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Pendrench

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62. If for nothing else, I will always be thankful that my wife and I were able to find the
Thu Jul 26, 2018, 01:30 PM
Jul 2018

birthfamilies for both of our adopted children.

And, although understand and appreciate the negative aspects of Facebook (as well as all social media), I am not sure if there was/is another platform that would have allowed us to do this.

For example, finding our son's birth-mother was fairly easy (he was born in the states, and we had some basic information about her), but our daughter was born in Latvia, so we had very little personal information to begin with. So (using what we had) we were able to post in a variety of groups, and luckily a young lady from Riga (19 years old) happened to see one of these posts, and then took it upon herself to find our daughter's birth-mother (who did not have a phone, let alone a computer). Facebook also allowed us to find a birth-sister (living in Paris) and a birth-brother living in England.

So while it may be selfish, at least in instances like mine, Facebook served as a very positive tool.

I realize that we probably do not agree on this topic, but I appreciate the opportunity to share my viewpoint.

Wishing you well and peace.

Tim

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Ah, Facebook - where old folks keep their photos and share "Obama is a Muslim" stories dalton99a Jul 2018 #1
You're selling Facebook short. It's so much more than that! Dread Pirate Roberts Jul 2018 #5
And Sandy Hook - which Zuckerberg refused to correct dalton99a Jul 2018 #10
are Candy Crush requests still a thing? crazycatlady Jul 2018 #71
Cambridge Analytica! Hekate Jul 2018 #77
I stay in touch with a lot of old friends and interest groups.... Adrahil Jul 2018 #12
Exactly DownriverDem Jul 2018 #22
That's kind of the problem Dread Pirate Roberts Jul 2018 #46
But isn't any form of communication a potential forum for hate speech? nt el_bryanto Jul 2018 #52
Yep. You are describing the internet. Caliman73 Jul 2018 #75
Throw out the baby with the bath water? Adrahil Jul 2018 #53
The same could be said about cell phones Runningdawg Jul 2018 #58
Amazon collects and manipulates data, so does Twitter. LisaM Jul 2018 #60
THIS x INFINITY... ADX Jul 2018 #64
So we should kill it off because you don't like it? wasupaloopa Jul 2018 #82
Because I don't like it? Dread Pirate Roberts Jul 2018 #85
That other stuff as already happened. You can't wasupaloopa Jul 2018 #86
It really is. I just block or defriend anyone who posts one of those memes. Chemisse Jul 2018 #63
My fb page includes about 80% animal rights issues, and 20% family posts/photos. MoonRiver Jul 2018 #14
Be careful in case some of the animal rights advocates suddenly want everyone to vote GOP... Ezior Jul 2018 #21
Lol, those suckers would not be me! MoonRiver Jul 2018 #49
Not true DownriverDem Jul 2018 #20
my left-leaning activist fb friends get banned frequently NatBurner Jul 2018 #33
Old Folks who like to look at pictures of their grandchildren too! OMGWTF Jul 2018 #32
This old folk - 63 years old - still uses FB every day. stopbush Jul 2018 #42
Exactly Runningdawg Jul 2018 #59
Facebook has probably peaked DeminPennswoods Jul 2018 #2
Facebook you say? What? Oh, was that something like that old MySpace thingie?: hlthe2b Jul 2018 #3
My kids (? 18 and 25) don' really use FB at all anymore woodsprite Jul 2018 #6
Still works just fine for this old fogie. bluedigger Jul 2018 #4
I deleted my account yesterday. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #7
How did you delete? Im still getting messages, i uninstalled app was that not enough? RestoreAmerica2020 Jul 2018 #11
I used the directions in this Wired.com article. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #27
Thanks! RestoreAmerica2020 Jul 2018 #45
Try doing a Websearch where you use the key string "uninstall Facebook from iPhone". Blue_true Jul 2018 #69
Good for you. Blue_true Jul 2018 #68
I wish it would go out of business. Anon-C Jul 2018 #8
I'm sorry (not sorry) but I love Facebook. MariaCSR Jul 2018 #9
same here. NT Adrahil Jul 2018 #13
I like it too. It's flawed and stupid etc. but nolabear Jul 2018 #15
it's easy to choose what you want on your feed KatyMan Jul 2018 #16
I like it too, for staying in touch with family & friends. CaptainTruth Jul 2018 #17
My son, daughter, and daughter in law use it (mid 30s to 40s), but much less than a few years ago. greymattermom Jul 2018 #23
The Fact That Facebook Has Some Redeeming Value..... Laxman Jul 2018 #24
The situations in India and Myanmar are horrific as well and the article about the... Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #29
That article by the undercover journalist was horrifying kcr Jul 2018 #57
Facebook is the machine that the Putin, Cambridge Analytica and Zuckerberg workinclasszero Jul 2018 #18
I personally have no care if it evaporates. No need to cancel my account sprinkleeninow Jul 2018 #83
A decent person who uses FB might as well watch Faux Spews TV Ponietz Jul 2018 #19
You'll of course support your premise with objective and relevant evidence, yes? LanternWaste Jul 2018 #28
Its defenders get the point? Ponietz Jul 2018 #72
To sum up Ponietz Jul 2018 #90
I and many others have left FB. It can never be trusted with the data it has amassed berni_mccoy Jul 2018 #25
Right there w you. Crutchez_CuiBono Jul 2018 #36
I use FB, Twitter, and Instagram for my "business" (writing, speaking, etc) - BUT NRaleighLiberal Jul 2018 #26
I seem to recall functioning quite well pre-1997. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #30
indeed NRaleighLiberal Jul 2018 #31
Me as well. Crutchez_CuiBono Jul 2018 #38
I follow you on FB LeftInTX Jul 2018 #37
. NRaleighLiberal Jul 2018 #47
I'm a master gardener LeftInTX Jul 2018 #89
The question you have to always ask with any free service is Afromania Jul 2018 #34
+1. If something is free, 'you' are the product. dalton99a Jul 2018 #44
Of course, if you had bought it 6 years ago when it was trading around the $20 mark..... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2018 #35
exactly fescuerescue Jul 2018 #48
ABSOLUTELY GOD DAMNED RIGHT. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2018 #54
Finally! +1000 Kind of Blue Jul 2018 #39
I'm 62 and I love it. LeftInTX Jul 2018 #40
Facebook's days are definitely numbered..... vi5 Jul 2018 #41
That's it in a nutshell. Dread Pirate Roberts Jul 2018 #43
Both of you summed up my feelings. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2018 #70
FANG are this generation's Nifty Fifty bucolic_frolic Jul 2018 #50
Facebook would have been better edhopper Jul 2018 #51
Great news kcr Jul 2018 #55
Welp, I am told money is speech. I guess folks are saying F Off Zuck. JDC Jul 2018 #56
Couldn't happen to a better guy. onecaliberal Jul 2018 #61
If for nothing else, I will always be thankful that my wife and I were able to find the Pendrench Jul 2018 #62
Yep, it's a great time to buy Facebook stock. cbdo2007 Jul 2018 #65
It certainly seems that way Johonny Jul 2018 #73
Their stock has been soaring for years IronLionZion Jul 2018 #66
It was up 45% in 4 months Johonny Jul 2018 #74
The CEO let his company actively support Trump in 2016, Blue_true Jul 2018 #67
Full Stop. Anon-C Jul 2018 #76
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Don't ever mention the right taking over AM radio again. Blue_true Jul 2018 #87
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Facebook has its place. Calista241 Jul 2018 #78
FB allowed our information to be weaponized against our democracy. I won't forget that in a hurry. Hekate Jul 2018 #80
Well deserved. MrsCoffee Jul 2018 #84
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