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In reply to the discussion: Southwest Airlines apologises for mocking girl's name [View all]Jake Stern
(3,146 posts)56. The gate agent was an epic asshole
That being said I cannot overlook the fact that this mom saddled her daughter with a ridiculous name that is sure to put her on the receiving end of a metric shit ton of bullying and awkwardness throughout her school years.
Why can't we be like Germany or Denmark that actually limit the bullshit parents can label their kids with?
1. Germany
In Germany, you must be able to tell the gender of the child by the first name, and the name chosen must not be negatively affect the well being of the child. Also, you can not use last names or the names of objects or products as first names. Whether or not your chosen name will be accepted is up to the office of vital statistics, the Standesamt, in the area in which the child was born. If the office rejects your proposed baby name, you may appeal the decision. But if you lose, you'll have to think of a different name. Each time you submit a name you pay a fee, so it can get costly. When evaluating names, the Standesamt refers to a book which translates to "the international manual of the first names," and they also consult foreign embassies for assistance with non-German names. Because of the hassle parents have to go through to name their children, many opt for traditional names such as Maximilian, Alexander, Marie, and Sophie.
Rejected names: Matti was rejected for a boy because it didn't indicate gender.
Approved names: Legolas and Nemo were approved for baby boys.
In Germany, you must be able to tell the gender of the child by the first name, and the name chosen must not be negatively affect the well being of the child. Also, you can not use last names or the names of objects or products as first names. Whether or not your chosen name will be accepted is up to the office of vital statistics, the Standesamt, in the area in which the child was born. If the office rejects your proposed baby name, you may appeal the decision. But if you lose, you'll have to think of a different name. Each time you submit a name you pay a fee, so it can get costly. When evaluating names, the Standesamt refers to a book which translates to "the international manual of the first names," and they also consult foreign embassies for assistance with non-German names. Because of the hassle parents have to go through to name their children, many opt for traditional names such as Maximilian, Alexander, Marie, and Sophie.
Rejected names: Matti was rejected for a boy because it didn't indicate gender.
Approved names: Legolas and Nemo were approved for baby boys.
http://mentalfloss.com/article/25034/8-countries-fascinating-baby-naming-laws
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You like a rule that says boys must get boys names and girls must get girls names?
onenote
Nov 2018
#80
I have to agree with you. As bad as the gate agent's actions were, the woman obviously gave
alwaysinasnit
Nov 2018
#4
Perhaps my response was callous, but given how difficult it is for children to grow up in the type
alwaysinasnit
Nov 2018
#90
Yes. The agent went over the line in posting it & talking to others about it.
Honeycombe8
Nov 2018
#45
I totally agree agent's action were not appropriate. An adult shouldn't mock a child's
LisaL
Nov 2018
#46
I agree, it might also have considered a mistake by the desk agent..that would be funny if I saw the
Demonaut
Nov 2018
#82
I am often shocked when confronted with the narrow-mindedness of "progressives."
delisen
Nov 2018
#40
Yes, I am not sure what is imaginative of giving a child name consisting of first five letters of
LisaL
Nov 2018
#43
there are a lot of names that are considered female now but started as male
demigoddess
Nov 2018
#55
Lots of superiority on this thread. Great to see people be so understanding and compassionate.
WhiskeyGrinder
Nov 2018
#48
The child was five! Who makes fun of a five year old and why would anyone think it is ok?
Glimmer of Hope
Nov 2018
#54
I don't agree with adults mocking her name in front of her, but come on! She is going to
Luciferous
Nov 2018
#53
Yes, it is a ridiculous name and both kind and mean people will laugh about it...
cbdo2007
Nov 2018
#100