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In reply to the discussion: The hardest thing I've ever had to do [View all]Hortensis
(58,785 posts)16. Yes. And in the meantime, everyone is alive and safe.
Last edited Fri May 18, 2018, 04:05 PM - Edit history (1)
A couple hours after I left a very quiet, courteous gentleman, after inspecting his home to appraise it, his wife came home and he killed her and himself. Their children arrived home from school and found them. A preplanned suicide and murder. I don't blame myself, but... He was very quiet, stayed away from me the entire time, and had no questions. What else, that I missed?
You did what was needed for everyone. Involuntary holds aren't done lightly.
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I wouldn't feel so bad about this. I've been in psychiatric hospitals several times and it is not a
Maraya1969
May 2018
#15
This is one of the few times someone can say "I know at least a bit of what you're taliking...
marble falls
May 2018
#27
All my best wishes for you and your brother in a horribly unfair situation...
Moostache
May 2018
#31
Please don't be so hard on yourself. You did the right thing, you knew you had to do something.
secondwind
May 2018
#47
You did the right thing for everyone. If your brother was well enough he would tell you himself
lunasun
May 2018
#53
Mental health issues almost always get worse when left untreated or innadquately treated for long
Victor_c3
May 2018
#70
You may have contributed to his current loss of freedom, but doing nothing wasn't possible..
BobTheSubgenius
May 2018
#72