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Father Of Shooter Asking For Privacy [View all] SoCalMusicLover Feb 2018 OP
I hold judgement until we learn where the kid got the gun XRubicon Feb 2018 #1
Exactly. DURHAM D Feb 2018 #2
Kid Got The Gun From Dad's Collection SoCalMusicLover Feb 2018 #4
I hope the victims family sue that bastard. The father, I mean. NT raccoon Feb 2018 #16
Father died many years ago. Kaleva Feb 2018 #94
Uh, both of his parents are dead. What are you talking about? nt MadDAsHell Feb 2018 #107
Seems everyone who ought to be sued it dead. too bad. nt raccoon Feb 2018 #109
Sorry, learned that OP is a lie. Where did they get this fake news? Nt raccoon Feb 2018 #120
Why are you posting these lies? oberliner Feb 2018 #111
I'm curious as to how gun friendly the dad was. joshcryer Feb 2018 #15
Yep. Daddy, like so many gunners, probably introduced his kid Hoyt Feb 2018 #29
These types are scary. I grew up on a big ranch Drahthaardogs Feb 2018 #39
Same here gay texan Feb 2018 #44
That's proper use of guns, and I don't have a problem with that. My granddad had a farm too. Hoyt Feb 2018 #55
It's the attitude. Drahthaardogs Feb 2018 #58
Ive never had a picture of myself holding my gun. GWC58 Feb 2018 #67
Not true oberliner Feb 2018 #112
What's not true? Hoyt Feb 2018 #117
Both his parents are dead. The father has been dead for years . He bought the gun @ age 18 lunasun Feb 2018 #98
His father, or adoptive father, was alive at the age most gunner dads indoctrinate their kids Hoyt Feb 2018 #119
I was just thinking Nevernose Feb 2018 #122
You don't know that. His father died when he was 4. But he's living in a state pnwmom Feb 2018 #132
His adoptive father was into guns and was OK with his attraction Hoyt Feb 2018 #134
Where is your evidence of that? His adoptive father died when he was four, pnwmom Feb 2018 #135
I can't imagine the grief. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2018 #3
apparently the kids in the school knew he would do something like this. Egnever Feb 2018 #5
Fuck him. He raised that monster and/or neglected the downward spiral his son was in. LonePirate Feb 2018 #6
There is proof of this or you just making up stuff? n/t USALiberal Feb 2018 #13
He either promoted his son's gun obsession or he ignored it. He's a horrible father regardless. LonePirate Feb 2018 #17
You have no fucking idea yet. Wow, love the lynch mod mentality here. n/t USALiberal Feb 2018 #18
It's obvious that the poster is expressing his/her opinion about the father... TheDebbieDee Feb 2018 #35
How adorable! nt USALiberal Feb 2018 #40
I think you need to look at the difference between offering an opinion and making up facts. Blecht Feb 2018 #131
It's really mob lies not just the OP but replies . Dad died yrs ago & killer bought the gun @ 18 lunasun Feb 2018 #103
You don't know anything... Baconator Feb 2018 #45
If every relative today's victims doesn't agree that bad parenting existed here, then I will retract LonePirate Feb 2018 #52
Sometimes good parents have a bad kid Drahthaardogs Feb 2018 #57
Exactly... Might... Baconator Feb 2018 #78
I usually just let them ride out their rage aikoaiko Feb 2018 #63
Good advice! Thanks! nt USALiberal Feb 2018 #65
As the sister of a murderer, Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #21
Did you brother actively and repeatedly display an unhealthy obsession with guns? LonePirate Feb 2018 #22
Do you know whether the parent was aware of the things you are alleging? Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #26
The parent either tolerated the gun obsession or ignored it (knowingly or unknowingly). LonePirate Feb 2018 #31
Parenting sucks. You do the best you can, or maybe you dont; no one helps and everyone judges. lostnfound Feb 2018 #33
You have no idea what you're talking about. procon Feb 2018 #34
As a society, we need to stop giving a pass to bad parents like those of the shooter. LonePirate Feb 2018 #43
You're living just telling a make believe story. procon Feb 2018 #64
By all means, share whatever you can about how the parents did everything they could to stop him. LonePirate Feb 2018 #70
OK, here; my opinion is more valid because you're just making up procon Feb 2018 #84
Please link to ANYTHING that proves anything you said! nt USALiberal Feb 2018 #41
I threw out every hypothetical that came to mind. Did I miss one that's on your mind? LonePirate Feb 2018 #47
So you are just making up shit. I get it now. nt USALiberal Feb 2018 #49
You cannot judge whether someone was a bad parent Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #51
I damn well am going to judge the parent of any kid who shoots up his school. LonePirate Feb 2018 #54
Wow, you scare me more. n.t USALiberal Feb 2018 #66
I hope you never have a child who disappoints you, Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #69
Their best efforts resulted in 17 dead people today. How is that not a failure at parenting? LonePirate Feb 2018 #72
Sympathy is not a limited commodity Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #82
And what if the parents of those victims have other children with mental health issues? procon Feb 2018 #86
If their kid(s) shoot up a school and kill 17 people, then yes, they would be bad parents also. LonePirate Feb 2018 #88
So which parents failed? Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #96
You aren't going to make this person understand. sarah FAILIN Feb 2018 #77
You're correct. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #87
The father died years ago of a heart attack, the mom just died at Thanksgiving at age 68. lostnfound Feb 2018 #121
The father died some years ago. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2018 #128
I'm sorry that your family went through this janterry Feb 2018 #81
Thank you. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #83
He has been dead for a long time . Died when the killer was young lunasun Feb 2018 #102
No, he didn't oberliner Feb 2018 #113
He died when the boy was four. But 1 in 3 people in Florida own a gun. And since pnwmom Feb 2018 #133
Lock him up! ProudLib72 Feb 2018 #7
His father died years ago oberliner Feb 2018 #114
I hear foster child on local news superpatriotman Feb 2018 #8
I have mixed feelings on this score... It seems increasingly like we NEVER hear anything about hlthe2b Feb 2018 #9
That's a tough balance. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #60
What a painful and personal account you can offer. hlthe2b Feb 2018 #76
Other Kids At School Noticed Trouble And Avoided Killer SoCalMusicLover Feb 2018 #10
I'm sure the dead father will be able to keep his guns. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2018 #129
Did he supply the guns???!!!! ecstatic Feb 2018 #11
I read the book by Dylan Klebold's mother MichMary Feb 2018 #12
Ted talk by Dylan Kiebold's mother is excellent. Link. Hamlette Feb 2018 #27
I'd never seen that underpants Feb 2018 #30
Thank you! n/t Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #74
Yeah, that book is sad & scary& how well humans irisblue Feb 2018 #50
Lots of wannabee vigilantes posting in this thread. procon Feb 2018 #14
It's Relevant Since Dad Brought KILLER Up Around Guns SoCalMusicLover Feb 2018 #19
Local 10 said his foster mother died recently malaise Feb 2018 #23
No one knows yet. That is why this thread is disgusting. n.t USALiberal Feb 2018 #25
So why are you still here in this thread? You have a choice, you know... TheDebbieDee Feb 2018 #36
Because I can post all I want without your permission! nt USALiberal Feb 2018 #37
Why can't people post here? nt procon Feb 2018 #91
So was I. True of my own dad, and probably a lot of families, too. procon Feb 2018 #32
I want to see a link to this statement. sheshe2 Feb 2018 #75
Hard to do since they are dead already. The father for a long time lunasun Feb 2018 #101
His father died when he was young . Why all the false statements ? lunasun Feb 2018 #100
Except his father died years ago obamanut2012 Feb 2018 #123
So true!!! This thread is disgusting. Idiotic lynch mod fools. Scary! n/t USALiberal Feb 2018 #24
Since white wing dads started introducing their kids to the white wing gun culture. Hoyt Feb 2018 #61
If the dad owned the weapon, he's culpable. Period. ecstatic Feb 2018 #85
I think it's only a few - they are just very vicious and very loud. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #89
Link please??? USALiberal Feb 2018 #20
your rush to judgement is understandable Kali Feb 2018 #28
No privacy Generic Brad Feb 2018 #38
Both of his parents are dead...... USALiberal Feb 2018 #42
Maybe that's both his bio parents, hence the foster parents ... only that mother is dead ... mr_lebowski Feb 2018 #62
He doesn't have a foster father obamanut2012 Feb 2018 #125
i wonder how many on this thread have raised a kid w a mental illness or mopinko Feb 2018 #46
+1. I know parents who did what they could for troubled kids who could not tblue37 Feb 2018 #53
sometimes they get a head injury. mopinko Feb 2018 #59
Thank you. underpants Feb 2018 #56
Thank you. H2O Man Feb 2018 #68
Oh, but you were a bad parent, failed your child and society. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #71
yeah, how dare this kid's parent up and die? mopinko Feb 2018 #73
+1 NutmegYankee Feb 2018 #115
thank you for your post, mopinko. As helpless as I feel about guns, I feel even more so in helping hlthe2b Feb 2018 #116
Source? Where is your assertion from please. thank you in advance irisblue Feb 2018 #48
DU - Democrats - should be better than some of the shit being spewed in this thread. NRaleighLiberal Feb 2018 #79
+1 demmiblue Feb 2018 #104
I would have to wonder why leftyladyfrommo Feb 2018 #80
Man, lots of aspiring North Koreans here. linuxman Feb 2018 #90
WTF are you talking about? B2G Feb 2018 #92
Father apparently died many years ago of a heart attack Kaleva Feb 2018 #93
I'm asking for the high-schoolers his son killed to not be dead. Iggo Feb 2018 #95
How about you delete this ugly thread. Ms. Toad Feb 2018 #97
Why did you start this OP ? His father has been dead for years? lunasun Feb 2018 #99
No, sorry, your son is a mass murderer. You don't get privacy right now. Bucky Feb 2018 #105
He's dead, Jim. n/t demmiblue Feb 2018 #106
It isn't his son, it isn't his foster son obamanut2012 Feb 2018 #126
There are times when some on here aren't any better than those they hate Bradshaw3 Feb 2018 #108
I know, it is maddening obamanut2012 Feb 2018 #127
This OP is a lie and should be deleted (father of shooter died years ago, mother died recently) oberliner Feb 2018 #110
That's getting into some really Old Testament-style sophistication. LanternWaste Feb 2018 #118
His father died years ago obamanut2012 Feb 2018 #124
Yes some people are just wired badly Bradshaw3 Feb 2018 #130
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