My Trump supporting sister-in-law may never come back

[moriah]

14. No offense, and I don't know who started the argument...

... but right now if her husband is gravely ill, she's probably not in the mood to change.

And if nothing else, remember the lessons from dealing with otherwise dysfunctional family members -- we can't cure/change or control what they do or think and usually didn't cause it unless they're our kids and even then it's not always that simple. But you can still care about them.

Right now, caring might best be shown by avoiding politics. Later, at a different time, it might not be. But there's a time and a place for everything. In my humble opinion from experience with health issues and people who are pretty dysfunctional in many ways, even when you think something like whatever is bad for them (in this case, Trump) making their medical care or other things harder to get might open people's eyes, when they're ill or dealing with a loved one's illness isn't the time they are open.

When they're processing the bills, yeah. That might be a better time.