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PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
Thu May 16, 2019, 06:50 PM May 2019

I am pro-abortion, not just pro-choice [View all]

Please, for the love of God, stop saying and no one is pro-abortion.

Abortion is a legal, moral and positive choice that liberates women, saves lives, and protects families.

It's not shameful. Abortion is not a "necessary evil".

I believe that abortion care is a positive social good -- and I think it’s time people said so ~VALERIE TARICO

Recently, the Daily Kos published an article titled I Am Pro-Choice, Not Pro-Abortion. “Has anyone ever truly been pro-abortion?” one commenter asked.

Uh. Yes. Me. That would be me.

I am pro-abortion like I’m pro-knee-replacement and pro-chemotherapy and pro-cataract surgery. As the last protection against ill-conceived childbearing when all else fails, abortion is part of a set of tools that help women and men to form the families of their choosing. I believe that abortion care is a positive social good. I suspect that a lot of other people secretly believe the same thing. And I think it’s time we said so.

As an aside, I’m also pro-choice. Choice is about who gets to make the decision. The question of whether and when we bring a new life into the world is, to my mind, one of the most important decisions a person can make. It is too big a decision for us to make for each other, and especially for perfect strangers.

But independent of who owns the decision, I’m pro on the procedure, and I’ve decided that it’s time, for once and for all, to count it out on my 10 fingers.

1. I’m pro-abortion because being able to delay and limit childbearing is fundamental to female empowerment and equality. A woman who lacks the means to manage her fertility lacks the means to manage her life. Any plans, dreams, aspirations, responsibilities or commitments–no matter how important–have a great big contingency clause built: “until or unless I get pregnant, in which case all bets are off.”

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2. I’m pro-abortion because well-timed pregnancies give children a healthier start in life. We now have ample evidence that babies do best when women are able to space their pregnancies and get both pre-natal and pre-conception care. The specific nutrients we ingest in the weeks before we get pregnant can have a lifelong effect on the wellbeing of our offspring. Rapid repeat pregnancies increase the risk of low birthweight babies and other complications. Wanted babies are more likely to get their toes kissed, to be welcomed into families that are financially and emotionally ready to receive them, to get preventive medical care during childhood and the kinds of loving engagement that helps young brains to develop.


Much more that has me applauding in agreement here: http://www.salon.com/2015/04/24/i_am_pro_abortion_not_just_pro_choice_10_reasons_why_we_must_support_the_procedure_and_the_choice/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Here's what you can do today to fight back:

1. Donate to @abortionfunds: https://t.co/JY9MwWRG6g

2. Support @EmergeAmerica, @EMILYSList, @runforsomething, and @TheDLCC, who work to elect pro-choice candidates

3. Join @supermajority to organize for the future


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K&R Solly Mack May 2019 #1
Also pro-abortion. I am definitely a fan of a procedure that helps people stop being pregnant when WhiskeyGrinder May 2019 #2
My mother got pregnant at 42, she was 43 when she had my sister. blueinredohio May 2019 #10
I am 42 and couldn't imagine having a baby now, let alone chasing a toddler around. dewsgirl May 2019 #36
Me too. I think safe and effective medical procedures are fabulous. Voltaire2 May 2019 #3
I'm not pro-abortion... cynatnite May 2019 #4
K&R smirkymonkey May 2019 #5
"But abortion is icky." Buzz cook May 2019 #6
Exactly. Thank you. PeaceNikki May 2019 #7
Some people like to pretend that being pro-abortion Mariana May 2019 #11
Yup PeaceNikki May 2019 #12
Yep. Nt mcar May 2019 #8
100% pro abortion here. Lunabell May 2019 #9
It's hard to say Red Mountain May 2019 #13
I think it's high time that we change the narrative. PeaceNikki May 2019 #14
They use that rhetoric to shut people down... cynatnite May 2019 #23
I used to work for Planned Parentood of Connecticut and one thing we helped our abortion patients CTyankee May 2019 #15
Eh, I'll stick with pro-choice qdouble May 2019 #16
Good for you. PeaceNikki May 2019 #17
I'm with you, and I'm unapologetic about it. PatrickforO May 2019 #18
Saying one is pro-abortion rather than pro-choice onenote May 2019 #19
That's ridiculous. PeaceNikki May 2019 #20
. WhiskeyGrinder May 2019 #21
I am ABSOLUTELY and without reservation PRO ABORTION. AZ8theist May 2019 #22
This exactly ismnotwasm May 2019 #24
I believe abortion is a positive social good overall, too, but I still wish abortions were more rare aikoaiko May 2019 #25
"I don't think being pregnant is like a blown out knee or cancer." What does this mean? WhiskeyGrinder May 2019 #27
From the OP. aikoaiko May 2019 #29
Ah of course. Being pregnant is a problem that abortion solves, is how I read it. I've said the WhiskeyGrinder May 2019 #31
I agree with some of what you say, but... PeaceNikki May 2019 #35
Absolutely! AlexSFCA May 2019 #26
There is no reason to bring unwanted children into the world. (n/t) forgotmylogin May 2019 #28
Semantics always seem to get in the way. BarbD May 2019 #30
Me too. shanny May 2019 #32
Me, too. nt ancianita May 2019 #33
I completely agree and would remind those Brainstormy May 2019 #34
K&R PunkinPi May 2019 #37
The reason I prefer "pro-choice" is because ... moriah May 2019 #38
I am not pro-penectomy, but pro the right to remove one's own if it helps combat gender dysphoria. Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2022 #39
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