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63. The next day...

Sun Sep 30, 2018, 05:45 AM

Sep 2018

...I sent a text to my immediate family to send an anniversary card to me and my husband. We got LEGALLY married in 2014 in Oklahoma. Our legal anniversary was 12 days after the election. I don't give a shit if my family or anyone recognizes our "legal" anniversary, but when this happened, I wasn't sure how long my husband and I would be "married". Frankly, I don't know how long it will last and I don't know that most people will really care if become "unmarried". If "gay marriage" gets challenged in a stolen SC gets overturned, I don't think straight people, most, will give two shits. I don't think they will take to the streets. I don't think they will stand with us. I don't think they will even care. I am preparing for the worst...I will be "unmarried" and no one will give a shit.

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Definitely realmirage Sep 2018 #5

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Yeah sucks to lose when you actually won realmirage Sep 2018 #6

I had the same dread leftieNanner Sep 2018 #3

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I also had a feeling this was not going well early on in a day. LisaL Sep 2018 #29

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Horror. The_jackalope Sep 2018 #19

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Shock. Pure shock. ooky Sep 2018 #21

Dread, from the time that shit head Comey threw it suegeo Sep 2018 #22

I felt despair Bettie Sep 2018 #24

I became physically ill. I was stunned that the composite American electorate could elect such a Blue_true Sep 2018 #25

Shock and disbelief. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2018 #26

I am stuck in Kubler-Ross' first stage... 3catwoman3 Sep 2018 #45

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Insomnia! KPN Sep 2018 #27

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As I was leaving the gym to day this summed it up: Turbineguy Sep 2018 #31

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not surprised at all SoCalDem Sep 2018 #39

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A weird overall feeling of disgust and fear. Drunken Irishman Sep 2018 #42

Depression Soxfan58 Sep 2018 #43

I couldn't sleep. 3catwoman3 Sep 2018 #44

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I was drunk. Hadn't been drunk in decades. Laying in bed crying and eating Tortilla chips. Cousin Dupree Sep 2018 #47

Hey, me too. murielm99 Sep 2018 #48

I miss him so much. PS I didn't learn my lesson well. Got drunk again. Guess when. Inauguration Cousin Dupree Sep 2018 #57

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As sad as JFK's funeral, but with high-octane rage added. VOX Sep 2018 #66

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Here in AZ I went to bed after they called. FL. Compete and utter disgust. My kairos12 Sep 2018 #68

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Buh-bye. demmiblue Sep 2018 #70