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Response to Ms. Toad (Reply #37)

Sat Feb 2, 2019, 04:17 PM

38. Oh I see the error....

You think that I'm making the statement that "disclosure is better than discovery". No, I am asking if disclosure is better than discovery. I do not know. I have known couples that come down on either side. Since I can not relate to such a scenario personally, I was asking the question.
Would it have made a difference one way or another? Does it hurt more or less? I have no idea. I do know that the "sin" of the matter is the same in either case. Some things are disqualifying. Period.

My prescription still stands. Once caught or at the point of confession, come clean. Leave nothing on the table. Tell how you've changed and then ask what you could do (if anything) moving forward.

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