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The River

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22. It's Primitive
Thu May 31, 2018, 10:24 PM
May 2018

and a biologically driven instinct.
They are useful, quite handy and
more fun than....everything else.

Owning one can be a burden.
It makes us competitive, primarily
for mates, but it spills over into every
aspect of our lives. That's where the
problems begin.

As for the supposed phallic insults?
We think they're compliments.

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Social power. Plain and simple. Caliman73 May 2018 #1
Very clear. guillaumeb May 2018 #2
A perfect example of "a prick" Chipper Chat May 2018 #28
And lady parts are ooky and magical. Dirty. Frightening. nolabear May 2018 #3
Agree with all you said. Sort of like an aggressive man is termed a "hard charger" or Atticus May 2018 #5
Yep. People try to re-appropriate words that have been hurtful and oppressive. Caliman73 May 2018 #10
That reminds me of some lines from the new Mean Girls musical NewJeffCT Jun 2018 #46
Exactly.. nt Raine May 2018 #8
Wait. "Men are expected to act like pricks"? panader0 May 2018 #9
Corporate America? JonAndKatePlusABird May 2018 #12
I never said that men are expected to act like pricks. Caliman73 Jun 2018 #36
Ask all the people who voted for Trump. yardwork Jun 2018 #59
Not buying this, sorry. John Fante May 2018 #19
The awesome thing about life... Caliman73 Jun 2018 #35
when we want to insult and demean a man lapfog_1 May 2018 #4
Agree. And, "thinking about" the different perceptions was the intent of the OP. Atticus May 2018 #6
Because guys like their pricks. Really, really, really like their pricks. mahatmakanejeeves May 2018 #7
How true! BigmanPigman May 2018 #16
Why, we've written SONGS about them... Dr Hobbitstein May 2018 #17
I was thinking more along the lines of Chuck Berry, but that song is sooooooo awful. mahatmakanejeeves Jun 2018 #49
Yeah, Chuck Berry's was really bad, too. Nt Dr Hobbitstein Jun 2018 #58
Impossible to insult those in power Kaleva May 2018 #11
I see your point, but the brush you are using is too broad. Any decent, thoughtful Atticus May 2018 #14
I'm thinking more of insults that are race or gender specific Kaleva May 2018 #18
Yup JonAndKatePlusABird May 2018 #23
Sadly, the quickest way to insult a man is to question their John Fante May 2018 #25
Why is that point so hard to understand? HopeAgain May 2018 #15
Have you heard of Donald Trump? He claims everything is an insult to him mythology May 2018 #20
Do you believe anything Trump says? Kaleva Jun 2018 #40
Oh, poor Donald Trump! kcr Jun 2018 #42
Huh? ProfessorGAC Jun 2018 #45
The farcical notion anyone would believe Trump's allegations is amazing to me. LanternWaste Jun 2018 #47
Men are called "Pricks" because. ..... ProudMNDemocrat May 2018 #13
Post removed Post removed May 2018 #21
You have a nice evening, too. (Bless your heart!) nt Atticus May 2018 #26
It's Primitive The River May 2018 #22
I don't use either term for multiple reasons mythology May 2018 #24
Thanks for the thoughtful response. nt Atticus May 2018 #27
A woman described in this way trixie2 May 2018 #29
Yep. TDale313 May 2018 #32
That's a sweeping statement to make without any history, details, link... FiveGoodMen Jun 2018 #54
It was an assignment in grad school about language and its affect/affect of history trixie2 Jun 2018 #56
Well for one thing, grad school isn't really "common education" FiveGoodMen Jun 2018 #57
I have been using that same example on various threads lunatica May 2018 #30
It ab-so-fuckin-lutely is. TDale313 May 2018 #33
Ab-so-fuckin clueless kcr Jun 2018 #43
Men have power. Women don't. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #31
Well said. nt Atticus May 2018 #34
Great answer. smirkymonkey Jun 2018 #37
Agree that it's about power. meadowlander Jun 2018 #38
A man in a bar who hits on multiple women just looking to score... NCTraveler Jun 2018 #39
What is "protective sexism"? ariadne0614 Jun 2018 #41
Also called "benevolent sexism" treestar Jun 2018 #51
The great disparity of perceived offensiveness results from the great disparity in power. Orsino Jun 2018 #44
A promiscuous male is congratulated by his peers and the power structure. LanternWaste Jun 2018 #48
Honestly it's a complex issue with no clear answer Lee-Lee Jun 2018 #50
Why TimeSnowDemos Jun 2018 #52
From Joss Whedon Gothmog Jun 2018 #53
Because we know we're pricks? Initech Jun 2018 #55
First thing I learned as a nurse ages ago tavernier Jun 2018 #60
No. Words have different levels of vulgarity attached to them grantcart Jun 2018 #61
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