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PeaceNikki

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1. This is a piece I thought was quite good:
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 06:34 PM
Jan 2012
http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/02/jackson-katz-violence-against-women-is-a-mens-issue

Jackson Katz: Violence Against Women Is a Men's Issue

Drawing upon his most recent book, "The Macho Paradox: Why Some Men Hurt Women and How All Can Help," Katz shared some strategies with the audience, providing them with what he hoped was a foundation they could build upon in their professional and private lives. "My goal here today is to give you some concrete strategies on how to approach issues regarding violence against women and prevent gender-violence issues among men and young boys."

Katz spent a significant portion of the session driving home his first strategy and why a paradigm shift in thinking is imperative to the prevention of gender violence. At the root of the problem is language and how, historically, language has helped cement and legitimize how people view gender violence.

"In each, the dominate culture is left out of the equation. This is one way that dominant systems maintain themselves in that they are rarely challenged to think about their own dominance," Katz said. "This is one of the key characteristics of power and privilege and why the dominant culture has ability to go unexamined and remain invisible."

Katz admits this is one of the key challenges he faces when working with men, the dominant group in our society. Katz reminds the audience that his focus is on men. "I hope nobody in this room is under the delusion that this is sexist," Katz said. "I know women have made great historical strides in recent history, but when we talk about the dominant group in our society, we are talking about men. I'm also aware that members of dominant groups have been strong supporters of subordinate groups, but let's not be naïve, for there have been members of dominant groups who have resisted reform and responsibility."


If you haven't read it, I think it's well worth a read.

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This is a piece I thought was quite good: PeaceNikki Jan 2012 #1
It's embarrasing to be a man sometimes , orpupilofnature57 Jan 2012 #2
breath of fresh air. thank you seabeyond Jan 2012 #3
Rape jokes are no laughing matter Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Jan 2012 #5
That is true for some feminists Major Nikon Jan 2012 #13
Equating all feminists with Andrea Dworkin Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #14
Many did, and that's the problem Major Nikon Jan 2012 #16
And I would say that you were contributing to that problem Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #21
in ALL my years i never heard one woman say all sex was rape. never. heard. one. woman say it. BUT seabeyond Jan 2012 #24
When I read "Intercourse" by Dworkin, I did get a little different message than you Nikia Jan 2012 #28
that is exactly what that poster was saying. only men defended him saying he was not saying all seabeyond Jan 2012 #17
Yes DeathToTheOil Jan 2012 #12
Not trying to deny the "men's culture" that exists. randome Jan 2012 #22
here is the problem. this is not mere "horrible behavior". it is an undercurrent seabeyond Jan 2012 #25
Statistically your post is bullshit. Depending on the study, approximately 25% of women are raped riderinthestorm Jan 2012 #27
needs pinning at top of Forum getdown Jan 2012 #6
We live in a patriarchy and it permeates every facet of our lives riderinthestorm Jan 2012 #7
+1,000,000,000,000,000,000 Odin2005 Jan 2012 #8
I can't truly imagine how a Woman feels that is raped. It brings up... BlueJazz Jan 2012 #9
I would disagree with you generalization of title for the thread jimlup Jan 2012 #10
Of course men are oppressed in our society -- thanks to the very patriarchy that oppresses Remember Me Jan 2012 #11
Suggested reading and viewing Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #15
this shot of the video is another point. for a year or two, i have noticed many videos seabeyond Jan 2012 #19
No, I have no control over what's shown in the imbedding. Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #23
interesting. i wonder if that is true with all embedding, and it is always a provocative shot of seabeyond Jan 2012 #26
by the way, i watched this before. she is very good. the video is very good. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #20
"naive" getdown Jan 2012 #18
Just posted this in LBN> Survivoreesta Jan 2012 #29
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