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In reply to the discussion: Not sure how long i have left. [View all]magicarpet
(14,144 posts)It seems you might want to contact providers for social welfare resources available for your grandson. Living arrangements if needed, maybe group housing, maybe an advocate, maybe disability income, maybe a program such as Goodwill employment and social worker assigned to offer guidance.
You might want to introduce and walk him through any changes before hand because it seems he might not respond too well to rapid change or quick alternate arrangements. Not springing rapid change upon him might produce the most favorable result, - rather, advance planning and slow walking change might bring the best reaction/result.
It seems if you are unable or not around there are few provisions to attend to his immediate daily needs - so you might explore what is available so his long-term daily/monthly/yearly welfare are provided for because absent your guardianship not many others are eager to oversee that his long-term needs are attended to.
Good luck in piecing together the puzzle to be sure his needs are provided for. Periodically keep us posted as to how the battle goes. Your are good person to watch out for his long-term interests and formulate plans so these issues are attended to even if you are not around.