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demigoddess

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41. they are not going to tell you about it. Women don't tell that to most men

Tue Oct 9, 2018, 07:02 PM

Oct 2018

maybe husbands, but not others. Almost every woman I have talked to since junior high school, has told me their story. So many that I do not enjoy making new friends. I became a loner. I have my own couple of stories. Once as a toddler and later as a married woman, with a medical professional. He didn't succeed because I protected myself by reading his MO. almost all men have a hard time believing this. They think it is only with sluts, not your sisters, mothers, daughters, nieces. BUT IT IS!!! You just don't like to see it.

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I'm not going to stop being angry about Brett K and here is why: [View all] Coventina Oct 2018 OP

I hear you, my dear Coventina and I agree with you, always. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2018 #1

My dear CaliforniaPeggy... Coventina Oct 2018 #2

Thank you, and may I suggest... DemocracyMouse Oct 2018 #14

that works for me. I have been calling him a sexual predator, NOT alleged, because I am thinking niyad Oct 2018 #21

So true. He was manifestly abusive in that yearbook. Journalists could also confidently call him a.. DemocracyMouse Oct 2018 #28

I had a friend raped at knifepoint by three men after she kindly stppped to help someone on the road lostnfound Oct 2018 #3

. Coventina Oct 2018 #7

Wish I could rec 1000x volstork Oct 2018 #4

Agreed. It is time for "good" men to live up to their qualifier. n/t Coventina Oct 2018 #8

Nor should you. SammyWinstonJack Oct 2018 #5

I would like to add two things. llmart Oct 2018 #6

True. Attempting rape is a rapist who didn't succeed THAT PARTICULAR TIME. Coventina Oct 2018 #9

In Caifornia, it is still rape by definition. He could have smoothered Christine! OhNo-Really Oct 2018 #17

The fact that he PUT HIS HAND OVER HER MOUTH Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2018 #48

I hear you PJMcK Oct 2018 #10

The rapists are not my father, not my brothers, not me and I have no sons. wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #11

I'll stop broad brushing men when they stop raping and enabling rapists. n/t Coventina Oct 2018 #12

Agree! Tumbulu Oct 2018 #13

Well said! I am considering refusing to vote for ANY man until hughee99 Oct 2018 #23

Well no one will pay attention to you unless wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #25

You know damn well all men are not rapists wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #34

Actually, I don't damn well know that. Coventina Oct 2018 #46

And we ALL know that rape is under-reported. Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2018 #49

Lucky you, and guess what Tumbulu Oct 2018 #15

I have had very many relationships in my wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #26

While women are raped, you yet rail on about your own oppression as a man. LanternWaste Oct 2018 #19

Well that's you. wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #30

That you read this as broad brushing all men speaks volumes. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2018 #22

That is popular on DU. You make wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #31

Pointing out your response was off base and tone deaf is bullying? Pacifist Patriot Oct 2018 #37

No to everything you just posted wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #39

Interesting choice of words-- BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2018 #42

Well aren't we very dramatic in calling me dramatic! wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #51

I'll just leave that right there. Let folks step around it. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2018 #52

You think I did not mean to be factual?!?!? Coventina Oct 2018 #47

It is not true that all men are rapists and wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #50

If men hate rape so much, why hasn't rape culture been eradicated? Coventina Oct 2018 #54

Chances are very very good that you know somebody who has been raped even though they haven't told raccoon Oct 2018 #27

I agree wasupaloopa Oct 2018 #32

There's absolutely no way you can know that for a fact. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2018 #35

Ridiculous victimization Pacifist Patriot Oct 2018 #38

they are not going to tell you about it. Women don't tell that to most men demigoddess Oct 2018 #41

Thank you for writing. Learn the power & effectiveness of dispassionate anger. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2018 #16

I really do hope you take this the right way ... Cigar11 Oct 2018 #18

So your solution to the rape problem is for women to shoot their attackers? Coventina Oct 2018 #45

k and r,. words are completely inadequate, but know that you are not standing, nor angry, alone. niyad Oct 2018 #20

I'm still freaking angry over the Iran hostage arms deal and the illegal war in Nicaragua pecosbob Oct 2018 #24

No one is saying to stop being angry. Just take the anger to the voting booth. And bring friends. LBM20 Oct 2018 #29

This message was self-deleted by its author Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2018 #33

I hope people here Turin_C3PO Oct 2018 #36

We need to punish rape appropriately. Lonestarblue Oct 2018 #40

K&R Scurrilous Oct 2018 #43

The best revenge though? Getting even. Initech Oct 2018 #44

My wife is a rape victim, and a victim of severe workplace sexual harassment. Nitram Oct 2018 #53