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In reply to the discussion: I'm out of here. [View all]

KatyMan

(4,332 posts)
56. This is very true
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:01 PM
Apr 2020

We lived in the UK 2 different times for a total of about 6 years and Ireland for 2, 2000-01. It's a beautiful place and the people are the nicest you'll ever meet.
But--
You don't realize how much you don't know about a foreign country even one that speaks your language. How do you rent a place? How to get a driving license? What are taxes like or insurance? Where do you buy furniture? When we were in Ireland, there were no big stores like Rooms to Go or anything, you had to find the tiny furniture stores in town (unless you're in Dublin). And delivery takes for ever. We always referred to it as "Irish time". Make an appointment on Tuesday for them to come fill your propane for heating and they say they'll be there Thursday. They mean next Thursday. We bought some furniture and they told us it would be 7 weeks for delivery. The order was placed on a Friday. So, on the Wednesday seven weeks later I called them and they said "well, it hasn't quite been 7 weeks yet has it?"

The weather: Wet. 1000 shades of green? No, 1000 shades of gray. Slate gray skies from Sept to probably April or May. In fall and winter, sun comes up around 9 or so in the morning and it's dark by 4pm. On the plus side, in the summer the sun doesn't set until about 10 and doesn't get dark until 11. It rains a lot, but they call it a 'soft' rain, very misty. And cold.

Driving: Learn to drive a stick. You have to have a car unless you live in a place like Dublin or Cork where they have buses. The roads can be narrow--two way roads that are barely big enough for one car. Plus you're on the other side of the road on two lane streets. That's not hard to get used to though--always make sure when turning your passenger side is toward the curb. But, you'll likely still have to learn to drive, as the bus and train systems aren't quite what they are in the rest of Europe. May have improved some, but we looked into moving back a year or two ago and things seemed mostly the same.

If you have pets, there are restrictions on bringing them over. It may be different now, but back then they had to quarantine in the US for 6 months before they could be shipped over. And airlines only fly pets at certain times of year ao timing is important.

Money: if you're working, prepare for a salary shock. They don't pay near the same amount there as here. Mrs KM is retiring soon and we were thinking of going back to Ireland. I would still be working. For my position, the salary was less than half. Not giving my numbers, just as an example, if one makes say $50k, here, over there the same job would probably pay 20k in euros. And everything is way more expensive.


I'm not trying to dissuade you at all, just want to reiterate what DFW was saying--it's really really different over there. It's not easy to move countries, but it's an awesome experience, and to tell you the truth Mrs KatyMan and I would move back there tomorrow and never look back!

On another note, I though you had to be in country to get your citizenship nowadays? In 98 I did mine by mail, but I thought it changed. It was hard to chase down all the docs but this was before everything was online.

Good luck, all the best, and if you can be easygoing about the changes to lifestyle and all, you'll absolutely love it!

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I'm out of here. [View all] FightingIrish Apr 2020 OP
Lucky you... Freedomofspeech Apr 2020 #1
Okay. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2020 #2
The election this fall is a referendum on the America people not Trump. Yavin4 Apr 2020 #3
A referendum on civil war... imo the_sly_pig Apr 2020 #77
We'll miss you. Kind of hope you'll stay until the election. Ilsa Apr 2020 #4
Good luck... Mike Nelson Apr 2020 #5
Sure can't blame you. Hermit-The-Prog Apr 2020 #6
I don't blame you, and best wishes! Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #7
Can you adopt? gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #8
I want to be adopted and taken to Ireland too. Jamastiene Apr 2020 #65
I'm 49, have a great job, and will make you a proud Dad! AllTooEasy Apr 2020 #70
Me too! orangecrush Apr 2020 #108
My relatives live in Inverary Castle. Does that qualify me? Frustratedlady Apr 2020 #114
Hope you stay to vote, at least! JudyM Apr 2020 #9
We'll definitely vote and campaign like hell for Biden and FightingIrish Apr 2020 #11
I could go for an older version of Niall Horan. 😍 sprinkleeninow Apr 2020 #103
I wish you and your wife the best of luck lunatica Apr 2020 #10
Stay and vote, then go CanonRay Apr 2020 #12
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Lucky! shanti Apr 2020 #13
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Can't blame you. Lady Freedom Returns Apr 2020 #15
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+1. yonder Apr 2020 #66
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I thought you were moving with your boyfriend? cwydro Apr 2020 #42
Nope, he is long gone. Sociopath. Doreen Apr 2020 #84
Godspeed and all best wishes. I'd already be gone if I could Glorfindel Apr 2020 #18
I've considered Ireland too coeur_de_lion Apr 2020 #19
I can't say that I blame you, but I hope you will vote before you go. smirkymonkey Apr 2020 #21
Glad to hear it, FightingIrish. Paladin Apr 2020 #22
Good for you.. HipChick Apr 2020 #23
A big TY for staying to vote! We need every vote for sure bluestarone Apr 2020 #24
Can you promise me 1 thing? mercuryblues Apr 2020 #25
Go and enjoy life. Even if we win in November... Patterson Apr 2020 #26
How Wonderful!!!! McKim Apr 2020 #27
You are so lucky. I'm like 98% English. sinkingfeeling Apr 2020 #28
Och that is grand, so it is Soph0571 Apr 2020 #29
I can't blame you Kaiserguy Apr 2020 #30
Good for you. I wish you the best. Lonestarblue Apr 2020 #31
The Irish are lovely peopl vapor2 Apr 2020 #32
It's not a move one makes lightly. I know. I did. DFW Apr 2020 #33
This is very true KatyMan Apr 2020 #56
Bon Voyage. nt littlemissmartypants Apr 2020 #34
We took a family vacation in Dingle, Ireland two years ago. It was delightful. johnthewoodworker Apr 2020 #35
My family missed it by a generation mcar Apr 2020 #36
Lucky you! SammyWinstonJack Apr 2020 #37
My family came from Ireland.. and have been there a number of times Peacetrain Apr 2020 #38
You are lucky that you can follow your dream. Best wishes to you and your family. riversedge Apr 2020 #39
Good luck. Know you're not alone in your feelings. Joinfortmill Apr 2020 #40
I tried to talk my mother into doing that Leith Apr 2020 #41
You wouldn't have been able to. KatyMan Apr 2020 #58
Good luck. If I were younger I'd be in Canada already. George II Apr 2020 #43
Same here. Dagstead Bumwood Apr 2020 #88
Nice. What part of Ireland? NT rufus dog Apr 2020 #44
I've always thought that the Germans who left as Hitler was consolidating his power were smart. lark Apr 2020 #45
If you need any tips or advice, let me know. OnDoutside Apr 2020 #46
Thanks, I'll look at those FightingIrish Apr 2020 #48
Ah yes, I forgot that bit ! OnDoutside Apr 2020 #49
My grandmother was from Connemara. We loved the west coast. FightingIrish Apr 2020 #67
I got my Irish citizenship and passport around 5 years ago Native Apr 2020 #87
Mayo especially is wonderful, much better than the over commercial Kerry IMO. We stayed at the OnDoutside Apr 2020 #119
My maternal True Blue American Apr 2020 #111
I've daydreamed of moving to mainland Europe ever since I was stationed in Germany Victor_c3 Apr 2020 #47
I have a cousin who did that when Dubya got reelected Warpy Apr 2020 #50
I was born in Germany, both of my parents were German... GetRidOfThem Apr 2020 #51
Sounds like the best thing for you & all the best. appalachiablue Apr 2020 #52
Good for you. Ireland sounds like a wonderful place to live. jalan48 Apr 2020 #53
One thing we know for sure is wonderful about Ireland: calimary Apr 2020 #74
Good luck getting out. cwydro Apr 2020 #54
Sounds like you're doing the right thing. Aristus Apr 2020 #55
Good for you!!! Alliepoo Apr 2020 #57
Good luck and best wishes. n/t LuckyCharms Apr 2020 #59
Slainte! I would move to Donegal in a heartbeat. My German/Polish ancestry husband loves it cornball 24 Apr 2020 #60
Best of luck to you and your wife lillypaddle Apr 2020 #61
I don't blame you one bit sdfernando Apr 2020 #62
We are staying for the election. debsy Apr 2020 #63
Will you adopt me and take me with you? Jamastiene Apr 2020 #64
Good luck! BlueJac Apr 2020 #68
I'm at least one eighth Irish. My mother's mother's father was an Irish cop in Brooklyn named... Sloumeau Apr 2020 #69
So happy for you, go for it. And you'll still be able to keep in touch with family and friends here iluvtennis Apr 2020 #71
If you do leave, please stay in touch on DU FakeNoose Apr 2020 #72
Out of Here JGug1 Apr 2020 #73
I have always admired Ireland. peacebuzzard Apr 2020 #75
Wish you were doing it for a positive reason. Hortensis Apr 2020 #76
I'm starting law school in either England or Ireland in October. I cannot wait to leave. a la izquierda Apr 2020 #78
If Trump wins, I'll send you a postcard from Australia or New Zealand AllTooEasy Apr 2020 #79
Living within 100 miles of Canada tiredtoo Apr 2020 #80
10 miles for me DownriverDem Apr 2020 #117
Now good luck to the both of you. yonder Apr 2020 #81
Wish I could join you Maeve Apr 2020 #82
I've thought about doing the same. Lucky Luciano Apr 2020 #83
Good on ya, mate. warmfeet Apr 2020 #85
I completely understand your entire reasoning for getting the hell out of here! denvine Apr 2020 #86
I'm Irish and want out of here too. Tiger8 Apr 2020 #89
I don't blame ya. Iggo Apr 2020 #90
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Stay safe and well UpInArms Apr 2020 #92
but not out of DU right? Demovictory9 Apr 2020 #93
Never FightingIrish Apr 2020 #98
May we join you? Lulu KC Apr 2020 #94
I am sorry - I wish we had your vote in November. Otherwise, I totally understand. jimlup Apr 2020 #95
Good luck to you. I'd probably do the same if I could. eppur_se_muova Apr 2020 #96
When the country you were born in turns ugly Aussie105 Apr 2020 #97
Lucky. elleng Apr 2020 #99
I absolutely understand and support your decision..... Upthevibe Apr 2020 #100
How wonderful for you! kskiska Apr 2020 #101
Good luck to you Laurelin Apr 2020 #102
Best of luck to you. luvallpeeps Apr 2020 #104
If I could I'd leave tomorrow 47of74 Apr 2020 #105
Wish I had an Irish grandmother. Best to you. Nt raccoon Apr 2020 #106
Let me know when you get here. Granny M Apr 2020 #107
dont tell my youngest about this. mopinko Apr 2020 #109
Americans are lucky to be able to choose where they live. Tracer Apr 2020 #110
Any chance of you voting first, before you leave? We will need ever one. FailureToCommunicate Apr 2020 #112
damn pamdb Apr 2020 #113
I feel your pain, FightingIrish. Unfortunately for me, my Irish ancestors came to America in 1845 generalbetrayus Apr 2020 #115
Irish and Scottish OriginalGeek Apr 2020 #116
vote before you leave.n/t MrsMatt Apr 2020 #118
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