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lark

(26,081 posts)
45. So because she was raped twice she's not believable?
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 12:54 PM
Feb 2019

Weird you say that about women having regrets, I never once had a call like that in the 3 years I worked at the Rape Crisis Center. I know it happens, but since you were a rape counselor you know that 80% of rapes are not reported and that few end up being fakes. Also, one ran IMMEDIATELY to a friend afterwards, crying and extremely upset..

Also weird that you claim that her being raped twice somehow makes her less believable? WTF, since you worked in the field, you should know that women who are raped once are more vulnerable, in general, to a 2nd assault, usually unrelated to the first.

I don't trust investigations in general when it comes to rape, hate how they re-victimize the victims and side with the rapist so many times, but this is different in some ways and I agree 100% that one needs to be held.

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And, setting a norm that just accusation is enough. MH1 Feb 2019 #1
exactly. spot on. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #2
Except this isn't just "an"accusation. It is two accusations. One has receipts. boston bean Feb 2019 #3
If that's the case, let them press charges. Baltimike Feb 2019 #5
Statute of limitations are up on both cases, so they can't. OliverQ Feb 2019 #25
Not true. Stop spreading falsehoods. brush Feb 2019 #53
Being mistaken about something doesn't mean I'm spreading falsehoods. OliverQ Feb 2019 #61
Everyone is entitled to due process. brush Feb 2019 #62
One of the women said she's not pressing charges OliverQ Feb 2019 #63
15 yrs for the Tyson state (still in force), the other state there is no limit. brush Feb 2019 #68
That's not true. EffieBlack Feb 2019 #60
and those aren't "reciepts", it's supposition. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #7
Doesn't matter if its one or two there still needs to be an investigation. cstanleytech Feb 2019 #9
One, two, five, doesn't matter, if none are substantiated. MH1 Feb 2019 #12
The statute of limitations is still running for both of these allegations EffieBlack Feb 2019 #23
This, and more are going to keep coming. Baltimike Feb 2019 #26
Truly disappointing that you perpetuate that this has some bearing in whether they are telling the boston bean Feb 2019 #52
Agreed pandr32 Feb 2019 #51
No one accused of a crime should be denied due process. dalton99a Feb 2019 #4
It's really that simple. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #6
He will be impeached. irresistable Feb 2019 #8
Not the same as Franken, this includes charges of RAPE - not inappropriate comedy. lark Feb 2019 #10
No police report, going solely off unsubstantiated claims w/o an investigation is INDEED Baltimike Feb 2019 #11
Awful convenient for your argument you found all the liars. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #16
Where did you get from that that she claimed to have "found all the liars?" EffieBlack Feb 2019 #27
I never said there shouldn't be investigations. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #41
Seeing the flip side does NOT equate with the girls I counseled Baltimike Feb 2019 #28
Was the accusations against Kavanaugh a hit job? Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #17
I wish the poster would share with us the percentage of women he was counseling that were liars. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #20
You make many assumptions, so your concern does not surpise me Baltimike Feb 2019 #22
What assumptions did I make? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #30
My gender, for one. Baltimike Feb 2019 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #37
All I can do is shake my head in disbelief that we're even having to have this discussion anywhere EffieBlack Feb 2019 #31
convicted without so much as an investigation. This is bullshit. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #36
apples and oranges, but thanls for playing. Baltimike Feb 2019 #24
lol Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #56
lololol Baltimike Feb 2019 #58
Answer the question... Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #59
I did. You just don't like my answer. Baltimike Feb 2019 #65
No you didn't. Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #69
So because she was raped twice she's not believable? lark Feb 2019 #45
Thank you for your work. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #54
Not really. Only being consistent with my message. Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #13
I believed Ms. Ford and she had arguably less corroboration than Vanessa Tyson and Meredith Watson DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #18
Absolutely - I believe each and every one of 'em. Drunken Irishman Feb 2019 #19
But this isn't like Dr. Ford...it's more like Juanita Broderick. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #29
What makes Vanessa Tyson and Meredith Watson's allegations more like Juanita Broaddrick's? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #40
The expectation that they should resign without an investigation Baltimike Feb 2019 #42
There was an expectation that Bill Clinton should resign DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #44
No...there was NO expectation that President Clinton should resign Baltimike Feb 2019 #47
The FBI found Ms. Broddrick's charges inconclusive. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #48
Did the FBI find Tyson's claim accurate? Baltimike Feb 2019 #49
I said there should be an investigation. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #50
I agree with you... Baltimike Feb 2019 #55
Has she denied the allegation under oath? If not, then NOTHING like Juanita Brodderick. bullwinkle428 Feb 2019 #43
Ms. Broddrick is/was allied with Bill Clinton's political enemies. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #46
actually no she didn't dsc Feb 2019 #34
omg, that's right! I forgot about that in all the hoopla nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #39
Why didn't Franken do what Northam is doing? Renew Deal Feb 2019 #14
He cared about the party? DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #21
Because the game was new...no one knew it was a hit job until after it was over. Baltimike Feb 2019 #32
I don't think Al Franken should have resigned. I believe he should have democratisphere Feb 2019 #38
Most people who dont believe it is Frankening standingtall Feb 2019 #15
ain't that the truth. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #33
I don't feel this is the same. IluvPitties Feb 2019 #57
Yes, because historically, investigations have worked well for bringing justice to women. LexVegas Feb 2019 #64
... Baltimike Feb 2019 #67
Who investigates this? Normally a complaint would be filed hughee99 Feb 2019 #66
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