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In reply to the discussion: "Ahhh.... MEN." (Bette Davis, All About Eve) And BOYS. [View all]lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)19. Step one: do exactly as the link suggests, create a White House Council on Boys and Men.
Part two: single gender classrooms.
Boys are more likely to cooperate instead of competing with one another for the attention of the girls in the room.
It has been proven to improve education, and strongly correlated with improved emotional health.
In aggregate, men and boys are different than girls and women. Efforts to prove that they are not have done significant harm.
In the past, our dads learned from their dads what to do in the fields, or what to do as an apprentice. It was our dads job to do, not to feel. The messages to our dads from their dad, mom, church and community were both clear and unified. And for dads who could fit in, that enhanced emotional stability. Today, with so many boys raised in non-intact families, there is neither clarity nor unity; neither dad nor mentor. And that can create emotional insecurity.
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all i know is raising two boys, i saw NO difference in emotional need. at about 12 i saw one son
seabeyond
Jan 2012
#10
+1. Not unlike the revisionism that undid the lessons learned from Viet Nam re. foreign policy.
Smarmie Doofus
Jan 2012
#33
you are right, though. that is exactly what has happened in both situations. agreed.
seabeyond
Jan 2012
#34
Women and Gender Studies have shown over and over that it is unrelated to our birth sex.
RadiationTherapy
Jan 2012
#11
So.... what would that portend for suicide rates , and other psychopathologies, in say.........
Smarmie Doofus
Jan 2012
#16
What it shows is there is no correlation between sex, gender, and sexual preference.
RadiationTherapy
Jan 2012
#22
Exactly. I'm a guy, but my emotional experience and expression is quite "feminine".
Odin2005
Jan 2012
#27
Is it more accurate to say that you hang out with more emotionally communicative people?
RadiationTherapy
Jan 2012
#29
Stop treating displays of emotion as weak, undesireable, shameful and worthy of mocking.
Brickbat
Jan 2012
#3
this is why i am throwing my tantrums daily on du. what can be done? don't raise our boys with
seabeyond
Jan 2012
#4
Step one: do exactly as the link suggests, create a White House Council on Boys and Men.
lumberjack_jeff
Jan 2012
#19
So people who are born a certain way have to follow strict social norms?
RadiationTherapy
Jan 2012
#24