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MADem

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44. Clinton held his nose while doing it, though, I think.
Tue Jan 3, 2012, 06:49 PM
Jan 2012

It's tough to have to deal with idiots. The sad fact is that we've got--even today, still--way too many damn morons running around voting in this country. There's a fine line between caving to them, and doing the "He who fights and runs away, lives to fight another day" routine.

I worked VERY hard on the DOD implementation of the repeal on the ban when Clinton was elected. We were within a month of having our shit completely together (and it's not just a "Wave the magic wand, the rule is changed" thing--there's a TON of regulations and paperwork that need to be changed to support the repeal, and I crawled through acres of paper identifying the changes and getting them ready for promulgation--seven days a week, fourteen hour days, exhausting, boring, mind-numbing labor) and no one was more pissed than I was when the whole thing got the kabash so close to the finish line. I got the sense from the people on Clinton's staff that NO ONE was happy about it, that they were quietly enraged, noses were out of joint, but they weren't able to overcome the situation politically. I boxed all that shit up and put it in the archives so it wouldn't get tossed out after two years (which is what happens). I have no idea if anyone has kept it, still, all these years, but even though the regs have been rewritten six ways to Sunday since then, there's still a lot of "lists" and basic language modifications that could still be used if they kept all that work. Of course, the question now is--does ANYONE have a computer that'll take a three and a half inch floppy anymore?

I can't defend or excoriate Clinton, because I just don't know what was in his heart. I do know that I got a lot of "This totally sucks" vibe from his people when they told us to shut it all down, though.

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At least someone from the Administration is talking about it. William769 Dec 2011 #1
I know too many gay Republicans. David__77 Dec 2011 #2
Sometimes it comes from just wanting to feel special and "different." I know black Republicans who Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #35
There is little indication that Mr. Obama plans to endorse same-sex marriage before the presidential MADem Dec 2011 #3
He slapped GLBTs in the face in his first five minutes Occulus Dec 2011 #6
No, not what I said at all. The word "act" has more than one meaning. MADem Dec 2011 #13
I agree 100% as opposed to Mr. Clinton who went around southern states bragging about DOMA. Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #36
Congress has to repeal DOMA. They make law, not the Prez. MADem Jan 2012 #39
Sorry, that's what I meant to say. My point is that people are upset with Obama Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #41
Clinton held his nose while doing it, though, I think. MADem Jan 2012 #44
Then, I can't understand why some refuse to give Obama the *SAME* benefit of the doubt. Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #45
I agree. MADem Jan 2012 #46
That's one way to frame it. LeftyMom Dec 2011 #4
I'd say you're right. emilyg Dec 2011 #5
It's both. Occulus Dec 2011 #7
+1000 FreeState Dec 2011 #8
Yes, because Bill Clinton didn't support it. He ran on banning gay marriage and let liberals Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #37
that is just plain whacko dsc Jan 2012 #43
Yes I can, because the prior 43 did not treestar Jan 2012 #47
Yeah, what has Obama done for gay Americans after all? Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #9
That's quite a list. LeftyMom Dec 2011 #10
LOL. AtomicKitten Dec 2011 #12
Show me Dubya's list. Or John McCain's. Or Mitt Romney's for that matter. Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #16
HIV has nothing to do with LGBTQ rights. Fearless Dec 2011 #18
First I've heard of this. Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #19
When 'AIDS activists' intreupped a Presidential speech, all of DU called them 'gay activists' Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #23
"this health crisis is still presented as our property." Hogwash. Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #27
Duh. My point is that it is not JUST ours, and yet when anyone speaks on AIDS Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #48
""President Obama urges Americans to get tested for HIV" Fearless Jan 2012 #32
It's words, not policy. What were his actions? He signed a law banning funding for needle exchanges, LeftyMom Dec 2011 #20
Now you're just being silly and insulting. Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #21
Nothing like telling a minority their leader has done enough FreeState Dec 2011 #11
Being part of that minority as I am Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #14
Except that the FACT is that he is opposed to marriage equality, that is our Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #25
Using marriage equality to bash the President when he's done so much in other places Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #28
He is using it to claim his kind are superior to our kind, he is the one opposing us Bluenorthwest Jan 2012 #49
I don't think he said that he's "done enough." Nowhere did I see that language. Unfair MADem Dec 2011 #15
Yes! And it's laughable that so many support Ron Paul. Do they really think that voting for Paul Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #38
Ron Paul was only too pleased to take the endorsement of that nutty pastor who advocated death for MADem Jan 2012 #40
I'm a gay democrat musicblind Dec 2011 #17
The issue is not that he has not 'made marriage legal' it is that he speaks his opposition Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #26
He's called for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage act. He calls it unconstitutional Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #29
Barack Obama, a black man in 2011, has taken a "state's rights" approach toward gay marriage. Occulus Jan 2012 #33
Obama is in tune with the gay community izquierdista Dec 2011 #22
Starting with McClurkin, his surrogates always did that part. Sent the message he Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #24
You may or may not find it gratifying to know Robb Dec 2011 #30
One the groups at that 'event' Mary Mary compared LGBTIQ xchrom Dec 2011 #31
I believe that Obama must travel down this road, sadly, because this country is STLL a bigoted Liberal_Stalwart71 Jan 2012 #34
"Marriage is between a man and a woman" - Barack Obama. Nye Bevan Jan 2012 #42
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