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In reply to the discussion: Men now avoid women at work - another sign we're being punished for #MeToo [View all]maxrandb
(17,343 posts)A senior officer once told me that I should never be behind closed doors with a female Sailor. I told him that was bullshit.
As a department head, I often had to counsel Sailors privately... the whole praise in public-criticize in private thing.
Anyway, I was able to tell him that because I was a Mustang Officer...an LDO that advanced to Senior Chief as an enlisted, and earned a commission as a Navy Officer...we didn't take much shit, even from senior officers.
I always believed and tried to demonstrate that you didn't treat women differently... you treated all your folks simply as Sailors.
I also firmly believed that my reputation and my record would insulate me from any false claims of harrassment or discrimination.
Know what I found out? If you treat people with respect and dignity... you have nothing to worry about.