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grumpyduck

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8. Just trying to get the thread back on track :-)
Sun Apr 15, 2018, 01:30 PM
Apr 2018

It's already off-track as I guessed it would be, but here goes:

The recurring theme in my OP was anger: the anger that seems to be so prevalent in the U.S. right now, the anger that makes it difficult if not impossible to have a useful discussion with someone who doesn't agree with you (on any subject), the anger that often makes us take everything personally, the anger that makes us resort to name-calling. The anger that makes us take something out of context and turn it around and use it to attack whoever said it. The anger that makes us sometimes apparently respond to the subject line instead of the content of a post. The anger that often makes us want to be more angry.

I'm 67 years old and I've never seen so many people, all around, be so angry. How can you have a productive discussion (on anything) with somebody who starts off with the mindset that you're full of it? We used to at least give the other guy a chance, but now we so often just write people off as morons.

That's the division I was talking about. And that's why so often I want to yell at some people: "Shut up and take a breath!"

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I'd like to hear from the guy you 'used to work with' leftstreet Apr 2018 #1
What exactly is the problem with some degree of division? ck4829 Apr 2018 #2
Some more opinions about division ck4829 Apr 2018 #15
We are two people living on the same soil. DemocratSinceBirth Apr 2018 #3
Well, Sherman A1 Apr 2018 #4
In the current instance division is good. DemocratSinceBirth Apr 2018 #6
Welcome to DU? GreenEyedLefty Apr 2018 #5
Yeah, sometimes I want to just stop coming here grumpyduck Apr 2018 #9
You have options to enhance your DU experience. GreenEyedLefty Apr 2018 #12
Thank you grumpyduck Apr 2018 #13
When the occupant in the WH constantly spews out blatant lies and distortions, calling out those still_one Apr 2018 #7
Just trying to get the thread back on track :-) grumpyduck Apr 2018 #8
"Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger." DemocratSinceBirth Apr 2018 #10
Keep in mind a good chunk of divide is due to Russian agitprop. roamer65 Apr 2018 #11
Don't worry about not giving them everything Awsi Dooger Apr 2018 #14
Good post. (Though I do like Rachel). Tipperary Apr 2018 #16
''The Outrage Industry: Public Opinion Media and the New Incivility'' Donkees Apr 2018 #17
Wow, that book seems to go right along with my OP grumpyduck Apr 2018 #18
I guess I stopped "laughing little things off" on 7 Nov 2016 maxrandb Apr 2018 #19
+200,000,000 nolabels Apr 2018 #20
See, that's basically what I was saying grumpyduck Apr 2018 #21
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