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Funtatlaguy

(11,875 posts)
Sun Oct 7, 2018, 08:36 AM Oct 2018

Cognitive Dissonance 😆- when you love some Trump supporters. [View all]

Cog Diss is defined as having diff beliefs or thoughts that are at odds.
I think that has now been turned up to new and dangerous levels in our country.

We progressives and Dems really detest people like Trump, McConnell and Kavanaugh.
But, many of us really love or deeply care about people who voted for and still support them.

In the past, like under W, I think many of us (at least I did) just avoided any political talk with our Bush supporting loved ones.
But now, with Trump being so all invasive and so Trump and the gloating and the insults, etc. etc.

Well, you see where I’m going.
I am very worried that I’m going to lose some very important relationships in my life.
It is becoming harder and harder to just avoid politics with certain people.
Instead I am just avoiding these people on days that I just don’t have the energy to fake it that all is good when I don’t respect these people. Can you still love someone you no longer respect?

Cognitive Dissonance sucks. Thanks Trump. Thanks GOP.

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Thanksgiving dinner will be very interesting this year. nt Xipe Totec Oct 2018 #1
"Pass the carving up republicans knife...oops, I meant the butter knife....you fascist fuc😱". Funtatlaguy Oct 2018 #2
Instead of baked turkey serve schadenfreude turkey this year. Xipe Totec Oct 2018 #4
It is hard indeed. FM123 Oct 2018 #3
Right wingers are habitually insecure people. Right wingers live for attention. Trust Buster Oct 2018 #5
At some point you have to ascertain what people truly, deeply believe... Girard442 Oct 2018 #6
I divorced myself from all RW friends and family during the Bush years. Life is better now! Floyd R. Turbo Oct 2018 #7
Some of us have family (especially children) and financial relationships that preclude us Funtatlaguy Oct 2018 #11
Wealthy frumpers are a lost cause. Money is all. Unless you increase their wealth, they don't have n lindysalsagal Oct 2018 #8
I'm having more problem with teabilly leftist revolutionaries agincourt Oct 2018 #9
I have a friend who had been like a father to me for 40 years. elocs Oct 2018 #10
I've always managed to keep it separate before. This time I can't do that. Autumn Oct 2018 #12
Sorry for your loss. And it is a loss. Funtatlaguy Oct 2018 #13
We are all up in years and to reach a point where you no longer can Autumn Oct 2018 #14
The irony is that when people in my circle of like-minded friends meet... Girard442 Oct 2018 #15
Same here. But they have begun to spew their hate on anything, even non political related Autumn Oct 2018 #16
I can tell you rownesheck Oct 2018 #17
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