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phillyjim

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43. Santorum's question is one we should consider
Fri Jan 6, 2012, 11:19 AM
Jan 2012

I am entirely in favor of gay marriage. However, I think that Santorum raises a perfectly legitimate question that cultural liberals (including myself) will eventually have to answer. Santorum probably believes that by asking “Why shouldn’t three men be allowed to get married?” he has offered a reduction to absurdity against gay marriage. In this, I think he is mistaken. At the same time, the question is legitimate and it is important. Discarding the traditional restrictions on marriage (i.e., one man, one woman) forces us to ask what sorts of restrictions on marriage remain justified and why. And we should also keep in mind that many of those who have advocated gay marriage have gone beyond utilitarian arguments that claim that happiness or welfare would be increased by making gay marriage legal. They have claimed that gay men and lesbians have a basic right to marry. It is fair to ask, then, why three men or one woman and two men do not have the same basic right. Trying to answer questions like these can help us to clarify our views on the foundations of rights. We might be surprised to discover that our views imply that three men or three women do or should have such a right. Santorum’s question should not be dismissed as silly or irrelevant. It should be thoughtfully answered. Eventually it may become an active political question.

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Tell me Rick... Why not a man and two women? Ohio Joe Jan 2012 #1
I don't think that is a part of his fantasy... NorthCarolina Jan 2012 #48
Maybe Santorum is taking a wack at Mitt since Mitt's Granddad was a polygamist?n/t cottage10 Jan 2012 #2
No doubt he was taking a whack at Romney justiceischeap Jan 2012 #3
someone needs to ask him if it is normal for a heterosexual man to talk about roguevalley Jan 2012 #46
Agree with Roguevalley - Santorum is waaaayyyyy to worried about homosexual sex powergirl Jan 2012 #49
kick (eom) justiceischeap Jan 2012 #4
I don't think Santorum could handle New Englanders. RoccoR5955 Jan 2012 #5
here is the problem I have with these arguments... ejpoeta Jan 2012 #6
The state nor the federal government should be legislating religious beliefs... MrMickeysMom Jan 2012 #21
Why does government license marriage? quaker bill Jan 2012 #32
Marriage is a private contract meaculpa2011 Jan 2012 #36
you don't need the state for a marriage. I was with my husband ten years before we got married. ejpoeta Jan 2012 #37
States started issuing marriage licenses in the 1930's, or thereabouts for most states to prevent AtheistCrusader Jan 2012 #44
I agree ... like your post, but Ship of Fools Jan 2012 #34
There is no difference Aerows Jan 2012 #38
Maybe Rick was talking about Newt!!! JoePhilly Jan 2012 #7
Rick, "It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart." tclambert Jan 2012 #8
My question...(which I'll ask this weekend in NH if I get a chance) is... brooklynite Jan 2012 #9
If a heterosexual marriage is threatened by a homosexual marriage... Aerows Jan 2012 #39
Recommended. William769 Jan 2012 #10
Well, Rick... polmaven Jan 2012 #11
Dear Rick Santorum: Nobody fucking asked you, creep! Quantess Jan 2012 #12
"get your nose out of my crotch!"---and hey, Rick, that goes for my reproductive rights, too! wordpix Jan 2012 #14
Post removed Post removed Jan 2012 #18
Gay marriage is controversial mr_liberal Jan 2012 #13
The only people who oppose gay marriage are homophobic bigots Bjorn Against Jan 2012 #16
And speaking of inter-racial marriage Aerows Jan 2012 #40
Gay marriage is controversial? Bohunk68 Jan 2012 #29
Welcome to DU! Quantess Jan 2012 #35
Thanks for the welcome Bohunk68 Jan 2012 #52
If gay marriage is controversial Aerows Jan 2012 #41
Polling would suggest that you are completely wrong. JackBeck Jan 2012 #51
I just wish one person would answer him back when he starts that EC Jan 2012 #15
Guillain Barre Syndrome paulissa Jan 2012 #17
I'll bet Frothy the Santorum doesn't care about people with guillaine barre syndrome Quantess Jan 2012 #19
Probably not a bad thing... WillParkinson Jan 2012 #27
I mean… REALLY! What the fuck is this man's problem? MrScorpio Jan 2012 #20
Indeed, especially considering that he lost liberalhistorian Jan 2012 #25
His face is so slanted Aerows Jan 2012 #42
LOL. Sounds like the start of a raunchy Santorum joke. Quantess Jan 2012 #50
Santorum continues to protest too much. mia Jan 2012 #22
An interesting post from Huff Post usrname Jan 2012 #23
but what is the right answer to his and others' response? OhioBlue Jan 2012 #24
Human Rights Campaign is a great resource for strengthening your argument. great white snark Jan 2012 #33
he was also booed for expressing opposition to cannabis law reform n/t RainDog Jan 2012 #26
I think establishment Republicans, and their people in power- cecilfirefox Jan 2012 #28
Exactly! Even young repubs are like, "What's the big deal?" justiceischeap Jan 2012 #30
It was just a matter of time unionworks Jan 2012 #31
Santorum's question is one we should consider phillyjim Jan 2012 #43
The slippery slope fallacy justiceischeap Jan 2012 #45
Santorum's comments raise important questions phillyjim Jan 2012 #53
He doesn't bring up valid questions at all justiceischeap Jan 2012 #54
Kick! sarcasmo Jan 2012 #47
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