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Siwsan

(27,883 posts)
22. You've brought tears to my eyes
Sat Apr 20, 2019, 04:35 PM
Apr 2019

They say the same sex parent is the strongest role model, for a child. Not for me. It was my Dad. He was the parent who loved me unconditionally. He never failed to show me how proud he was of me, or to tell me how much he loved me. He never made me feel anything other than loved. I now pass that kind of support on to my late sister's children (and now, their children). Dad's great grandchildren will have a strong appreciation for what an amazing man he was.

I lost my mother 4 years ago, February. While I miss her, the biggest parental void in my life was left by my Dad. I always thought he waited until it was just the two of us, in the room, to make his departure. And I'll always cherish the signs I believe he sent to me, that he was now happy, healthy, and in a good place.

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A father's last words... [View all] Raven Dec 2018 OP
wonderful... I'm glad you were able to receive that final gift... hlthe2b Dec 2018 #1
What a wonderful gift he gave you both. MLAA Dec 2018 #2
A gift. irisblue Dec 2018 #3
My Dad lost his power of speech about a week before he died. But he still communicated Siwsan Dec 2018 #4
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing with us. n/t ok_cpu Dec 2018 #5
Siwsan, I've kept this post of yours open in a tab for months. JudyM Apr 2019 #21
You've brought tears to my eyes Siwsan Apr 2019 #22
Yes, yours is a beautiful story that brought tears to my eyes as well. JudyM Apr 2019 #23
I am happy you had that. That won't happen for me. cpamomfromtexas Dec 2018 #6
my dad bigtree Dec 2018 #7
Beautiful DesertRat Dec 2018 #16
My dad had Alzheimer's too. MontanaMama Dec 2018 #18
I remember so well my last conversation with dad. lark Dec 2018 #8
A priceless gift. We strive our whole lives to provide for our children, yet here is a gift that FailureToCommunicate Dec 2018 #9
I am dealing with "this stuff" right now. Botany Dec 2018 #10
There are so many beautiful stories here and quite a few heartaches. I hope we all can help erronis Dec 2018 #11
Thank you for sharing. StarryNite Dec 2018 #12
This story gave me a lump in my throat. You were very lucky, and so was he. Honeycombe8 Dec 2018 #13
Posts like this are windows into humanity. I always read them, as my dad left in a special way, too. DFW Dec 2018 #14
"give me one last kiss and let me go" were my dad's last words to my mom Hamlette Dec 2018 #15
My dad's last words were, defacto7 Dec 2018 #17
What a fantastic and beautiful gift he gave to you! PatrickforO Dec 2018 #19
To all of you, a DU hug Hekate Dec 2018 #20
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