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In reply to the discussion: The Robert Kraft Scandal is Remarkable for Its Sadness [View all]MineralMan
(152,105 posts)There was a guy I knew who invited me to go to a "titty bar" in Las Vegas during a convention there. He said he was going to get a "lap dance." I declined the invitation, and pointedly asked him what his wife, who I also knew, would think about someone grinding her ass on his lap. He decided not to go, either, or at least told me he wasn't.
I don't know, but such things have never interested me. When I lived in Turkey, courtesy of the USAF, there was a brothel not far from the little remote base I was stationed at. It was run by the Turkish government, and the women in it were paying off court judgments or fines. Some of the other men at that base went there regularly. I couldn't even imagine doing that. It would have violated my common sense, as well as my sense of outrage at women being forced to work as prostitutes by the government to pay their debts.
After a while, I finally started shutting guys who told me about their trips to the "compound" by pointing out those things. They stopped telling me about it. I don't think they stopped visiting the brothel, though.