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In reply to the discussion: The hardest thing I've ever had to do [View all]tomp
(9,512 posts)...you did what any caring family member would do for their loved one. I'm guessing you tried everything else you could think of before you took this step. And I'm sure you're going to continue to offer support. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
Also remember, it's not you who took your brother's rights away...it was the doctor, whose job it is to make determinations about safety and sign legal forms to the effect that is necessary. You should feel good that the doctor agreed with you, indicating that someone who sees this all the time agreed with your assessment.
Whenever possible psychiatrists seek out family members for their assessment of the patient and take great stock in what people who know the patient well think about the situation. They should also work with on whether you think he's ready to leave and what kind of support he will have after discharge.
I believe you did the right thing. So does the doctor.