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KY_EnviroGuy

(14,491 posts)
Mon Jul 29, 2019, 08:48 AM Jul 2019

A ray of sunshine: A megachurch preacher repents. [View all]

Author of Christian relationship guide says he has lost his faith
Joshua Harris says his marriage is over and apologises to LGBT+ people for promoting bigotry

Harriet Sherwood - Religion correspondent @harrietsherwood
Mon 29 Jul 2019

Link: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2019/jul/29/author-christian-relationship-guide-joshua-harris-says-marriage-over

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The American author of a bestselling Christian guide to relationships for young people has announced that his marriage is over and he has lost his faith. Joshua Harris, whose biblical guide to relationships I Kissed Dating Goodbye sold nearly 1m copies around the world after it was published in 1997, has also apologised to LGBT+ people for contributing to a “culture of exclusion and bigotry”.
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“To those who read my book and were misdirected or unhelpfully influenced by it, I am sincerely sorry.” This month he announced on Instagram that he and his wife were separating after 21 years of marriage because “significant changes have taken place in both of us”. Another Instagram message posted nine days later said he had “undergone a massive shift in regard to my faith in Jesus”.

He wrote: “The popular phrase for this is ‘deconstruction’, the biblical phrase is ‘falling away’. By all the measurements that I have for defining a Christian, I am not a Christian. Many people tell me that there is a different way to practise faith and I want to remain open to this, but I’m not there now.”

He added: “I have lived in repentance for the past several years – repenting of my self-righteousness, my fear-based approach to life, the teaching of my books, my views of women in the church, and my approach to parenting to name a few. “But I specifically want to add to this list now: to the LGBTQ+ community, I want to say that I am sorry for the views that I taught in my books and as a pastor regarding sexuality.

I suggest this guy start a rehab center for evangelical preachers led astray by the almighty dollar and thirst for power.....
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Apology, repentance, now what's the next step? gratuitous Jul 2019 #1
As with all programs of recovery, the next step is action. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #3
Yes. Making amends means to repair the damage, not just ask for forgiveness. catrose Jul 2019 #31
Working against Repukes in all elections IMO would be a good first step. EOM TruckFump Jul 2019 #6
he's taken the first step stevesinpa Jul 2019 #14
That's why I said "next step" gratuitous Jul 2019 #16
I was wondering who was in charge of giving free passes elocs Jul 2019 #20
So the survivors of Harris' previous life should just suck it up gratuitous Jul 2019 #22
Understandable. But it's mighty hard to trust again after trust has been so severely damaged. calimary Jul 2019 #38
3. Profit!! Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2019 #36
Too little too late. yellowcanine Jul 2019 #2
I suspect that he is still a conman. CentralMass Jul 2019 #4
When you got troubles, just move far away from it. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #7
My brother, a white evangelical Christian pastor has a doctorate in communications Maraya1969 Jul 2019 #12
WHAT! He gets this kind of job with NO COLLEGE? catrose Jul 2019 #32
Freaking out Evangelical world. See patheos blogs' reports at friendlyatheist, lovejoyfeminism bobbieinok Jul 2019 #5
Yep, I did a quick scan of a search for "Pastor Joshua Harris" and.... KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #8
Pray away the Pray superpatriotman Jul 2019 #9
Mrs. Aristus and I had a long talk about this last night. Aristus Jul 2019 #10
Thanks for sharing that lovely story, Aristus. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #25
very happy to see this, I hope he is sincere and takes active measures to make amends Celerity Jul 2019 #11
He just ran out of gas, now he's changing lanes bucolic_frolic Jul 2019 #13
That or his wife found some "men's" magazines Funtatlaguy Jul 2019 #26
It would seem that when your marriage is collapsing is when you most need your faith. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Jul 2019 #15
Wow, someone actually broke free of the cult! Initech Jul 2019 #17
He'll be back. There's still $ on the table. Marcuse Jul 2019 #18
I'm sure repenting ones sins is a lot easier when you are sitting on a pile of money made... Javaman Jul 2019 #19
Judas was an early modern day conservative disciple. keithbvadu2 Jul 2019 #23
After reading some of the posts here, it's clear that nothing this man could do elocs Jul 2019 #21
It will be instructional to observe.... KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #29
"I suggest this guy start a rehab center for evangelical preachers led astray by the almighty dollar Mr. Evil Jul 2019 #24
Good sign. At least one more in the better direction empedocles Jul 2019 #27
Is he still a theist? Girard442 Jul 2019 #28
Sounds like he's currently lost in the wilderness and searching for renewal. KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #33
His "un-conversion" is so perfectly detailed and calculated that it doesn't ring true. VOX Jul 2019 #30
He seems like he is checking off boxes before coming out. LonePirate Jul 2019 #34
That was my instinct too. Possibly both he and his wife. Neema Jul 2019 #37
So many WTF moments. First of all, a book about relationships written by a BOY OF 21 was a Neema Jul 2019 #35
good Demovictory9 Jul 2019 #39
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