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In reply to the discussion: I picked up my grandsons (7 and 8) at school again today. [View all]dixiegrrrrl
(60,145 posts)29. We moved a lot when I was a kid, in the 50's.
the FIRST thing my brother and I did was hop on the bikes and explore the new area.
Caveats: We lived in a lot of smaller towns, mostly, altho the last move was to a town of 55,000.
We were totally free range, the only rule was to come home before it got dark, which, in the summer, was 8 pm or later.
"Don't talk to strangers" was the earliest warning I remember, when I was 5, and walking to kindergarten.
It changed to strangers and cars when I was 9, but same thing.
I am now wondering if my brother, 2 years younger than me, was given the same warning.
I do not remember hearing any stories/news about child abductions, except for the stranger warnings, and those had no detail, just the one sentence.
I do understand the many changes that have led to parents being worried about their kids in today's society, and I worry about how those kids are gonna develop, after being told they could be murdered in a school room, or while walking the streets, esp.in cities like Chicago.
the worst anxiety I remember was having to hide under a school desk during nuke drill, because something called communist wanted to blow us up.
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However Newton, MA is a very upscale, suburban city and I am sure they have
smirkymonkey
May 2019
#25
IIRC, we had to walk to school if we lived closer than a certain distance
The Velveteen Ocelot
May 2019
#5
I don't think it's less safe now. There were trucks in the '50s and people got run over by them.
The Velveteen Ocelot
May 2019
#11
I think kids playing in neighborhoods goes back to when we moved from the front porch to the back
redstatebluegirl
May 2019
#15
Is this a school issue, or a parent issue? Because plenty of kids walk to school.
WhiskeyGrinder
May 2019
#10
(late 50's-mid 60's) Walked or rode my bike to elem. school, about a mile. Then Jr. high, walked or
dameatball
May 2019
#16
I do it only because my son is of the belief that it's a school requirement. It certainly...
LAS14
May 2019
#31
1. Walk to the school. 2. Pick up your grandsons at school. 3. Walk home with them.
NBachers
May 2019
#28
I live in a safe community, and skeezers will try to pull up to elementary school kids often.
TheBlackAdder
May 2019
#37
When my daughter was young (she's 20 now) she was allowed to ride her bike all
Luciferous
May 2019
#43
Ego-centrism applies in many areas to those afflicted with it. In a country where most Christians
TeamPooka
May 2019
#55
Besides not walking with them, check out to see if there are local pedos in the police database.
TheBlackAdder
May 2019
#60