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Frustratedlady

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31. You and your mother have been dealt a big load and I hope you have help to handle it.

Wed Oct 3, 2018, 09:22 PM

Oct 2018

You are right on the one day at a time. If at all possible, take care of yourself so you will be able to take care of her when she regains consciousness.

Know that we are here for you if you need to vent. If we're lucky, we don't have to learn how to maneuver through the medical arena, but when it happens knowing there are others ready to support us is a big help.

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UPDATE on my mom after her brain surgery. [View all] Nevilledog Oct 2018 OP

I hope for the best mythology Oct 2018 #1

Thanks for that update... best wishes to you, your mom, and the entire family. InAbLuEsTaTe Oct 2018 #2

Hang in there Nevilledog! redwitch Oct 2018 #3

🙏🏼 DUgosh Oct 2018 #4

I'm so sorry. moriah Oct 2018 #5

Sending healing vibes. sheshe2 Oct 2018 #6

I hope your mom keeps fighting. mobeau69 Oct 2018 #7

I'm so sorry for what she had to go through, and you too.. FM123 Oct 2018 #8

I'll keep her in my thoughts. MineralMan Oct 2018 #9

Wishing you strength, endurance and presence. Been through something similar this year. JudyM Oct 2018 #10

As a former critical care nurse, I understand about platelets. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2018 #11

I'm a lawyer. Nevilledog Oct 2018 #17

Thank you so much for your kind remarks! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2018 #36

I hope your Mom recovers fully from her surgery mercuryblues Oct 2018 #12

Hospital ERs are becoming deadly with their obvious inadequate diagnoses. nocoincidences Oct 2018 #13

Way you need malaise Oct 2018 #14

So sorry about what your mom is going through. Sending positive thoughts to you, Nevilledog. skylucy Oct 2018 #15

Praying for samplegirl Oct 2018 #16

I am so very sorry diva77 Oct 2018 #18

Sending positive vibes from California. That is a hell-of-a double whammy. alwaysinasnit Oct 2018 #19

I'm sending warm, healing thoughts to your mom and you DesertRat Oct 2018 #20

Hoping that this terribly challenging time will find your family strengthening all of the family grantcart Oct 2018 #21

Prayers do work. Energy from a bunch of well meaning folks all over the planet can do nothing ... marble falls Oct 2018 #22

Best wishes to you, your mother, and your family csziggy Oct 2018 #23

I am so sorry about her cancer diagnosis. I hope it is in the early stages and her treatment goes Glimmer of Hope Oct 2018 #24

You're carrying a heavy load. Wishing you strength and her healing. nolabear Oct 2018 #25

We are here for you any time! (((hugs))) samnsara Oct 2018 #26

Hope the hospital can refer you to some good support groups. vlyons Oct 2018 #27

I'm so sorry you've been going through this Nevilledog, and that the rest of the family pnwmom Oct 2018 #28

It was so good to read that she's responding and Hortensis Oct 2018 #29

To her strength in recovering, and to yours as well benld74 Oct 2018 #30

You and your mother have been dealt a big load and I hope you have help to handle it. Frustratedlady Oct 2018 #31

Best wish's bluestarone Oct 2018 #32

Sounds like you're going through a really tough spell sweetroxie Oct 2018 #33

Sending healing hugs to your Mom. gademocrat7 Oct 2018 #34

Hoping for the best Omaha Steve Oct 2018 #35

All the best to you, your mom and your family, Nevilledog! Different Drummer Oct 2018 #37

The best to you and your Mom. Don't give up and yes, one day at a time. Hugs LoisB Oct 2018 #38

I'm sorry for this terrible news FakeNoose Oct 2018 #39

I wish you and your mom the best during this hard time. It was just over a year ago that Maraya1969 Oct 2018 #40

🙏🏽 for your mom! Nt helpisontheway Oct 2018 #41