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WiffenPoof

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Sat Sep 8, 2012, 11:47 PM Sep 2012

My Encounter With A Right Wingnut [View all]

I arrived for my doctor's appointment a little early. I'm getting to the age where I need to start having a bunch of weird tests and stuff. Let me tell you, getting old isn't for cowards. I was the only one in the waiting room when two middle-aged women enter the room. Once they settled in, one of them said in a really loud voice something to the effect that her disability was taken away because of "Obamacare." She continued to bash the President at a level I had rarely seen. I bit my tongue for as long as I could and finally asked her a very specific question. I asked just how is it the case that Obama took away her disability. This was news to me. I asked in a very polite manner. Before she could answer me, the other woman said in an elevated voice...Oh, you're one of those people. You support Obama. I stated that I was a proud Democrat and that I did indeed support the President. She launched into a tirade about how Obama is a Socialist and that I must be a Socialist myself if I support him. I'm telling you I could not get a word in edgewise...she continued her rant stating that he is ruining the country because of all the social programs and the money he is spending. She said that when Bush was in office, gas was only $1.85...since Obama took over, she is paying $4.50. I asked her how it is the President's fault that gas has gone through the ceiling. I also asked her if she was aware that Exxon generated record profits while they still receive tax dollars from the government. It was like she never even heard me. She continued on. I finally told her that it is important that we all educate ourselves on the issues before we form an opinion. She said that she did educate herself. I told her that it sounded as if she got her education from Fox News. She asked me what's wrong with that? The more she talked the angrier she got. I honestly thought she was going to physically attack me. Then she stated that all the Democrats want is to get everything for free and not work for it. They're a bunch of lazy freeloaders. I told her that her statement simply isn't true. I for one believe that some people need a hand up and not a handout. She continued on as if I hadn't said anything. She then stated again that more people are on food stamps than ever before and that the President is the "food stamp president.". I told her...you think that might be due to the worst economy since the Depression? No answer. She added to her statement that all Obama wants is to turn this country into a welfare state where everyone is on the government dole. Once she took a breath, I asked her this question: If Obama wants everyone on the government dole, then why is it that your friend is having her disability taken away (because of Obama). She couldn't answer me. I added that I believe that we have a social contract to those who are less fortunate than we are. I suppose you would think I'm some sort of Socialist for believing that. She said...no, your not a Socialist, you're and idiot. Ah, I said. Now we are name calling. She said, I'm not name calling. If I were name calling, I would call you a "fucking idiot." Well, I had enough. I realized that there was nothing I could say or do that would make any sort of impact.

To be honest, I was quite upset about the whole incident. In fact, I was shaken and very disturbed to think that there are people out there that honestly do not "get it." That there are people that are that uneducated and believe everything that Limbaugh, Beck and Fox says. I honestly don't know if we will find our way back.

I've had a couple of days to think about the incident and I'm faced with a choice of crawling back in my hole and let the uneducated remain that way...or I could fight. Right now, I'm too depressed to fight. I feel a sense of hopelessness concerning our country. I'm sorry. I wish I felt differently.

-P

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My Encounter With A Right Wingnut [View all] WiffenPoof Sep 2012 OP
The Right Wing nuts will always be with us... CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2012 #1
something tells me you are not in Texas Skittles Sep 2012 #2
Yes, You Are Right WiffenPoof Sep 2012 #3
I know it is disturbing Skittles Sep 2012 #4
I love my state, but unfortunately it's true Ishoutandscream2 Sep 2012 #31
I WILL SAY, however: Skittles Sep 2012 #36
it will get worse before it gets better grasswire Sep 2012 #5
I agree that it will get worse before it gets better. Mariana Sep 2012 #18
They said this same crap when he first won Lilyeye Sep 2012 #23
"My aunt was afraid just like you are. She died with Alzheimer's" grasswire Sep 2012 #6
No, I suppose not....n/t WiffenPoof Sep 2012 #7
I've come to the conclusion that it's hopeless to argue The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2012 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author freshwest Sep 2012 #29
great, I run a charity function and my best volunteer is a right wing nut. hollysmom Sep 2012 #9
My experiences with RW nuts in my family Mariana Sep 2012 #21
My volunteer is very sincere. hollysmom Sep 2012 #30
You could have had an effect treestar Sep 2012 #10
I'm very sorry to hear this, WiffenPoof. elleng Sep 2012 #11
I usually just go crazy myself Victor_c3 Sep 2012 #12
I just hope abolugi Sep 2012 #13
"Are you sure you have the right doctor's office?" GoCubsGo Sep 2012 #14
+1000 PADemD Sep 2012 #19
With a big smile on my face I look them in the eye and say very nicely: "You are adorable." TeamPooka Sep 2012 #15
LOL! reminds me of when Cha Sep 2012 #17
I understand how you feel... virgdem Sep 2012 #16
+1 Victor_c3 Sep 2012 #40
Be positive! Kath1 Sep 2012 #20
The best we can do is the best we can do. LiberalAndProud Sep 2012 #22
Sadly, that is how it is with those idiots Lilyeye Sep 2012 #24
Needs paragraphing. Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2012 #25
Forgive them. They know not what they do. But: Let them spew & feed it back to them word for word. Bernardo de La Paz Sep 2012 #26
I always carry my little iPod with me when I am going to be in a waiting room.... Tikki Sep 2012 #27
That woman was unconscionably rude Warpy Sep 2012 #28
I usually tell people like that onethatcares Sep 2012 #32
These people always think they can get away with spewing their RW filth in public Raine Sep 2012 #33
I am completely stuck at the place SheilaT Sep 2012 #34
SSDI drops at age 65 when retirement kicks in kickysnana Sep 2012 #41
Yeah, it's amazingly complicated. SheilaT Sep 2012 #45
"Would you bet your life?" The Doctor. Sep 2012 #35
I had a conversation with one last night said Obama is a Muslim and a Communist. RiffRandell Sep 2012 #37
I have 1 friend who keeps on with the "Birther" shit............ kooljerk666 Sep 2012 #38
I think the problem here was this person wasn't so much jp11 Sep 2012 #39
But, Romney could win. stufl Sep 2012 #42
typical republican argument, TALK LOUDER PEOPLE WILL BELIEVE YOU!!!!! Heather MC Sep 2012 #43
sooooo...she's just pissed because he's black noiretextatique Sep 2012 #44
I think that over the years - in order to sustain the emotional high of right-wing ideology they Douglas Carpenter Sep 2012 #46
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