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In reply to the discussion: About girls and women not telling after they're attacked [View all]dawg day
(7,947 posts)14. Me too-- I was afraid my parents would react by somehow punishing me
It's not like they would have been able to track down this person.
But I definitely thought I'd get into trouble if they knew.
And let's face it. Back then-- even now-- telling doesn't necessarily result in any real action. Think of all those gymnasts, and how many of them complained about Nasser...
And the wrestlers at OSU who told Jim Jordan that the doctor was molesting them.
Nothing happens. That's almost worse than not telling at all.
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I know why. I'm so sorry it happened to you too. There is an embarrassment and shame
Maraya1969
Sep 2018
#3
Don't worry. I was molested riding alone on a city bus back in the late 1970s
Tardislass
Sep 2018
#5
Reminds me of a similar situation that happened to me at the same age
Zing Zing Zingbah
Sep 2018
#38
No, we don't tell because it's an ugly disgusting thing that happened to us. Hell, I can barely
AnotherMother4Peace
Sep 2018
#8
Oh MM - you & me except I was 5-6: "Get to safety and keep quiet. Don't start anything"
AnotherMother4Peace
Sep 2018
#18
Yeah-pretty f**ked up stuff & when I hear Hatch saying: "She's mixed up"-I feel threatened again
AnotherMother4Peace
Sep 2018
#22
I'm sorry. I should have said that at the outset before telling my brother's story
MaryMagdaline
Sep 2018
#27
Why? First, discussing sexual experiences of any kind, with parents is uncomfortable
whathehell
Sep 2018
#37