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Lonestarblue

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16. Thanks for sharing, you sound well organized.

Thu Oct 4, 2018, 05:46 PM

Oct 2018

As others have mentioned, there are reaources that may help with your autistic grandson. I have a friend with an autistic son who was helped greatly with special counseling while in school. He loves computer games and has taken some online courses in programming. I don’t know that he will ever hold a job in the computer industry but they hope so. Having that interest means that he has a focus for his attention. Perhaps your grandson has just such an interest that can be developed. I’m wishing all the best for you.

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Not sure how long i have left. [View all] tiredtoo Oct 2018 OP

When my sister had breast cancer her son showed her how to do a website where she Kajun Gal Oct 2018 #1

Thanks tiredtoo Oct 2018 #2

You can irisblue Oct 2018 #6

Prayers for you. You are anonymous here! God bless you always. Kajun Gal Oct 2018 #7

My Brother used a website called CaringBridge Dem_in_Nebr. Oct 2018 #28

Please encourage her to post an update, even if it's a yearly check-in. woodsprite Oct 2018 #66

If he's the only one who needs special help -- and it sounds like he is -- pnwmom Oct 2018 #3

Please do keep us informed rurallib Oct 2018 #4

So sorry you are in this situation, but admire heck out of how you seem to have sorted it out Hoyt Oct 2018 #5

Feel free to vent all you want on DU. We are good "listeners" and often have advice you can Frustratedlady Oct 2018 #8

Sounds like you are holding up well, in a very trying situation. GeorgeGist Oct 2018 #9

you might also want to check in with the Chronic Health Condition subforum if you haven't already 0rganism Oct 2018 #10

Best wishes. Hang in there. scheming daemons Oct 2018 #11

Hugs to you tiredtoo. PA Democrat Oct 2018 #12

Hello, thanks for sharing your personal situation here. magicarpet Oct 2018 #13

Bless you. Rainngirl Oct 2018 #14

Might I suggest the aspies at reddit LiberalArkie Oct 2018 #15

Thanks, just sent link to grandson tiredtoo Oct 2018 #36

I think I may be the oldest aspie on it at 70 years old and really acting and feeling like my 30's LiberalArkie Oct 2018 #43

Thanks for sharing, you sound well organized. Lonestarblue Oct 2018 #16

best of everything to you but onethatcares Oct 2018 #17

I just read online today that a samplegirl Oct 2018 #18

All he very best with your health issues, however... Soph0571 Oct 2018 #19

Hoping that your condition is mild GeoWilliam750 Oct 2018 #20

Wow y're such a thoughtful person malaise Oct 2018 #21

I'm wishing you all good things always eleny Oct 2018 #22

Share your thoughts as often as you feel the need. Fla Dem Oct 2018 #23

Thanks so much for sharing these thoughts, tiredtoo. calimary Oct 2018 #24

"I have written a personal letter to each, sharing my thoughts and memories with them..." chia Oct 2018 #25

That's what I plan to do too, but SoCalDem Oct 2018 #45

Clinical trials Ftrump Oct 2018 #26

Thank you for the links will bring up with doctor EOM tiredtoo Oct 2018 #33

Blessings to you. The 20 year old grandson cares for you, iluvtennis Oct 2018 #27

I hope you will keep posting, tiredtoo. delisen Oct 2018 #29

It's a tough one. I thought I had it 8yrs ago and planned my farewell blm Oct 2018 #30

Hugs to you and your family. Ilsa Oct 2018 #31

Bless you and yours. Jane Austin Oct 2018 #32

I can say NewEnglandAutumn Oct 2018 #34

I hope you are able to make a plan for your grandson. TNNurse Oct 2018 #35

Maybe you could do a trust for your grandson. cate94 Oct 2018 #37

Thank you all for the replies tiredtoo Oct 2018 #38

We share the same birthday. Not year, but day. LakeSuperiorView Oct 2018 #39

Hang in there ... kooth Oct 2018 #40

Pulmonary Fibrosis (pf) Danang1968 Oct 2018 #41

i have copd tiredtoo Oct 2018 #42

... spanone Oct 2018 #44

All the best of my thoughts for you. Roland99 Oct 2018 #46

You can set up a trust for your grandson. MoonRiver Oct 2018 #47

Set up a Special Needs Trust for your autistic grandson SayitAintSo Oct 2018 #48

Thanks for this mountain grammy Oct 2018 #49

A couple of clarifications tiredtoo Oct 2018 #50

This I know: Any living arrangement the family as a unit can agree on, will be the best, Pinkflamingo Oct 2018 #61

I'm using Facebook to let friends and Family know about my condition TNLib Oct 2018 #51

Is ther a possibility for independent living you see for his future? Can you help transition ? lunasun Oct 2018 #52

Sending you light and love....... Maraya1969 Oct 2018 #53

I am sorry to hear about your prognosis.. disillusioned73 Oct 2018 #54

I'm thinking of you DesertRat Oct 2018 #55

Holding you in my thoughts. lillypaddle Oct 2018 #56

I'd suggest talking to a lawyer renate Oct 2018 #57

that's a good point Grasswire2 Oct 2018 #59

My sympathies. And my admiration for your clear thinking. Please do post. nt LAS14 Oct 2018 #58

My father had interstitial pulmonary fibrosis. mahatmakanejeeves Oct 2018 #60

When i first heard the diagnosis and googled it tiredtoo Oct 2018 #63

I have two grandchildren on the autism sprectrum HelenWheels Oct 2018 #62

Thank you for your thoughtful post. smirkymonkey Oct 2018 #64

First off, congratulations Bibliovore Oct 2018 #65

What a wonderful man you are. LoisB Oct 2018 #67