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168. Welcome to DU, recovering_democrat!

Reply to recovering_democrat (Reply #162)

Mon Oct 1, 2018, 01:41 AM

Oct 2018

I can't hep but suspect that those two HEROIC women, Ana Maria Archila and Maria Gallagher, who buttonholed Jeff Flake in the elevator, and forced him to face them, had a big impact. "LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT ME when I'm speaking to you!" I'll never forget that video clip as long as I live. They overpowered and dominated him and it was a thing of the GREATEST beauty!

I think for him it was tantamount to being smacked across the face with the proverbial 2x4.

If he REALLY wants to do good, he'll put his politics aside, and vote the correct way on Kavanaugh - a big unflinching "NO." Otherwise, any of this attempt at "peacemaking" by you is 100% worthless. Back it up with your BACKBONE, Flake. You have nothing to lose at this point because you've already given up your Senate job and you're on your way out of the fray. DO SOMETHING for America, instead of your abominable party's short-sighted power-mad sexist-as-hell ideology. DO SOMETHING THAT ACTUALLY MEANS SOMETHING, Senator Flake.

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On behalf of my gender, I'm sorry ... mr_lebowski Sep 2018 #2

+1. n/t rzemanfl Sep 2018 #5

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+2 Lochloosa Sep 2018 #12

+3 philly_bob Sep 2018 #16

Thank you. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #17

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I apologized once... Beartracks Sep 2018 #165

+1 geardaddy Sep 2018 #62

That's good of you wryter2000 Sep 2018 #83

I've been totally distracted wryter2000 Sep 2018 #84

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Thanks for expressing that so eloquently. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2018 #142

Well put wryter2000 Sep 2018 #155

Yes, empathy accompanied by action! n/t KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2018 #156

So many women are or have been experiencing this since 2016 and yeah.... bettyellen Sep 2018 #3

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Accepted. And it was lovely seeing the support shared and raw honesty of bettyellen Sep 2018 #32

I could not sleep last night. True Blue American Sep 2018 #82

same here in terms of being devastated Fresh_Start Sep 2018 #4

You are not damaged True Blue American Sep 2018 #88

I think this has re-traumatized women all over this country. Haggis for Breakfast Sep 2018 #122

Calls to the Abuse hotline have increased True Blue American Sep 2018 #152

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I can relate. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #7

Yes, like some expert said on some show TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #30

Exactly right. Solly Mack Sep 2018 #38

Dear Solly Mack Haggis for Breakfast Sep 2018 #123

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I would give you the biggest hug right now. Haggis for Breakfast Sep 2018 #136

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Welcome to the club. fierywoman Sep 2018 #8

I have literally lived my life by that saying. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #34

Yup. I know the tiredness. Rest, nap, recuperate -- fierywoman Sep 2018 #48

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Yes, I feel exactly this way too. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #19

With you 100%. MontanaMama Sep 2018 #10

I'm sorry you feel that way, too. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #21

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Thanks you for the kind words; you've made me cry again TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #22

Absolutely. I avoided watching the proceedings, but caught occasional updates Laurian Sep 2018 #13

You aren't alone. Ohiogal Sep 2018 #14

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Well stated. Thank you. (nt) Paladin Sep 2018 #15

Woke up yesterday morning to find my wife crying in the living room. byronius Sep 2018 #18

You're clearly a good ally; thank you TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #24

I need to keep repeating this ismnotwasm Sep 2018 #20

Please hug your husband for me. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #25

Yes. kimmylavin Sep 2018 #28

Yes, this is how I feel! TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #37

Will do, and thank you. kimmylavin Sep 2018 #99

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THIS. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #39

It is upsetting for me, also. haele Sep 2018 #31

I agree with every word. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #40

{{Hugs}} From a fellow survivor. I stand with you in complete solidarity. nt procon Sep 2018 #33

I can relate. Something happened to me at a party, too, decades ago. Honeycombe8 Sep 2018 #35

Hugs to you. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #42

Hugs back atcha. Yes, I felt like it was my fault. I shouldn't have been there... Honeycombe8 Sep 2018 #50

An event popped to the front of my memory this week. Vinca Sep 2018 #36

Am I a bad person for laughing TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #46

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Without laughter, we might as well be dead. Vinca Sep 2018 #69

Same here ColoradoBlue Sep 2018 #41

Right? TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #47

I hear you. WE hear you. And we stand with you. Silver Gaia Sep 2018 #43

I can't imagine... TommyCelt Sep 2018 #44

same here. I feel like I am living in a country that puts its women in a place demigoddess Sep 2018 #45

I'm so sorry for your pain CanonRay Sep 2018 #49

Thanks for the kind words. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #53

I won't go into why, but Dr. Ford's testimony affected me very much. I sat there and cried as I skylucy Sep 2018 #51

Her courage amazes me. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #56

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I've been unable to post here canetoad Sep 2018 #52

You do have a horse in the race; this is a worldwide fight. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #58

No need to apologise canetoad Sep 2018 #60

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Yeah, it's just despicable. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #59

My wife and I revisited the horrors this week. Dave Starsky Sep 2018 #57

YES. SO MUCH YES. LWilliams Sep 2018 #61

Thank YOU! TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #65

Totally. LWilliams Sep 2018 #72

You're not alone, Teapot peggysue2 Sep 2018 #64

We've all been there, yes. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #66

Yes, it would peggysue2 Sep 2018 #74

You are not alone. BarbD Sep 2018 #67

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Millions of women have been violently triggered this week, or, as I pointed out... Hekate Sep 2018 #68

I do know, thanks! TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #75

I, too, started crying. The man who assaulted me when I was 19 years old was killed in a CTyankee Sep 2018 #70

It's terribly sad. And ridiculous in a so-called "civilized" society TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #76

I shared my story with a dear friend who, as a result, had his own moment of recalled memory CTyankee Sep 2018 #86

I'm so sorry. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #95

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My guy is dead too. Silver1 Sep 2018 #139

Thank you for writing this. Sugar Smack Sep 2018 #73

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I just read this piece to one of my best friends Sugar Smack Sep 2018 #128

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Imagine our collective strength TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #81

Empowering well beyond our fear. Guilded Lilly Sep 2018 #90

I think you have ... kooth Sep 2018 #80

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Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Sep 2018 #97

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They are still in charge. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #107

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K&R backtoblue Sep 2018 #110

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K & R SunSeeker Sep 2018 #113

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I've spent enough time feeling shame. TeapotInATempest Sep 2018 #120

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+1 malthaussen Sep 2018 #158

I have never been physically attacked/assaulted. Grasswire2 Sep 2018 #132

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OH YEEEEEESSSSSSSSS catrose Sep 2018 #134

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Kavanaugh is my ex-husband radical noodle Sep 2018 #138

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Fuck this week Iris Sep 2018 #140

#MeToo DesertRat Sep 2018 #141

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K&R betsuni Sep 2018 #144

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YES!!!!! calimary Sep 2018 #157

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K&R We need to continue expressing our emotions. Guilded Lilly Sep 2018 #161

Me too. recovering_democrat Sep 2018 #162

Welcome to DU, recovering_democrat! calimary Oct 2018 #168

I'm so sorry you had those experiences Zing Zing Zingbah Sep 2018 #163

I've been in bed for two days MountCleaners Sep 2018 #164

I understand completely Daphne08 Sep 2018 #166

It's been a horrible week for me wildman76 Oct 2018 #169

thank you for your courage... samnsara Oct 2018 #170