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maxsolomon

(38,108 posts)
32. I'd wager she thinks you're idealistic and naive.
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 06:25 PM
Apr 2020

And that the Ends (not being afraid of Muslims) justify the Means (killing and torturing them).

It's lazy thinking we're fighting.

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If it were me, I would just ignore her and see what happens. You can't RKP5637 Apr 2020 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author Sherman A1 Apr 2020 #2
You don't need to be right. It is a time of great strain, lots of families squabbling, but we need emmaverybo Apr 2020 #3
Exactly Raine Apr 2020 #12
I respectfully disagree. MLAA Apr 2020 #41
"Agree to disagree" is another way of accepting "alternative facts". Hermit-The-Prog Apr 2020 #31
Disagreeing is not accepting anything. One can still maintain close relationships while not seeing emmaverybo Apr 2020 #57
Right. It's just politics. I didn't light the ovens. Hermit-The-Prog Apr 2020 #58
Terribly sorry to hear what happened between you and your sister. Light63 Apr 2020 #4
There come a point when you just have to bail on them CanonRay Apr 2020 #5
Exactly see my response above. MLAA Apr 2020 #44
I definitely would not call her back. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2020 #6
You'll both get over it. She needed to hear that. coti Apr 2020 #7
Hanging up was a sign of defeat, on her part Siwsan Apr 2020 #8
Why torture yourself? Call a friend you like to talk to. dem4decades Apr 2020 #9
They say you can't choose your family. Aristus Apr 2020 #10
You can choose your family kairos12 Apr 2020 #20
Right!!! Absolutely! Sure you can't pick your family, but you certainly can decide who to deal w/ SWBTATTReg Apr 2020 #21
I agree with you to a good extent. Caliman73 Apr 2020 #39
Stand your ground Gothmog Apr 2020 #11
I have a sister, too. indigoth Apr 2020 #13
I'd wager she thinks you're idealistic and naive. maxsolomon Apr 2020 #32
Lazy thinking and social conditioning. Caliman73 Apr 2020 #40
That's so discouraging morillon Apr 2020 #14
I find that most people that are cut off, due to their mouths, continue to do it w/ others in their SWBTATTReg Apr 2020 #22
If she broke the contact then she was clearly more procon Apr 2020 #15
Ignore her. Jirel Apr 2020 #16
Agree. I had never heard the saying about 1 / 11 nazis at the table, it is perfect. MLAA Apr 2020 #45
I would ignore her. She should have respected you enough to listen to your side of the story SWBTATTReg Apr 2020 #17
Do what makes you feel okay with yourself eleny Apr 2020 #18
In my case, I'd be extremely blunt, possibly to the point of rudeness sakabatou Apr 2020 #19
Ignore her. roamer65 Apr 2020 #23
Abortion is a wedge issue exploited to death by Reaperpublicons. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #24
Ask her to point to the passages in the Bible that denounce abortion and I'll give the counter. TheBlackAdder Apr 2020 #38
You can't control her. You controlled your speaking to the point of the matter Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #25
If she's so opposed to Abortion, maxsolomon Apr 2020 #26
My sister was, maybe still is, a republican matt819 Apr 2020 #27
Send her this...as of today: 37,079 covid19 deaths; 708,777 cases in U.S. @link RestoreAmerica2020 Apr 2020 #28
Treat it like any other family fight or fallout lunatica Apr 2020 #29
Your sister's an asshole greenjar_01 Apr 2020 #30
Fmily is still family,,,so,,,, musicman65 Apr 2020 #33
My sister and I have had.. stillcool Apr 2020 #34
This is a major moment in Trump perfidy. Let her think about it for a while, a few days. enough Apr 2020 #35
I would love to know how many abortions Trump has paid for........ Tenngal Apr 2020 #36
I would go plant a Biden 2020 sign in her yard gopiscrap Apr 2020 #37
These times are stressful and anomalous. Any conversation - if 'final' (even for a short time) ... salin Apr 2020 #42
I wouldn't argue with a stranger at a bar over politics. HeartachesNhangovers Apr 2020 #43
You've been putting up with her, she hasn't been putting up with you bucolic_frolic Apr 2020 #46
Cut her loose... the_sly_pig Apr 2020 #47
People like her aren't harmless anymore, they're literally getting us killed, via Trump. SunSeeker Apr 2020 #48
My brother and sister both went to the dark side years ago. WVreaper Apr 2020 #49
What Would *I* Do? JGug1 Apr 2020 #50
I would never let politics come between a sibling and myself. totodeinhere Apr 2020 #51
I had the same issue with my brother... dixiechiken1 Apr 2020 #52
So well expressed and gives us something to really think about. emmaverybo Apr 2020 #59
I've no spoken to my sister... paleotn Apr 2020 #53
I would never bring up politics with a close relative Steelrolled Apr 2020 #54
Call her back and make-up, agree to not discuss politics ever again Marrah_Goodman Apr 2020 #55
My old family back in the southeast (parents, siblings, cousins) disowned me years ago. spike jones Apr 2020 #56
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