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mnhtnbb

(33,480 posts)
42. I am seriously considering France.
Thu Jun 28, 2018, 03:36 AM
Jun 2018

I'm retired and Canada doesn't want me.

I visited a friend in Lyon last year who has been there for 5 or 6 years now. He's married to a French man. He loves Lyon and I could see myself living there, too. I am seriously considering going over for 90 days next spring when my apartment lease is up here to see if I'd like it by taking an apartment there. Found one online yesterday that he agreed was fabulous and in best part of town.

I also have a friend in Paris who is our French "daughter". She lived with us for a year as a foreign exchange student in 1989-90 and we have stayed in touch. Visited with her several times over the years and she has been here, too. In fact the friend in Lyon was friends with her in high school when she lived with us. I figure both of them would be resources to help navigate French bureaucracy if I were to decide to go for it after I try it out for 90 days. And yes I do speak French. It's pretty Rusty but I would start taking lessons during that 90 day trial to improve my language skills.

It's a very ambitious idea for me at 68, which I will be next spring.
And I would also be doing it alone since I am in the middle of a divorce. I have been on and off considering the idea since last fall. Tried to get my husband to do a substitute tropical island condo on Bonaire 3 years ago and he got cold feet. We also knew someone there who has lived there for 25 years and would help navigate their Visa process. That's another option but to do it I think I'd need more money than I am likely to get from selling our house. House has been on the market for a month but not sold yet. Certainly by next spring the house will have sold and I'll have a better picture of my finances for setting myself up to rent in France.

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So who will move to Canada? [View all] triron Jun 2018 OP
Ha ha ha yeah some clever people moved from Germany to Poland in the 30s. unblock Jun 2018 #1
Don't say that. Poland was moved back and forth between two powers for 100 applegrove Jun 2018 #5
Point is, there's no place safe from Donnie. unblock Jun 2018 #6
Vladimir Donnie to you. applegrove Jun 2018 #9
Ah, Russia is safe from Donnie. But that's not an improvement. unblock Jun 2018 #11
waaay to cold Grassy Knoll Jun 2018 #2
Post removed Post removed Jun 2018 #3
Why are you posting that right wing dickbag's bullshit here? nt Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2018 #12
Because it's a hilarious video that I've posted here many times Sailor65x1 Jun 2018 #16
That dude clearly thinks he's hilarious. I'm sure all kinds of Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2018 #19
Oops...... nt Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2018 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author klook Jun 2018 #15
Bring Canada to us. roamer65 Jun 2018 #4
Great idea! triron Jun 2018 #24
I have been thinking Canada, Doreen Jun 2018 #54
Nope. Too cold. 7962 Jun 2018 #7
Nope/nup/nyet/("no" with Spanish pronunciation) - this country is *OURS*! UTUSN Jun 2018 #8
+10000000000000000000 csziggy Jun 2018 #39
If we lose this Nov Matthew28 Jun 2018 #10
WE need to all bdamomma Jun 2018 #13
Brazil for me. Amimnoch Jun 2018 #14
You just "can't move" to Canada unless you have a unique skill set or substantial money to invest. DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2018 #17
I thought you have to have a sponser as well Boomerproud Jun 2018 #43
Yes. EllieBC Jun 2018 #56
If I could get organized and quickly, I'd move to Detroit and start ecstatic Jun 2018 #18
Send us your address... brooklynite Jun 2018 #21
It's simply not an option for most people. NY_20th Jun 2018 #22
Difficult to move there SHRED Jun 2018 #23
The young must have excellent, useful job skills/profession. appalachiablue Jun 2018 #25
Australia would be my choice, if not so far away. Ny spooky3 Jun 2018 #26
Isn't Australia having problems with a right wing surge? nt dflprincess Jun 2018 #36
I think that's happening in just about every developed spooky3 Jun 2018 #38
This is our land C_U_L8R Jun 2018 #27
Not an option really... I am putting my affairs in order and then Still In Wisconsin Jun 2018 #28
Oh, yeah, right, they'd like that! raging moderate Jun 2018 #29
Staying right here near my kids and grandchildren... cynatnite Jun 2018 #30
71 years of age here, and i'm not here fighting fo just myself! It's bluestarone Jun 2018 #31
I actually researched my Canadian heritage MaryMagdaline Jun 2018 #32
That may not prevent you from claiming your Canadian citizenship, especially Nay Jun 2018 #44
We will stay and vote in November Desert grandma Jun 2018 #33
During the Bushie boy years mnhtnbb Jun 2018 #41
Thank you so much Desert grandma Jun 2018 #45
I am actually considering a different option mnhtnbb Jun 2018 #47
I love Lyon and it is good you speak French as they do nothing to help those who do not GulfCoast66 Jun 2018 #49
Funny thing Silver Swan Jun 2018 #34
Maclean's magazine viewpoint on Canadian annexation of blue states. roamer65 Jun 2018 #35
That is such a draft-era thing. raven mad Jun 2018 #37
+1 TheRealNorth Jun 2018 #52
... handmade34 Jun 2018 #53
I'm working on Germany or the Netherlands a la izquierda Jun 2018 #40
I am seriously considering France. mnhtnbb Jun 2018 #42
You can't Alea Jun 2018 #46
Actually I know a DU'er mnhtnbb Jun 2018 #48
Rosenstein, when this is all over. milestogo Jun 2018 #50
My family wants to move/retire to Canada. OliverQ Jun 2018 #55
Being German, going back there is more likely. Living in MA, seceding and going w/ CA Blaukraut Jun 2018 #51
Just don't start acting all crazy about some things. EllieBC Jun 2018 #57
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