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In reply to the discussion: Maryland family asked to leave Outback Steakhouse because son with special needs was too loud [View all]radius777
(3,921 posts)38. Agree with your sentiment.
Most people are middle class and make sacrifices to have a night out, have their own issues, want to celebrate their own occasions, etc. When other customers are disruptive (no matter how 'justifiable' that disruption may be) it completely destroys the atmosphere, making the outing worthless.
I get the issue of having more understanding about kids, disabled, elderly, etc. But in many such cases I've seen it's because the individual didn't want to be there, that the adult/caretaker wasn't attending to them, etc.
Some restaurants have separate 'family' sections for noisy situations, seems to work well. There are also louder restaurants where noise from any one person will just blend in. Background music helps to even out the noise as well.
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Maryland family asked to leave Outback Steakhouse because son with special needs was too loud [View all]
Floyd R. Turbo
Aug 2019
OP
A four year old too loud? More likely a geezer with no tolerance for anyone.
marble falls
Aug 2019
#1
What if they use an scenario irrelevant to the OP illustrate a petulant point?
LanternWaste
Aug 2019
#23
You and I feel pretty much the same on this issue. We're both geezers, and politeness
Nay
Aug 2019
#9
Again, I agree with everything you say here, too. I certainly have sympathy for the parents,
Nay
Aug 2019
#16
Several years ago, my amily took me to celebrate my birthday in this restaurant
lunamagica
Aug 2019
#6
The child defenetly didn't want to be there. Her screams weren't of joy or involuntary. She was
lunamagica
Aug 2019
#44
There are places that screaming isn't appropriate, regardless of the reason.
Captain Stern
Aug 2019
#39
Wow - now three responses that favor shuffling people with disabilities off into the closet
Ms. Toad
Aug 2019
#31
While I do have a certain amount of sympathy for the parents, I think it's unfair on the other
OnDoutside
Aug 2019
#20