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ChildOfTheFort

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30. I keep telling people who want to know....
Mon Oct 28, 2019, 07:22 PM
Oct 2019

but nobody believes me. I grew up in Mayberry with Andy and Opie. No, not the one in the tv show but my own Mayberry in my own childhood that was so similar to Opies that I can still hear the criclets and the frogs and smell the livestock over the fence. There was a tiny general store smaller than the one in the Waltons about 45 feet away from our home and it had a potbelly stove in the back for winter days where farmers and friends gathered to talk after dark. There was a big candy counter in the front and almost every family, about 20 or so, had accounts they paid once a month. I don't remember ever locking a door or not knowing everybodys name. There was a church and a school with all 12 grades in one building and the basketball team and baseball team and track team all had local championship trophies that are still there in a beautiful hand built display where the ball diamond used to be before it was all torn down. It was heaven but nobody knew it. It still is only now I do know it and I drive by there often and shut the car off and listen for the cheer squads and the the crickets and the silence over
head. I visit it in my mind everyday of my life no matter where I am or what I am doing. I wish the property I grew up in was for sale but it isn't. I would go to the back yard and toss an old blanket on the yard in the dark and look up at the Milky Way with my dad the way we used to do until

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My 95 year old aunt [View all] evertonfc Oct 2019 OP
Good advice! nt SWBTATTReg Oct 2019 #1
I go outside every day for at least an hour no matter what the weather is like. 2naSalit Oct 2019 #2
Well, it's easier to do when you're not a person of color. Baitball Blogger Oct 2019 #3
THIS soldierant Oct 2019 #12
. Baitball Blogger Oct 2019 #14
That's true, but her wise advice still holds for everyone, even people of color StarfishSaver Oct 2019 #15
+1000000! SammyWinstonJack Oct 2019 #27
yeah Demovictory9 Oct 2019 #22
I think I love your aunt FakeNoose Oct 2019 #4
"Live free of angst & fear" excellent. Don't turn fear into angst. Have courage Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2019 #5
Please send your aunt lots of DU love and respect for her wisdom you've passed along to us. KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2019 #6
She makes a good point but there is one big difference between now and the past: StevieM Oct 2019 #7
Exactly nini Oct 2019 #11
There are people alive today, including my 90+-year-old father a d probably Evertonfc's auntie StarfishSaver Oct 2019 #17
I see your points. He is some additional perspective. StevieM Oct 2019 #19
The backlash hasn't taken us anywhere close to where we were before StarfishSaver Oct 2019 #21
As to your last point, Turin_C3PO Oct 2019 #25
What does she eat? I need some!❤ Karadeniz Oct 2019 #8
Great advice, from someone who's lived through so much change. Gumboot Oct 2019 #9
"thought life was better lived in person, rather than watched on TV" renate Oct 2019 #10
She is SO right. StarfishSaver Oct 2019 #13
If only I could believe this. demigoddess Oct 2019 #16
If only. SammyWinstonJack Oct 2019 #28
Thanks for letting us be around your aunt! NBachers Oct 2019 #18
Thank your aunt for this wonderful perspective and please give her a hug from me. nt crickets Oct 2019 #20
i wish i knew what my great-aunt would have called trump. i think she called georgee an ass whistle pansypoo53219 Oct 2019 #23
Jon Meacham's book, "The Soul of America," makes a similar point Poiuyt Oct 2019 #24
THIS Chicagogrl1 Oct 2019 #26
Thanks for sharing LittleGirl Oct 2019 #29
I keep telling people who want to know.... ChildOfTheFort Oct 2019 #30
Your 95 year old Aunt is absolutely correct Sherman A1 Oct 2019 #31
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