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In reply to the discussion: Not sure how long i have left. [View all]TNLib
(1,819 posts)I was recently diagnosed with Stage 4 Ovarian Cancer. Statistically speaking I have a 20% five year survival rate but I think those statistics are at least 5 years old and not very helpful since new Parp drugs have come along in the last couple of years.
I would get a prognosis and treatment plan from your medical professional. Also look into trials for your medical condition sometimes new drugs can prolong life expectancy.
Maybe find an online support group of people with your specific medical condition and ask them questions about treatment, and how to deal with symptoms from treatment and when they were diagnosed. I found this to be extremely helpful and hopeful, especially hearing from survivors outside of 5 years.
I got my will and my husbands's, Power of attorney, medical directive and affairs in order. Including making sure my daughter is taking care of in case something happens. This gave me some piece of mind.
Organize your household and life to reduce stress and focus on your health. Allow trusted friends and family to help out as much as they can. I'm currently working on this but haven't quite gotten there.
As for your grandchild I don't know maybe you could make some tentative arrangements just in case, so you and he won't worry so much. I think my husband might be on the spectrum he usually doesn't show much emotion but when he worries it's usually physical signs of anxiety like dizziness, sweating and gastrointestinal issues.