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justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
54. He doesn't bring up valid questions at all
Sat Jan 7, 2012, 09:55 AM
Jan 2012

According to the bible (which Santorum bases all his opinions he wants to force on other people on), polygamy was, not only legal but encouraged as was having concubines. The bible also says it's okay to have sex with blood relatives and that marrying 11-13 yr old girls was common place. As society evolved, public opinion said those things are wrong -- basically because we started populating the world and men didn't need to have multiple places to "spill his seed." Society now has a better understanding of homosexuality and that we aren't what they thought we once were, deviants out to bang anything that moves. We want the same things straight people do, so society has changed their opinion that allowing marriage equality is a good thing.

If society later decides that polygamy isn't a bad thing (again), then society will make that decision but trying to compare a loving relationship of two people to the slippery slope fallacy is just another way to argue that homosexuality is bad and homosexuals don't deserve to be treated equally. Personally, I think polyamorous relationships aren't always a bad thing, as long as all involved want to be involved; it isn't for me but if all adults are consenting, then far be it for me tell them how to structure their relationships. But there really is no comparison between 2 people wanting to get married and polygamy. They are 2 entirely different things and as a lesbian, I'm tired of being compared to polygamists, pedophiles and folks who are into bestiality just to argue that I don't deserve the same rights as everyone else.

Edited to add:

Also, sexual orientation is the direction of a persons emotional and physical desire, toward people of the opposite sex, same sex, or both sexes. Whereas, polygamy, pedophilia, bestiality and incest are all examples of sexual behavior. There, as we know it now, are only 2 known sexual orientations--hetero and homo-sexual. Right now, we don't have any laws granting privilege based on sexual behavior but we DO have laws granting privilege based on sexual orientation (but only for heterosexual orientation). So, really, the argument about polygamy is apples and oranges.

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Tell me Rick... Why not a man and two women? Ohio Joe Jan 2012 #1
I don't think that is a part of his fantasy... NorthCarolina Jan 2012 #48
Maybe Santorum is taking a wack at Mitt since Mitt's Granddad was a polygamist?n/t cottage10 Jan 2012 #2
No doubt he was taking a whack at Romney justiceischeap Jan 2012 #3
someone needs to ask him if it is normal for a heterosexual man to talk about roguevalley Jan 2012 #46
Agree with Roguevalley - Santorum is waaaayyyyy to worried about homosexual sex powergirl Jan 2012 #49
kick (eom) justiceischeap Jan 2012 #4
I don't think Santorum could handle New Englanders. RoccoR5955 Jan 2012 #5
here is the problem I have with these arguments... ejpoeta Jan 2012 #6
The state nor the federal government should be legislating religious beliefs... MrMickeysMom Jan 2012 #21
Why does government license marriage? quaker bill Jan 2012 #32
Marriage is a private contract meaculpa2011 Jan 2012 #36
you don't need the state for a marriage. I was with my husband ten years before we got married. ejpoeta Jan 2012 #37
States started issuing marriage licenses in the 1930's, or thereabouts for most states to prevent AtheistCrusader Jan 2012 #44
I agree ... like your post, but Ship of Fools Jan 2012 #34
There is no difference Aerows Jan 2012 #38
Maybe Rick was talking about Newt!!! JoePhilly Jan 2012 #7
Rick, "It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart." tclambert Jan 2012 #8
My question...(which I'll ask this weekend in NH if I get a chance) is... brooklynite Jan 2012 #9
If a heterosexual marriage is threatened by a homosexual marriage... Aerows Jan 2012 #39
Recommended. William769 Jan 2012 #10
Well, Rick... polmaven Jan 2012 #11
Dear Rick Santorum: Nobody fucking asked you, creep! Quantess Jan 2012 #12
"get your nose out of my crotch!"---and hey, Rick, that goes for my reproductive rights, too! wordpix Jan 2012 #14
Post removed Post removed Jan 2012 #18
Gay marriage is controversial mr_liberal Jan 2012 #13
The only people who oppose gay marriage are homophobic bigots Bjorn Against Jan 2012 #16
And speaking of inter-racial marriage Aerows Jan 2012 #40
Gay marriage is controversial? Bohunk68 Jan 2012 #29
Welcome to DU! Quantess Jan 2012 #35
Thanks for the welcome Bohunk68 Jan 2012 #52
If gay marriage is controversial Aerows Jan 2012 #41
Polling would suggest that you are completely wrong. JackBeck Jan 2012 #51
I just wish one person would answer him back when he starts that EC Jan 2012 #15
Guillain Barre Syndrome paulissa Jan 2012 #17
I'll bet Frothy the Santorum doesn't care about people with guillaine barre syndrome Quantess Jan 2012 #19
Probably not a bad thing... WillParkinson Jan 2012 #27
I mean… REALLY! What the fuck is this man's problem? MrScorpio Jan 2012 #20
Indeed, especially considering that he lost liberalhistorian Jan 2012 #25
His face is so slanted Aerows Jan 2012 #42
LOL. Sounds like the start of a raunchy Santorum joke. Quantess Jan 2012 #50
Santorum continues to protest too much. mia Jan 2012 #22
An interesting post from Huff Post usrname Jan 2012 #23
but what is the right answer to his and others' response? OhioBlue Jan 2012 #24
Human Rights Campaign is a great resource for strengthening your argument. great white snark Jan 2012 #33
he was also booed for expressing opposition to cannabis law reform n/t RainDog Jan 2012 #26
I think establishment Republicans, and their people in power- cecilfirefox Jan 2012 #28
Exactly! Even young repubs are like, "What's the big deal?" justiceischeap Jan 2012 #30
It was just a matter of time unionworks Jan 2012 #31
Santorum's question is one we should consider phillyjim Jan 2012 #43
The slippery slope fallacy justiceischeap Jan 2012 #45
Santorum's comments raise important questions phillyjim Jan 2012 #53
He doesn't bring up valid questions at all justiceischeap Jan 2012 #54
Kick! sarcasmo Jan 2012 #47
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