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HeartlandDem

(80 posts)
105. yea, me too...
Thu Jul 26, 2012, 10:11 AM
Jul 2012

just can't tolerate the lies anymore... so I confront them with the facts... which they hate so they change the subject to some other lie they heard and the cycle repeats itself. sigh, tiresome.

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Politics has affected my family relationships also. DCBob Jul 2012 #1
mine, too. But frankly I do not care rurallib Jul 2012 #25
politics kardonb Jul 2012 #34
Perhaps you could try biting their tongues. savannah43 Jul 2012 #46
I leave the room footinmouth Jul 2012 #2
i got a call when the supreme court cindyperry2010 Jul 2012 #3
WTG! freshwest Jul 2012 #18
great response ever heard of james joyce? HCE SuiGeneris Jul 2012 #91
The more of their time you waste the less money they bring in for their campaign. Sirveri Jul 2012 #125
I'm in the same boat, and it's really difficult, sometimes Siwsan Jul 2012 #4
I'mpissing off old classmates on facebook who post those stoopid rustydog Jul 2012 #5
Oh me too, I have skipped two class reunions because I just refuse to listen to the crap. I monmouth Jul 2012 #11
This is closer to my situation. Blanks Jul 2012 #100
yea, me too... HeartlandDem Jul 2012 #105
I can barely discuss politics with my family, either Aerows Jul 2012 #6
I'm right there with you Robyn66 Jul 2012 #7
Me, too. freshwest Jul 2012 #19
my sister's stepdaughters barbtries Jul 2012 #8
I've learned that my father's side of the family are hard core Republicans demwing Jul 2012 #89
I'm having a BLAST doing it right now. Calling out Fundies on the Mormon issue NightWatcher Jul 2012 #9
Yes jberryhill Jul 2012 #16
! HCE SuiGeneris Jul 2012 #92
Me too. RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #10
I tend to mark these folks "only important updates" Patiod Jul 2012 #113
That was a great response. RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #115
Stopped him flat Patiod Jul 2012 #122
Nice! Nobody is afraid of Glen Beck RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #123
I'm at least a little worried about him Sentath Jul 2012 #142
Frightening. RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #144
Pissing off Republicons means you're doing something right... joeybee12 Jul 2012 #12
I really do believe racism is at the heart of it. Anansi1171 Jul 2012 #13
Oh, absolutely gollygee Jul 2012 #14
I laugh right in their faces and point at them like the nuts they are NNN0LHI Jul 2012 #15
Not a problem - anymore. We quit speaking in the * years. Life is better. nt Mnemosyne Jul 2012 #17
* can kiss my ass. Worst example of the people's political representation, ever. (pic heavy) HCE SuiGeneris Jul 2012 #93
I shudder when I hear jebbie mentioned regarding VP or 2016. Suppose he'd try to pass off Mnemosyne Jul 2012 #95
NIce set of pix bongbong Jul 2012 #131
Bush Was A Friend Destroyer For Me otohara Jul 2012 #20
I stop and ask them DearAbby Jul 2012 #21
ha savalez Jul 2012 #137
I crossed that bridge in 2000 and 2004. hay rick Jul 2012 #22
Had to respond today to the "4% tax on home sales starting in January" thing. FLyellowdog Jul 2012 #23
Me Too Z_California Jul 2012 #129
I confront them, civilly. Try to never raise my voice. Why should they get to spew crap democrat_patriot Jul 2012 #24
Hi gollygee, I have the same situation. DrewFlorida Jul 2012 #26
Family is full of liberals proud patriot Jul 2012 #27
I don't bring it up - Republicans can't help themselves, they always do treestar Jul 2012 #28
^ What Treestar said OmahaBlueDog Jul 2012 #60
I found my angle during the Bush years. They eventually stopped bringing up Marr Jul 2012 #85
That's the way we'll get more on our side. lovemydog Jul 2012 #96
Next time, when your friends and family come over for dinner for a quiet barbecue, hand this out Segami Jul 2012 #29
I posted that on Facebook at one point. gollygee Jul 2012 #43
I'm lucky. I can't relate to any of this. My family is Democratic all the way. Liberal_Stalwart71 Jul 2012 #30
My family is mostly Democratic gollygee Jul 2012 #42
My family on every side is hardcore democrats. progressivebydesign Jul 2012 #71
OT, but figured you would enjoy this. Had me roflmao: coalition_unwilling Jul 2012 #88
Immediate family are liberals, extended family are repugs but we have agree to disagree and NEVER Raine Jul 2012 #31
I need a rule with people like that gollygee Jul 2012 #39
My wife's entire side of the family is Repbulican. Curtland1015 Jul 2012 #103
I have pissed off many family too. liberal N proud Jul 2012 #32
Perfect. Phlem Jul 2012 #35
I have threatened to kill one Jack Sprat Jul 2012 #67
My brother came across the dinner table once liberal N proud Jul 2012 #97
"Lighten up, Francis"... Whiskeytide Jul 2012 #117
My Mormon father in law hasn't stayed at our house for 3 years. Phlem Jul 2012 #33
Fact, reason and logic in very very simple terms. Dont call me Shirley Jul 2012 #36
You're doing something right! sadbear Jul 2012 #37
When they say Obama is a commy and has made the economy worse I just use this from my blog. ErikJ Jul 2012 #38
Nicely done! (nt) RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #53
Nice. Dawgs Jul 2012 #104
I stay home with my cats most of the time. savannah43 Jul 2012 #40
I don't talk to the step kids and their wives. Manifestor_of_Light Jul 2012 #41
My wife and I haven't talked with her family (my in laws) gopiscrap Jul 2012 #44
Wow! gollygee Jul 2012 #45
Reagan bailed out Continental Illinois. Reagan tripled the national debt. Reagan gave amnesty.... matmar Jul 2012 #47
Ouch! good one. They worship Saint Ronny. ErikJ Jul 2012 #52
Perfect image.... truebluegreen Jul 2012 #76
No, but Reagan was a conservative Jack Sprat Jul 2012 #64
Well said!!! That's about when it all started happening, the split in the RKP5637 Jul 2012 #77
Reagan's main message-Government is THE problem ErikJ Jul 2012 #79
Divide & Conquer bongbong Jul 2012 #132
Let's turn that around. JohnnyRingo Jul 2012 #48
I don't feel guilty gollygee Jul 2012 #56
...the squealing static of GOP owned hate radio. Blanks Jul 2012 #106
Latest issue: How awesome Chick-Fil-A is for hating gay people gollygee Jul 2012 #49
My brother . . . Richard D Jul 2012 #50
I have one relative... awoke_in_2003 Jul 2012 #51
silence means consent riverwalker Jul 2012 #54
Silence means consent gollygee Jul 2012 #55
I am in complete empathy with you. Jack Sprat Jul 2012 #57
This sentence is key... Ineeda Jul 2012 #58
I don't have any republican friends anymore except two RKP5637 Jul 2012 #59
me too vegasjack Jul 2012 #61
socialist corporate welfare The Jungle 1 Jul 2012 #62
I don't argue Shankapotomus Jul 2012 #63
I sure do agree with you! soccer1 Jul 2012 #73
That's the key, I think, Shankapotomus Jul 2012 #82
I do not speak to my family that often because of politics and bigotry. Lint Head Jul 2012 #65
F' them or live in some twilight zone you accept where everything said is propaganda lunasun Jul 2012 #66
Strategies: Listen to Thom Hartmann, Assume they did not get the news. ErikJ Jul 2012 #68
Wow -- so many of us have been dealing with this . . . markpkessinger Jul 2012 #69
Hang in there and I feel for you. I'm fortunate that my whole family (a big bunch) are democrats and demosincebirth Jul 2012 #70
My Father's Two Brothers... neeksgeek Jul 2012 #72
I'm fortunate that I have a totally Democratic family all around. progressivebydesign Jul 2012 #74
Here's a tip that might make some friends... eventually. sofa king Jul 2012 #75
+ 1,000,000 Amonester Jul 2012 #78
They'll find another hostage like last time ErikJ Jul 2012 #80
Excellent post. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #110
I was born and raised in Utah... family, friends. astonamous Jul 2012 #81
instantly make their jaws drop: chknltl Jul 2012 #83
I lost an uncle and a cousin to politics. I B Calm Jul 2012 #84
2000 election was the watershed moment for me. I shed Repig family coalition_unwilling Jul 2012 #86
My brother-in-law is independent. That's as close as I get. OnionPatch Jul 2012 #87
What issues? LOL, repukes don't discuss issues, they blabber incessantly just1voice Jul 2012 #90
I visit my dad's house and see a book by Bill O'Reilly in the front room. mick063 Jul 2012 #94
WOW Mr Dixon Jul 2012 #98
Good for you standingtall Jul 2012 #99
I'm like you... lukkadairish Jul 2012 #101
Join the club. Dawgs Jul 2012 #102
You ask questions. The Doctor. Jul 2012 #107
I try to take the higher ground always duhneece Jul 2012 #108
And I memorized, "We surely see that different, Darlin'" duhneece Jul 2012 #109
Politics aside. Remmah2 Jul 2012 #111
I'm like you. 99Forever Jul 2012 #112
Life is way to short to argue politics with friends and family. deaniac21 Jul 2012 #114
Since I live in red state Texas... hamsterjill Jul 2012 #116
I don't talk politics with my family Irishonly Jul 2012 #118
They tend to be incorrigible. Festivito Jul 2012 #119
I recently told a very smart Republican I know Coexist Jul 2012 #120
how did this person respond? barbtries Jul 2012 #133
he looked shocked for a second Coexist Jul 2012 #135
very good. barbtries Jul 2012 #139
The three stages of truth. Festivito Jul 2012 #121
I refuse to talk to my aunt and uncle about politics YoungDemCA Jul 2012 #124
Not always a bad thing Freddie Jul 2012 #126
Sounds dandy. Daemonaquila Jul 2012 #127
My republiclown parents have Faux Newz on 80% of the time and have drunk the kool aide. Snarkoleptic Jul 2012 #128
Two things: roody Jul 2012 #130
My cousin turned into a Birther while serving in Iraq. Odin2005 Jul 2012 #134
I'm probably making my Republican friends mad as well.... musical_soul Jul 2012 #136
Wall St, profits made off pollution & war, corporate control of our Govt. raouldukelives Jul 2012 #138
I've got conservative friends and family ryan_cats Jul 2012 #140
My response is the Hoover Dam, the Louisiana Purchase, Trancontinental Railroad kemah Jul 2012 #141
They don't care that they're pissing YOU off ... Bake Jul 2012 #143
My Problem is the people I'm having issues with are my son and DIL Grammy23 Jul 2012 #145
That's progress! lpbk2713 Jul 2012 #146
Any of you who think you've got it bad - read this. RedStateLiberal Jul 2012 #147
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