
Trouble is, you cant simply decide what did or did not happen in history based on what makes sense to you. History is history. Its not a thread on Reddit. You cant downvote historical facts out of existence the way, say, Mens Rights Redditors downvote those pointing out facts they dont like.
http://wehuntedthemammoth.com/2014/05/16/in-mra-land-women-have-never-been-oppressed-but-men-have-been-disenfranchised-by-having-power-over-them/
Curbing Online Abuse Isn’t Impossible. Here’s Where We Start
I appreciating the gamer community's attempts to tackle this issue. Even coming up with a game plan-pardon the pun--is progress. An interesting read
Haniver, of course, is not aloneharassment on the Internet is ubiquitous, particularly for women. In a 2013 Pew Research survey, 23 percent of people ages 18 to 29 reported being stalked or harassed online; advocacy groups report that around 70 percent of the cases they deal with involve female victims, and one study of online gaming found players with female voices received three times as many negative responses as men.
Too often, though, we talk about online abuse like we talk about bad weather: We shake our heads, shrug, and assume theres nothing we can do. The behavior is so prevalent that its seen as an inextricable part of online culture. As a widely read article in Januarys Pacific Standard noted, Internet harassment is routinely dismissed as harmless locker-room talk, perpetrators as juvenile pranksters, and victims as overly sensitive complainers. What else, in other words, would you expect from the Internet? But the Internet is now where we socialize, where we work. Its where we meet our spouses, where we build our reputations. Online harassment isnt just inconvenient, nor is it something we can walk away from with ease. Its abhorrent behavior that has real social, professional, and economic costs. And the big social networks where most Americans spend time onlineFacebook, YouTube, Twitter, and the restarent doing nearly enough to address the problem.
The good news, though, is that Internet harassment can be combatted and reduced. While the problem is far from solved, a few online communitiesespecially in the world of multiplayer gaming, which has long struggled with issues of incivility and abusehave come up with some innovative techniques to deter harassers and sometimes even reform them. If Facebook and the other social networks were to take a page from these approaches, they could make huge strides in turning the Internet into a less toxic place for everyone. But embracing their lessons would also require a whole new way of thinking about online behavior.
http://www.wired.com/2014/05/fighting-online-harassment/
Robert Reich: Right-wing policies are literally killing women
To put it bluntly, for every 100,000 births in America last year, 18.5 women died. Thats compared to 8.2 women who died during pregnancy and birth in Canada, 6.1 in Britain, and only 2.4 in Iceland.
A woman giving birth in America is more than twice as likely to die as a woman in Saudi Arabia or China.
You might say international comparisons should be taken with a grain of salt because of difficulties of getting accurate measurements across nations. Maybe China hides the true extent of its maternal deaths. But Canada and Britain?
Even if youre still skeptical, consider that our rate of maternal death is heading in the wrong direction. Its risen over the past decade and is now nearly the highest in a quarter century.
In 1990, the maternal mortality rate in America was 12.4 women per 100,000 births. In 2003, it was 17.6. Now its 18.5.
Thats not a measurement error because weve been measuring the rate of maternal death in the United States the same way for decades.
http://www.salon.com/2014/05/14/robert_reich_right_wing_policies_are_literally_killing_women_partner/
An influential, vibrant, exciting force: defining African feminism
South African girls bring attention to violence against women for the One Billion Rising campaign. Photograph: LynethCrighton/GuardianWitness
A debate has ignited among the Guardians Africa network partners. In a guest blog for Ms Afropolitan Doreen Akiyo Yomoah wrote that "you are a woman" was her least favourite word combination in the English language, proceeding to outline the five most irksome assumptions made on the basis of her gender.
This provoked a response from Freda Muyambo, also known as Freedes, who said some of Yomoahs points reflected more on her as an individual rather than a female. She argues that women are different both biologically and socially a fact to be celebrated, not dismissed.
Muyambo says her blog was intended as a springboard for debate. This got us thinking and we decided to open up the discussion to commentators on our network and beyond. So, what does it mean to be a feminist in Africa today? What are the main challenges activists are up against? What does the future hold?
Heres what they had to say:
Doreen Akiyo Yomoah: 'we're responsible for making things right'
"You are a woman"; quite possibly my least favourite words strung together. When people say this to me its usually to judge how badly Im performing my gender. No assumptions should be made about anyone based on those three words. Nevertheless, here are some that I hear regularly.
I have to present myself a certain way. In Ghana (where Im from originally) everything is stratified by gender, people would say I must wear earrings because Im a woman.
I cant do DIY. Once, when I was renting a room from a Ghanaian family, I brought a bookshelf into the house. My landlords sister saw me and asked incredulously if I was going to put it together myself. While I was putting it together with my weak female hands, the landlord barged in, grabbed a plank of wood from me, and said "a woman shouldnt be doing this kind of work". When I objected, he said that he was helping me.
Women cant change things. As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie said, just because your culture says something, doesnt mean that its right. People create culture, and were responsible for making things right.
More:http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/apr/29/defining-african-feminism-join-the-debate?cmp=wp-plugin
White privilege 101: Here’s the basic lesson Paul Ryan, Tal Fortgang and Donald Sterling need
And all the DUers that don't understand what the fuck White privilege is. While this article is somewhat intellectual in tone, I'm sure all the ones who are defining their arguments against white male privilege will have no problems understanding it.
There is a way to fight back against this very real, and so far unrecognized, threat. And that is for white people especially white men to step up and push back (lovingly or forcefully, as the situation dictates) against this sort of polarizing rhetoric and the thinking and feeling thats connected to it. Its not just a matter of paternalistically helping out women and minorities when theyre attacked. The fortunes of white working-class men have plummeted since the early 70s not because women and minorities have stolen their cheese, but because theyre snookered into thinking like that, making themselves easy marks for far more sophisticated actors to take advantage of. And whats long been true for working-class white men will increasingly become true of white men with college degrees as well. One of Thomas Pikettys central points is that any sort of labor, however skilled it may be, is going to lose out to inherited capital in the long run, if the basic structures of todays capitalist economy arent changed.
So how do white men fight back, not just for the sake of others, or society as a whole, but for themselves, as well? There are lots of ways they can do this, but here Id like to focus on just one: by gaining a much a more solid, objective understanding of what minorities (especially blacks) and women already largely understand as a basic fact of life how racial and gender privilege work, with white male ignorance as a key component. Its only by unifying against an already unified economic elite that Americans of all races and ethnicities can keep hope alive for a more prosperous future.
Before going any further, I just want to quote from McDonoughs article, where she references a sampling of the information already out there:
Its likely that Fortgang will have the opportunity at Princeton to learn about the racial wealth gap, the legacy of red-lining, the unemployment rate among college educated men of color versus their white counterparts, the convergence of racism and sexism that leaves women of color disproportionately impacted by domestic violence, the gender pay gap experienced by black women, the deadly violence faced by black children and the myriad other manifestations of racism in the United States. Basically all of the things that he will never have to experience as an extraordinarily privileged white man.
http://www.salon.com/2014/05/09/white_privilege_101_heres_the_basic_lesson_paul_ryan_tal_fortgang_and_donald_sterling/
Mother’s Day On Our Radar – Mindy Forsythe Rescues A Tortured Gay Teen (trigger warning)
In an old house in Paris, that was covered with vines, lived twelve little girls in two straight lines.
What I was not good at, and did not enjoy, were the teenage years. When I think of that period of my kids lives, words like sneaky, moody, selfish and ungrateful start pouring out, so I find it best not to visit there. For me, my kids teen years were something I endured, not something I enjoyed. I would never have considered taking another teen into our home, much less a troubled one.
That experience may be why, when I heard the story of Mindy Forsythe who saved a gay teenager from hell at home, I immediately wanted to have her canonized. St. Mindy. Patron saint of lost gay teens.
From the outside looking in, Mindy, her husband Dale and their three children have the picture perfect, happy suburban family. Corey Nichols had anything but.
Fifteen-year-old Corey (right) had the bad fortune to be one of the thousands of gay kids rejected by his religiously homophobic family. Knowing how they felt, he tried to keep his sexuality hidden, but they suspected. Corey told Out In Santa Cruz that his father warned him that gay people were not only sinners, they were sin itself, and when they reached a certain age, they had to be killed. Corey says his father threatened:
If any fag lived in this house, I would shoot them in the head with a shotgun.
Corey was miserable as you can imagine. Then one night, sick and scared, he told his friend Aubrey in an online forum:
I am desperate. Things here are so bad, I want to slit my wrists. I am not kidding.
It was the luckiest moment of Coreys young life, because Aubreys mother, our shero Mindy, happened by at that moment and saw what was on her daughters computer screen.
It was like I was possessed by someone else, Mindy recalls. I knew I needed to act, and to do something, but everything I did was against my nature and not how I usually act as a person.
http://thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/on-our-radar-mindy-forsythe-rescues-a-tortured-gay-teen/news/2014/05/11/86029
Michelle Obama: In Kidnapped Nigerian Girls, 'We See Our Own Daughters' (VIDEO)
Delivering the weekly presidential radio and Internet address on the eve of the U.S. holiday honoring mothers, the first lady and mother of two said that, like millions of people around the world, she and President Barack Obama are "outraged and heartbroken" over the April 15 abduction of nearly 300 girls from their dormitory.
She asked the nation to pray for their safe return and stressed the importance of education.
"In these girls, Barack and I see our own daughters," Mrs. Obama said in the five-minute address, referring to Malia, 15, and Sasha, 12. "We see their hopes, their dreams, and we can only imagine the anguish their parents are feeling right now."
She said what happened more than three weeks ago in Nigeria was not an isolated incident, but "a story we see every day as girls around the world risk their lives to pursue their ambitions."
Mrs. Obama mentioned Malala Yousafzai, the Pakistani teenager who survived a gunshot to the head as she traveled to school in 2012. Malala has become an outspoken advocate for the rights of all girls to get an education.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/10/michelle-obama-nigerian-girls_n_5300816.html
Could these guys be bigger assholes? (NSFW)
I suppose they could--- perhaps using the 'women eating on the tubes' bullshit to fight global starvation or something.
But something about this brand of assholery is striking--like they've raised being an asshole to an art form. I wasn't going to post anything about this. Still probably shouldn't since they are like malignant children, crying for negative attention. Plus there's an embedded video, and I didn't want to give our stalker friends gratuitous thrills-- because, well, they're the same kind of asshole. And they're proud of it. Which is nausea inducing, involuntary shudderingly, hair crawling creepy. But we know there plenty of creepers around.
But, I gave in.
If a video of women riding a sex toy in public were just a stunt to encourage participants to own their sexuality, wed watch, turn a little red, share with friends (probably not directly to Facebook) and move on.
But this hyper-sexual stunt waged by Simple Pickup -- an all-male group that advises men on topics such as how to pick up women when youre high - tried incorporating a devastating human rights issue into the film, and it fell predictably flat.
The three-member posse (whom you may remember from another controversial stunt that involved them motorboating women for breast cancer awareness) brought a Sybian, a female sex toy, to Venice Beach.
They offered female passersby the chance to ride it while also raising awareness and funds for Orchid Project, a nonprofit that fights to stop the practice of female genital mutilation (FGM).
While there are numerous issues with this awareness campaign, a glaring problem is its inherent insensitivity to one of FGM's most dire consequences. According to UNICEF, one of the reasons communities continue the practice of FGM is to reduce a woman's sexual desire, a pleasure the woman featured in the video unabashedly enjoy.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/09/simple-pickup-artists-sex_n_5296096.html
Meh, OITNB's DeLaria Won't Attend Trans Exclusionary Music Fest (article)
Since this has become a point of some contention, I thought I'd post this particular viewpoint on a particular topic from a Trans woman.
The numbers at Fest are declining each and every year at the same time as big names refuse to perform or refuse to continue to perform. Dawn Kirby, a long time Fest-goer had this to say:
This year there were more than 3,000 women on the land. I think the biggest year was 1985, the 10-year anniversary, when there were 10,000 women. It's been declining since then. About 98 percent of the women at festival are lesbian. There's a sense that because we're so much more visible these days that festival isn't necessary. Very few of my friends who went in the early days go anymore; they think that it's a lot of work.
Some, perhaps many, both cis and trans, may be tempted to say, "good" and post an accompanying picture of GrumpyCat, but I won't go that far. About all I can really manage is a barely verbalised, "meh." I think MichFest is increasing irrelevant. It's old. It's a dinosaur. It's not that women's spaces are no longer necessary (they are!), especially those that cater specifically (if not exclusively) to queer oriented women (again, Japan's Dyke Weekend and Women's Weekend), but rather there has been a general change in philosophy amongst those younger cisgender women MichFest would look to in order to continue on. Kirby mentions the visibility of lesbiansbut it's not just that. There's more to it.
In my own experiences and circles, I see young cisgender queer women increasingly reject the idea of male socialisation as so encompassing, so all-powerful that trans women are incapable of rejecting it or escaping it. My friends, my peers, and my acquaintances both Japanese and Western, who are early thirties or youngerthey simply don't buy the argument MichFest is selling, and neither are the women I attended graduate school with at a woman's university. They don't want the product being sold because they find the product out of touch with their values as members of the nebulous identities of "woman" and "lesbian" and "queer" and "feminist."
http://roygbiv.jezebel.com/meh-oitnbs-delaria-wont-attend-trans-exclusionary-musi-1573232463/+burtreynoldsismyspiritguide1
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