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MuseRider

(35,176 posts)
33. I was an ICU nurse
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:13 AM
Feb 2019

and yes, we did have to learn to take care of dying or very critically ill patients without letting our emotions get in the way of the care we had to give but I never saw or felt that there was coldness to the families who were suffering. We were not cold to the patients either but you have to be able to function and being too connected makes that difficult. Still, the families were always treated with great care and compassion. No matter how busy we were we were always present to answer questions and show care and compassion.

I just felt like saying that, I know you did not really imply that they are cold but sometimes people take things differently than you mean.

It was a very hard job most of the time but we also were able to move a lot of patients along who healed and left and most never remembered their stay with us, thank goodness.

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Absolutely appalling. Ohiogal Feb 2019 #1
This almost happened to my Dad Siwsan Feb 2019 #2
Oh! That's so heartbreaking.... Ohiogal Feb 2019 #3
The hospice workers and volunteers were amazing. Siwsan Feb 2019 #6
I'm sorry you lost your dad. Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #20
I'm sorry. marybourg Feb 2019 #10
This is America today? world wide wally Feb 2019 #4
Yeah, we have to assess after 3 months then every two months and chart to the decline. mucifer Feb 2019 #5
I thought doctors had to certify that a patient has less than 6 months to live. pnwmom Feb 2019 #8
I don't think the law changed. They're just being pressured marybourg Feb 2019 #11
Here's a link I found. It's part of a larger site. pnwmom Feb 2019 #12
You have to assess and recertify every few months and two doctors have mucifer Feb 2019 #18
Once you have the 6 months prognosis, why do you have to re-certify every few months? pnwmom Feb 2019 #28
THis Is What Happened RobinA Feb 2019 #36
Some hospice people were great MFM008 Feb 2019 #7
I know someone who is an ICU Nurse. Blue_true Feb 2019 #17
I was an ICU nurse MuseRider Feb 2019 #33
As I stated, I was an observer. Blue_true Feb 2019 #38
Is the problem they don't have doctors willing to certify that they have less than 6 months? pnwmom Feb 2019 #9
The doctor was willing, more than willing, but pressure marybourg Feb 2019 #13
My mother had broken her 2nd hip and the nursing home was trying to kick her out pnwmom Feb 2019 #14
Having been through this system myself with both my mom and dad, Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #22
Yes -- I know what you mean. By time time we lost both our mothers, pnwmom Feb 2019 #24
Exactly. Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #27
Yes, I was somewhat involved in that battle, since my husband at that marybourg Feb 2019 #30
Yes -- that word, "plateaued." I'd forgotten that but, yes, that was what the argument was about. pnwmom Feb 2019 #32
Whaaat? Texasgal Feb 2019 #15
So sorry about your tragic loss. marybourg Feb 2019 #23
That's why I don't plan on living that older in the future ansible Feb 2019 #16
How are you going to check out? Blue_true Feb 2019 #21
Is Soylent Green coming next? This is sickening news. BigmanPigman Feb 2019 #19
It breaks my heart that you have had to deal with this. Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #25
I have a friend who's dying radical noodle Feb 2019 #26
Terrible! marybourg Feb 2019 #35
She's in a rural area radical noodle Feb 2019 #40
funny DonCoquixote Feb 2019 #29
Look what drumpf has done with live babies at the southern border. democratisphere Feb 2019 #31
I Know A Lot RobinA Feb 2019 #37
Something to Consider When Looking at Medicare for All dlk Feb 2019 #34
We all knew the "death panels" would be Republican. McCamy Taylor Feb 2019 #39
K&R crazytown Feb 2019 #41
republicans pissing on America's elders on their deathbeds Achilleaze Feb 2019 #42
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