Personal trainer tells woman she's 'way too heavy' for his class

[Phoenix61]

36. He's not a therapist. He's a trainer who

teaches a class that is geared for people who are in shape but want to push it to the next level. Think Cross Fit with a drill instructor. This was a private Facebook messenger exchange. The only way it started was she messaged him. I’ve been to a lot of gyms over the years. They all have info on every class and all of them list good for beginner, or push it to the next level etc. How do you think it would have gone if he had said “Sure, love to have you.” Yeah, he could have said “You don’t appear to be at the level of fitness required for this class” and she would have asked why and it would have still come down to her weight. So everyone is angry because they feel he fat shamed her in private but are completely cool with her shaming him for a lack of education and people skills in public. Personally, I don’t think I’d like to hang out with either one of them.