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riderinthestorm

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7. We live in a patriarchy and it permeates every facet of our lives
Sun Jan 1, 2012, 08:43 PM
Jan 2012

It enshrines the dominant male and does nothing to discourage violence and oppression against those who are inferior. The article only touches on this in the most generic way and then quickly veers off....

"It is easy to point the finger at a fraternity and say that they are the problem but in reality the problem is much larger."


However the secondary point from the article is still valid and deserves reinforcing...

"Many people are quick to question the victim's actions well before they will question the perpetrator's choices -- they ask victim blaming questions, question victims' sexual history, clothing choices, substance abuse history, mental health status, etc. If a perpetrator is found guilty, their prior victims are blamed for whatever choices they may have made, as if their actions had the power to convict a criminal and spare other victims.

"The media continues to use the term "accuser" when referencing a victim, ignoring the reality that it is only the state that can bring charges against an individual in criminal court. People are so uncomfortable with rape that they often place judgment on the victim in order to reassure themselves that such a crime would never happen to them or their loved ones. It would only happen to "those kinds of people ... who make those choices." There are those that would even turn their backs on the most vulnerable victims, our children."

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This is a piece I thought was quite good: PeaceNikki Jan 2012 #1
It's embarrasing to be a man sometimes , orpupilofnature57 Jan 2012 #2
breath of fresh air. thank you seabeyond Jan 2012 #3
Rape jokes are no laughing matter Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Jan 2012 #5
That is true for some feminists Major Nikon Jan 2012 #13
Equating all feminists with Andrea Dworkin Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #14
Many did, and that's the problem Major Nikon Jan 2012 #16
And I would say that you were contributing to that problem Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #21
in ALL my years i never heard one woman say all sex was rape. never. heard. one. woman say it. BUT seabeyond Jan 2012 #24
When I read "Intercourse" by Dworkin, I did get a little different message than you Nikia Jan 2012 #28
that is exactly what that poster was saying. only men defended him saying he was not saying all seabeyond Jan 2012 #17
Yes DeathToTheOil Jan 2012 #12
Not trying to deny the "men's culture" that exists. randome Jan 2012 #22
here is the problem. this is not mere "horrible behavior". it is an undercurrent seabeyond Jan 2012 #25
Statistically your post is bullshit. Depending on the study, approximately 25% of women are raped riderinthestorm Jan 2012 #27
needs pinning at top of Forum getdown Jan 2012 #6
We live in a patriarchy and it permeates every facet of our lives riderinthestorm Jan 2012 #7
+1,000,000,000,000,000,000 Odin2005 Jan 2012 #8
I can't truly imagine how a Woman feels that is raped. It brings up... BlueJazz Jan 2012 #9
I would disagree with you generalization of title for the thread jimlup Jan 2012 #10
Of course men are oppressed in our society -- thanks to the very patriarchy that oppresses Remember Me Jan 2012 #11
Suggested reading and viewing Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #15
this shot of the video is another point. for a year or two, i have noticed many videos seabeyond Jan 2012 #19
No, I have no control over what's shown in the imbedding. Tansy_Gold Jan 2012 #23
interesting. i wonder if that is true with all embedding, and it is always a provocative shot of seabeyond Jan 2012 #26
by the way, i watched this before. she is very good. the video is very good. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #20
"naive" getdown Jan 2012 #18
Just posted this in LBN> Survivoreesta Jan 2012 #29
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