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asiliveandbreathe

(8,203 posts)
11. So glad to hear you are on the mend..yes, the stress is almost too much to bear...
Thu Aug 1, 2019, 01:09 PM
Aug 2019

I have been so lucky to have good health..I signed my husband up for Medicare Advantage last Dec..he turned 65 in January..Feb 28th he went to a PCP (in-network, a must), and got a stat referral for a urologist..biopsy came back that sunk us into despair..since then, through all the tests, MRI was denied, but CT, Bone scan (okayed by ins), his cancer did not spread to other parts of body, nor to his bones - but he does have an aggressive cancer of prostate..urologist was still able to do biopsy..Dr. said, "insurance companies dictating healthcare"..with second opinion referral, (IN-network), he had beacons implanted in prostate, and what is called a spaceor, to protect his other organs from radiation treatments, started radiation 2 weeks ago..is 9 weeks, 5 days a week..20% co-insurance..

When I look back at all the calls to BCBS, Dr's offices for appts..it was truly a maze trying to fight through it...I never took anything for granted (info), and for the most part, it wasn't misinformation from BCBS..but from front office staff at Dr's office..I feel like I earned a medical degree thru the process..oh, and the dr's office (first urologist ofc) know who I am -

I feel bad for people who do not have a business background, or an advocate to help co-ordinate all that is required.....

I am still waiting for bills to come flying in....of course I care what the cost is, but that is secondary to him getting well..

Be well - you are a trooper.....

Wait until the mail starts filling your mailbox..you will be able to wallpaper your whole asiliveandbreathe Aug 2019 #1
Ooo, it'll give me something to read phylny Aug 2019 #4
That's funny... asiliveandbreathe Aug 2019 #6
And burn for the lighting keithbvadu2 Aug 2019 #43
I quit getting the calls but my mailbox is still filling up. lark Aug 2019 #7
So glad to hear you are on the mend..yes, the stress is almost too much to bear... asiliveandbreathe Aug 2019 #11
Can you mute the ringer? Backseat Driver Aug 2019 #2
I think I'll have to! They dont leave phylny Aug 2019 #3
I get two phone calls a day, every day lapfog_1 Aug 2019 #5
If you can get a human on the line spinbaby Aug 2019 #8
I have started to do this, thank you. phylny Aug 2019 #22
I use an ooma phone as my back up phone to my cellular phone ooky Aug 2019 #9
We *love* our Ooma system. Have had it for 8 years now. SeattleVet Aug 2019 #14
You can do a lot more with Ooma then I am doing. I think its a good value. ooky Aug 2019 #15
Post removed Post removed Aug 2019 #21
Thanks, Bryan, phylny Aug 2019 #23
Ooma was one of the early email spammers. lpbk2713 Aug 2019 #26
Good to know, thanks. phylny Aug 2019 #31
They might have cleaned up their act to stay in business. lpbk2713 Aug 2019 #32
We finally got a choice mercuryblues Aug 2019 #29
Oh, we have their top plan, too. It's awful. So embarrassing when company comes to the phylny Aug 2019 #30
My son had the same company when he rented mercuryblues Aug 2019 #36
We recently signed up for the Ooma Premier service. We use the "whitelist" option... NurseJackie Aug 2019 #40
That's one of the things I have always liked about the Ooma system... SeattleVet Aug 2019 #41
They don't know my US or my EU phone number, but they send me mail weekly DFW Aug 2019 #10
So far we've only received mailings matt819 Aug 2019 #12
Look up NO MO ROBO nykym Aug 2019 #13
Thanks, I'll look into it. phylny Aug 2019 #25
Now you see customerserviceguy Aug 2019 #16
Thanks, every other carrier except Verizon has very poor service here, phylny Aug 2019 #24
I had a landline phone customerserviceguy Aug 2019 #37
If they're legitimate companies, they won't call if you have a DO NOT CALL registration... brooklynite Aug 2019 #17
It's worth a try ... here's the URL CloudWatcher Aug 2019 #18
Also, if they are legit, they won't be spoofing other people's phone numbers. TheBlackAdder Aug 2019 #20
I keep them on the phone for a few minutes and then say, call again so I can waste more of your time TheBlackAdder Aug 2019 #19
this may or may not help pangaia Aug 2019 #27
This number has been on the do not call registry since 2007. phylny Aug 2019 #34
I am glad you get your supplemental insurance through his company, but a lot of people don't, and still_one Aug 2019 #28
Thanks for your advice. phylny Aug 2019 #33
I wouldn't either. It isn't the trust I meant to infer, but more the reminder to people who might still_one Aug 2019 #39
The calls should slow down after December 7, I think, Patterson Aug 2019 #35
WE GET PROB 3 CALLS ON THE LANDLINE .... and hubby gets calls on cell EVERY day trueblue2007 Aug 2019 #38
You can buy a landline with a call block feature Revanchist Aug 2019 #42
When you have spare time to kill.... and get a human keithbvadu2 Aug 2019 #44
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