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kstewart33

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Sun Sep 23, 2018, 12:53 PM Sep 2018

A woman writes about her teen years near Kavanaugh's prep school - a must read. [View all]

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The Atlantic:

Let me tell you what life was like as a girl in Montgomery County, Maryland, in the early 1980s. I am a year older than Christine Blasey Ford and a year younger than Brett Kavanaugh. I grew up in Potomac, Maryland, a few miles from both Holton Arms, Ford’s school, and Georgetown Prep, which Kavanaugh attended, but I went to my local public high school, Churchill. Never mind that any girl who was in high school in Potomac during that era knew, through the whisper network, not to go to a Georgetown Prep party alone. That was a given. What was also a given is that “date rape,” as a term, was in its infancy. Most of us thought getting our bodies groped at a high-school party—or anywhere—was the unfortunate price we paid for having them, not something we would ever go to the police to report.

Even in junior high school, this was true. I have a vivid memory of my friend Marcia having her skirt ripped off her body in the middle of a bar mitzvah dance floor. It had snaps down the middle. I actually heard one boy say, as she was weeping in a corner, trying to refasten her skirt, “I mean, duh. If you’re going to wear snaps on your skirt, what do you think will happen?” I made a mental note: Never wear snaps to a dance party.


For those who are reading this, please read the entire essay.

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2018/09/copaken-kavanaugh/571042/
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EXACTLY! n/t TexasBushwhacker Sep 2018 #1
Keep reading, elleng Sep 2018 #2
Yes, yes just so much more. FM123 Sep 2018 #6
Georgetown prep sounds like it was a prep school on how to abuse women. sunonmars Sep 2018 #3
It was. NastyRiffraff Sep 2018 #16
Remember, drmeow Sep 2018 #26
Thank you! Nevilledog Sep 2018 #4
We lived in North Bethesda in the 1980s Frances Sep 2018 #5
This a powerful rebuke of Kavanaugh even though it's not about him. underthematrix Sep 2018 #7
Agree, describes how a decent man should react. mountain grammy Sep 2018 #14
Exactly! drmeow Sep 2018 #27
Someone on twitter stated that Georgetown Prep seemed like the school in all the Law & Order shows tenderfoot Sep 2018 #8
Do read the entire article, it's an poignant, well written essay. procon Sep 2018 #9
I lived in Chevy Chase & went to Bethesda-Chevy Chase HS Pachamama Sep 2018 #10
I am so sorry for what happened to you. If there is one thing that has emerged from this smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #19
++1000 Thank you. zentrum Sep 2018 #20
Everyone should read the entire article at the link. MineralMan Sep 2018 #11
Thank you MMan. With your recommendation, more will. nt kstewart33 Sep 2018 #12
An apology did nothing for me. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #13
OMG yes! "Please forgive me" vs "I am so sorry" renate Sep 2018 #30
I got both and neither meant anything to me. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #40
The only time apologies were offered in my experience was to avoid consequences. moriah Sep 2018 #38
Lots of differences in the world. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #39
My wife grew up there... Adrahil Sep 2018 #15
someone needs to investigate this school and why was it allowed to continue like this? samnsara Sep 2018 #17
For a few years I went to a school nearby. The girls there knew to avoid Georgetown Prep parties DFW Sep 2018 #18
Yes, the type Scarsdale Sep 2018 #31
I wouldn't make a statement quite that sweeping. DFW Sep 2018 #32
excellent essay!! handmade34 Sep 2018 #21
K&R Scurrilous Sep 2018 #22
The Victim-Blaming, Stemming from Unearned Entitlement, is Overdue for Retirement dlk Sep 2018 #23
Well Said! (n/t) B Stieg Sep 2018 #24
This is why Republican women to say that every 18-year-old male does this elias7 Sep 2018 #25
I arrived in DC for college in 1985 Books_Tea_Alone Sep 2018 #28
Remarkable essay. calimary Sep 2018 #29
What kind of upbringing did these boys have? IluvPitties Sep 2018 #33
This made me cry. I went to high school in a wealthy town in Connecticut starting at Demsrule86 Sep 2018 #34
Your mom's words sound exactly like what I was taught. 3catwoman3 Sep 2018 #35
My Mom was a nurse too...and she told us so much detail about the birds and the bees Demsrule86 Sep 2018 #36
Definitely TMI at times. 3catwoman3 Sep 2018 #37
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