(an aside...I have donated body to UVM for research)... but when my dad died couple of years ago I wanted to spread his ashes in a number of places where he lived in Vermont... most went to Barr Hill where my great Uncle had a farm...
https://www.nature.org/en-us/get-involved/how-to-help/places-we-protect/barr-hill-natural-area/
I also wanted to spread some ashes at a homestead where he grew up... now a very popular brewery in rural Vermont
https://hillfarmstead.com/
the owner of the brewery is my second cousin and I went there on a busy day with my brother, and kids... we couldn't find my cousin and needed to do the deed so we could be on our way (after having a few beers) I decided to sneakily throw out a few of the ashes in front of the old homestead (now his house)… in the midst of throwing the ashes I saw him running out to meet me, him looking very angry thinking some weirdo was casting a spell on his house, until he recognized who we were... he was ok at that point but it was a good story to tell
the moral of the story... "don't ask, don't tell" 
the ashes in the wind at Barr Hill...
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