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JGug1

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18. Responding To The Day The Music Died
Sun Feb 3, 2019, 12:02 AM
Feb 2019

I am a private pilot. On July 31, 2017, two of my three best friends died flying my Twin Comanche. Subsequently, the wife of one of them sued me. Insurance is declining to cover. I think of them often. I died a little when they died. The wife is a beautiful and bright woman, an immigration attorney, one of "the good ones." She came to me at his funeral and said she was sorry I lost my airplane. I said "fuck my airplane." I meant it and I have lived it because it wasn't paid for so I still have the monthly payments. I'd double the payments if I could have my two friends back.
I don't know what I'd say to her if I could. Could I say that I somehow hope that suing me is making her grief less? I shrug my shoulders. Neither I, nor the other pilot, an instructor pilot, whose estate is being sued also, have deep pockets. I don't know what the attorney, also a pilot, hopes to gain. He has the suit on contingency. I know exactly what happened. Every pilot, and particularly pilots of twin engine airplanes, knows what happened. The instructor was in the right seat. The man flying was in the left. He had something like 50 hours in the airplane, more than enough to sit for his rating and he planned to do just that the next day. He got too slow in a turn. The airplane stalled and spun in. The instructor couldn't stop it. End of story.
These three were of my teen age years. They were in a single engine Bonanza. The pilot flew into bad weather. What a HUGE lose to all of the world. One can only wonder what they would have accomplished.

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Thanks for the great thread! Glamrock Feb 2019 #1
I will be thinking of you, Glam.... Heartstrings Feb 2019 #3
Awww. You're the sweetest. Glamrock Feb 2019 #15
Yes it's a great thread... UniteFightBack Feb 2019 #32
Don McLean - American Pie Quemado Feb 2019 #2
I met a girl who sang the blues and I asked her for some happy news struggle4progress Feb 2019 #10
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Feb 2019 #4
Don McLean was 13 and I was 14 that day. Croney Feb 2019 #5
and I was -9 months and 1 day whistler162 Feb 2019 #6
White Lightning kentuck Feb 2019 #7
AMERICAN PIE is a nice song, but music definitely disn't "die" brooklynite Feb 2019 #8
A metaphor for those 3 guys treestar Feb 2019 #23
I think Mclean may have been referring to the period after the crash Aristus Feb 2019 #24
Waylon Jennings . . . Roadside Attraction Feb 2019 #9
Yup. Waylon suffered from survivor's guilt TexasBushwhacker Feb 2019 #20
Buddy told him he hoped that he froze on the bus Docreed2003 Feb 2019 #27
I was 9, had older siblings TNNurse Feb 2019 #11
And isn't that the greatest tribute that can be paid? Stinky The Clown Feb 2019 #28
Thanks. I grew up in the 50's 60's... pangaia Feb 2019 #12
My father grew up in Nora Springs, near Clear Lake Mr. Ected Feb 2019 #13
I walked out through that cornfield Horse with no Name Feb 2019 #26
What's shocking (at least to me) is how very young they all were. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2019 #14
... and the three men I admire most. The Father, Son and .. the Holy Ghost ... Persondem Feb 2019 #16
In Lubbock, Texas 1959... czarjak Feb 2019 #17
I grew up in Levelland bmbmd Feb 2019 #29
Responding To The Day The Music Died JGug1 Feb 2019 #18
The pilot, Roger Peterson, wasn't instrument-rated and was unfamiliar with the Attitude indicator Dennis Donovan Feb 2019 #22
I still have that old 7 inch 45rpm record Elwood P Dowd Feb 2019 #19
Buddy Holly was very talented. Ritchie Valens not as much but still talented. raccoon Feb 2019 #21
You beat me to it. I post a similar thread on a variety of venues where I post Stinky The Clown Feb 2019 #25
Me too. I posted last year in the DU Lounge. I was about to post this year in mahatmakanejeeves Feb 2019 #30
Oh baby this is what I like !!! nt UniteFightBack Feb 2019 #31
Fantastic post! Thank you! MoonRiver Feb 2019 #33
Forever favorites. Thank you for good memories, Heartstrings. nt akraven Feb 2019 #34
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