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Caliman73

(11,767 posts)
34. Yes. That is completely normal.
Mon Sep 17, 2018, 12:29 PM
Sep 2018

Which is why I mentioned that unless there is an attachment injury. Toddlers are not particularly insecure. Separation anxiety occurs when the primary care giver of the child leaves. The child becomes anxious, but is fairly quickly comforted. Once the primary care provider returns the child happy to see them. Separation Anxiety has to do with a lack of object permanence in the child. Once the child understands that the primary will return, then they are fine.

The kind of insecurity that Kerry was speaking about is the self doubt that permeates people in this culture because of the messaging that we are not good enough. It can certainly stem from childhood experiences, but teenagers (boys and girls) are notoriously insecure which is why Kerry made the comparison.

Trump likely suffered an attachment injury based on his inability to empathize with others, to remain in any kind of committed relationship, and his need for constant praise.

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Breaking: some people on twitter complained about something! Loki Liesmith Sep 2018 #1
What are we going to do now? Sneederbunk Sep 2018 #6
Well, folks could light their hair on fire and run around in circles A HERETIC I AM Sep 2018 #14
We are fast becoming a nation of ninnies. Good grief. Stop being so sensitive. Stand and Fight Sep 2018 #2
Are ninnies male or female? pennylane100 Sep 2018 #5
I thought his remark was somewhat inappropriate when I first read it. pennylane100 Sep 2018 #3
me too. Teen age years are a time of insecurity for both sexes Demovictory9 Sep 2018 #22
That was my thought too Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2018 #25
It was sexist. Why use a girl as an example? Stupid thing to say. nt USALiberal Sep 2018 #4
Oh god Loki Liesmith Sep 2018 #12
He used an 8 year boy as an example in the same sentence. phleshdef Sep 2018 #13
I had the same reaction -- till I saw that he FIRST mentioned 8 year old boys. pnwmom Sep 2018 #16
Its not like John Kerry goes around saying non-PC stuff all the time. But he is also 74 years old. phleshdef Sep 2018 #18
Right. There are LOTS of expressions that older people heard growing up pnwmom Sep 2018 #23
True. Having been a teenage boy, I can say that I.... Caliman73 Sep 2018 #19
Spanky's insecurities are more like a toddlers donkeypoofed Sep 2018 #7
Toddlers are not really insecure. Caliman73 Sep 2018 #20
Ya don't think so? really? ever heard of separation anxiety? donkeypoofed Sep 2018 #28
Yes. That is completely normal. Caliman73 Sep 2018 #34
Some people simply must complain about everything. BlueTsunami2018 Sep 2018 #8
Yeah, anything more important maybe? Nt BootinUp Sep 2018 #9
He's got the menstrual cycles of a teenage girl, unpredictable, irregular and varying intensities. TheBlackAdder Sep 2018 #10
I thought it was ageist and shitty. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2018 #11
Oh. BannonsLiver Sep 2018 #15
Anyone who objects to this dflprincess Sep 2018 #17
The PC Police won't like this one bit. jalan48 Sep 2018 #21
Correction: "Teenage girls have the insecurity of Trump" Zambero Sep 2018 #24
He later clarified, he meant to say 'a pre-teenage girl' spanone Sep 2018 #26
I have a daughter who hated the whole teenage years. rusty quoin Sep 2018 #27
Oh good grief.Have any of these people considered how the TARGET feels about it? It's aimed at TRUMP Hekate Sep 2018 #29
KNEW IT! Behind the Aegis Sep 2018 #30
pretty dumb thing to say. Kurt V. Sep 2018 #31
This thread demonstrates why Trump has support loyalsister Sep 2018 #32
My immediate thought was that Kerry shanny Sep 2018 #33
He should have said politicasista Sep 2018 #35
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