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Major Nikon

(36,925 posts)
30. That's how it works
Tue Nov 19, 2019, 12:48 PM
Nov 2019

It isn't a court of law and your own defense will be severely limited.

Typically they will interview you at some point. You may or may not be allowed to have a lawyer or some other representative present. If this happens and you don't, here's what I recommend to do during that interview:

1) Answer all questions truthfully and directly. If they catch you in a lie that alone is an example of lack of candor and will almost always get you fired for that reason alone.

2) Do not answer a question that wasn't asked. This seems obvious, but you'd be surprised at how many people will continue to talk when they should be shutting up. If they ask you a yes or no question, answer with simply yes or no. If they want more information they will ask follow up questions. Listen to the question carefully and answer it carefully.

3) Remember that the interview is NOT the time for you to present your defense. Usually it's conducted by a fact finder and not a decision maker. Ask to present a written defense AFTER the interview is over. Even if you are guilty of whatever it is they are accusing you of doing, you should be allowed to present mitigating factors and offers of remorse. This may make the difference between a suspension or removal. If you are guilty, then admitting your mistake and accepting atonement is the difference between an employee who is capable of learning from their mistakes and one who isn't.

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Might be a wise decision Roland99 Nov 2019 #1
I'm not allowed to speak with anyone in HR. xmas74 Nov 2019 #7
Absolutely retain an employment lawyer Johnny2X2X Nov 2019 #2
Knowing if you'd signed anything upon entering employment would be a start. Arthur_Frain Nov 2019 #3
I would start talking to an employment lawyer for sure Dem_4_Life Nov 2019 #4
It's not really that odd Major Nikon Nov 2019 #22
I don't even know the allegation against me. xmas74 Nov 2019 #25
That's how it works Major Nikon Nov 2019 #30
unless you are in Montana (and even that is limited protection) you are (unless you have a signed Celerity Nov 2019 #38
Document everything and get get a lawyer. 33taw Nov 2019 #5
You weren't told anything before being put on administrative leave? MineralMan Nov 2019 #6
I work in mental health. xmas74 Nov 2019 #9
Polish up your resume Johnny2X2X Nov 2019 #26
a labor attorney's advice is prudent. peacebuzzard Nov 2019 #8
I am not allowed to speak with anyone outside of QA. xmas74 Nov 2019 #11
several posts already are suggesting to document this event peacebuzzard Nov 2019 #12
If you haven't done so already, document every incident related to the situation that you can Floyd R. Turbo Nov 2019 #10
Get an attorney ASAP and have her/him find out more from your boss. brush Nov 2019 #13
Start looking for a new job while you are still employed and before you get a mark on your record. cbdo2007 Nov 2019 #14
That's what I would do Buckeyeblue Nov 2019 #15
I can't look while in my field. xmas74 Nov 2019 #16
I don't think it would show up in a background check since your AJT Nov 2019 #17
I work for my state government xmas74 Nov 2019 #20
None of that is on background check yet. Go now!! cbdo2007 Nov 2019 #18
I work for my state in mental health xmas74 Nov 2019 #21
It is insane that you are not allowed to speak with your human resources department. Ms. Toad Nov 2019 #19
I'm a state employee. xmas74 Nov 2019 #24
That sucks. Ms. Toad Nov 2019 #31
But they're trying to use it as an at will. xmas74 Nov 2019 #36
They are not even related. Ms. Toad Nov 2019 #39
At least talk to someone who can help you for real lunatica Nov 2019 #23
Here's what I suspect is happening Major Nikon Nov 2019 #27
Run, don't walk, to a good employment attorney. Nt spooky3 Nov 2019 #28
Two calls immediately: MyOwnPeace Nov 2019 #32
Labor Lawyer matt819 Nov 2019 #29
It appears that you are represented by a union. TidalWave46 Nov 2019 #33
Nothing xmas74 Nov 2019 #35
That isn't acceptable of your union. I would be on the phone with them daily. TidalWave46 Nov 2019 #37
As others have advised, RUN to a lawyer right now. Do not trust your employer. One standard trick OnDoutside Nov 2019 #34
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